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bigbadbill969 · 03-04-2010, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by houstonguy09

Plain racism.
But I would suggest on focusing on the Ladies who are not narrow minded.

I hope you are joking. I am white but I only see Latinas for many reasons. Does that make me racist? Or does that just make me FREE to have my preference?.....Bill

houstonguy09 · 03-04-2010, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by bigbadbill969

I hope you are joking. I am white but I only see Latinas for many reasons. Does that make me racist? Or does that just make me FREE to have my preference?.....Bill

The woman who has an NBA policy only knows it in her heart why she has such a policy.But since we have seen such discrimination in all aspects of life (No blacks in Universities allowed, No blacks allowed in the first few rows of the bus, No blacks allowed in the swimming pool ,No blacks allowed to vote, No blacks allowed to fly a plane etc.......) I am pretty sure the whole thing sounds familiar...............What about the famous law of Anti-miscegenation law..... I guess we can call all of it "preference" or bias and racism.

ibechill · 03-04-2010, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bigbadbill969

I hope you are joking. I am white but I only see Latinas for many reasons. Does that make me racist? Or does that just make me FREE to have my preference?.....Bill

What reasons would those be sir?

bigbadbill969 · 03-04-2010, 11:27 AM

They are MY reasons and they are nobodys business. This thread is about why some providers prefer to have a NBA policy not why I prefer Latinas. I am just making a point that I would not see a white provider (or any other non Latina) even if she were beautiful, well reviewed and free of charge. Does this make this white boy racist?....Bill

houstonguy09 · 03-04-2010, 11:37 AM

One thing to note is no one has the right to tell someone not to get drunk , but when he does you call him drunk - not sober, not someone who prefers to get drunk(although he does)......even though it is nobody's business.
Again I am not calling you in particular a racist. I hope you are far from it.

bigbadbill969 · 03-04-2010, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by houstonguy09

One thing to note is no one has the right to tell someone not to get drunk , but when he does you call him drunk - not sober, not someone who prefers to get drunk(although he does)......even though it is nobody's business.
Again I am not calling you in particular a racist. I hope you are far from it.

I appreciate your point but please don't make this a race thing. We as a community are far past that. These ladies have had the balls to provide many reasons as to why they have such policies even though they did not have to give any reasons. They are sharing their insite even at the risk of being labeled as racist. Does not that fact that an overwhelming vote gave us an AA president show just how far we are past all this race crap?....Bill

houstonguy09 · 03-04-2010, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by bigbadbill969

I appreciate your point but please don't make this a race thing. We as a community are far past that. These ladies have had the balls to provide many reasons as to why they have such policies even though they did not have to give any reasons. They are sharing their insite even at the risk of being labeled as racist. Does not that fact that an overwhelming vote gave us an AA president show just how far we are past all this race crap?....Bill

I hope so!! As a matter of fact I don't believe in race at all but that is just me.

ThatManFromTexas · 03-04-2010, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by CeCiLiA88

...Thank God for the pepper spray in my bra ...

Just a couple of quick questions...

1. What else do you have stashed in your undies?

2. Wanna do an Easter Egg Hunt?

3. Do you have any more stories like this one ... you know... like where the mean principal thought you had a cell phone hidden ..and did a strip search...

Ooops... Dang... ok... I'm excited any more... I'm gonna go take a nap now...

Guest042413 · 03-04-2010, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

Well, he was no GENTLEMAN if he did that. Don't take this the wrong way, but do you screen your clients? Blindly accepting calls from anyone without questioning them sets you up for failure. I'm sorry for the bad experiences you've had with BM, but all of us aren't like that. You just have to take better measures to weed out the knuckleheads....of all races.

I Tried To Screen But Guys Just Get Mad & Hang Up So I Just Go With My Gut Feeling I Wish I Could Find A Better Way Cause I Get Scared

dearhunter · 03-04-2010, 05:14 PM

C, I recommend you contact Alexis Soft Touch in PM and ask her sage advise on this issue.

She is one of the few around here who will help you without their hand out in return.

Guest042413 · 03-04-2010, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by houstonguy09

One thing to note is no one has the right to tell someone not to get drunk , but when he does you call him drunk - not sober, not someone who prefers to get drunk(although he does)......even though it is nobody's business.
Again I am not calling you in particular a racist. I hope you are far from it.

N like I have stated before women might have an nba policy but men have preferences also when looking for a provider I am sure most people dont like plus size women and some dont like women with small boobs or with no butt its all preference I wouldnt call it racist. I have lots of black friends but I just prefer not to see them in this line of work. Dont get me wrong I would see someone of that race but someone who is professional and shows me he is not someone to just come in and be stupid. You cant judge no one until you have walked in there shoes

Don T. Lukbak · 03-04-2010, 06:25 PM

You don't have to justify your preference, Cecilia. You own yourself. 100% of yourself. See whomever you want to see and don't waste your time on explanations. You do not need to explain a damn thing. It's nobody's business but yours.

ThatManFromTexas · 03-04-2010, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by CeCiLiA88

I Tried To Screen But Guys Just Get Mad & Hang Up So I Just Go With My Gut Feeling I Wish I Could Find A Better Way Cause I Get Scared

Try the folks at P411. A lot of folks use them. I have been a member for years, but don't hold that against them.

http://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm

Randall Creed · 03-04-2010, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by CeCiLiA88

I Tried To Screen But Guys Just Get Mad & Hang Up So I Just Go With My Gut Feeling I Wish I Could Find A Better Way Cause I Get Scared

If they get mad, FUCK 'EM! That let's you know right there they're probably not worth dealing with. Screening is a necessary evil in this business, and if a guy doesn't have the patience for it, he's NOT worth the trouble.

Check out p411 and use it as a screening tool. It's not perfect. The knuckleheads can still get through and set up a hobby account, but it helps to weed out some of them.

Check with other local ladies and see if they're interested in sharing an incall. That way you two can kinda look out for each other.

Be weary of ALL guys. It ain't just black men who are thuggish. Someone down the road may be counting on you being too trusting of them.

Guest042413 · 03-04-2010, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

If they get mad, FUCK 'EM! That let's you know right there they're probably not worth dealing with. Screening is a necessary evil in this business, and if a guy doesn't have the patience for it, he's NOT worth the trouble.

Check out p411 and use it as a screening tool. It's not perfect. The knuckleheads can still get through and set up a hobby account, but it helps to weed out some of them.

Check with other local ladies and see if they're interested in sharing an incall. That way you two can kinda look out for each other.

Be weary of ALL guys. It ain't just black men who are thuggish. Someone down the road may be counting on you being too trusting of them.

I have my own in call loation with a friend already & we are very cautious on who we see & we get alot of mad clients cause they make us feel uncomfrotable and so they get no HJ but I cant let money get in the way of my safety sorry