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Originally Posted by John Bull
Let's keep the lipstick off the pigs before someone gets hurt feelings and the mod has to close this down. Thanks!
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Thanks, Mr. Bull. Don't know why some people have to resort to name calling and insults. Also don't understand why people can't understand that every situation is different and unique based upon the individuals who are involved. Blanket statements, such as "no provider can make a good sugarbaby", also fall beyond my comprehension. Providers are people, in other words, each individual and unique. Yes, there are providers who are greedy, lazy and cold. There are many more who are kind, caring and generous. They are daughters, sisters and mothers. They provide a valuable service and most do so with a great attitude. Yes, there are exceptions and I believe that most of them do not last long in the marketplace. In my short time here on ECCIE, I have noticed several ladies who are articulate, bright and have a wonderful sense of humor (Tiffany Jamison, Dallas Rain, Sweet & Little and Jaycee Rivers just to name a few) who I would love to get to know over a cocktail.
As stated in previous posts, my SB is a provider. She is very low volume, only seeing a few clients other than myself (all of whom are long standing regulars, who she just did not want to stop seeing, mostly for their benefit) and I have no problem with that. Just because we have a very nice arrangement does not mean that I own her. She controls her own life. In return for a monthly allowance, I get to see her on a very frequent basis and I am always her priority. She will move things around for me if I request her to do so (which I very rarely do). We share much more than BCD time, which I would estimate at perhaps 20% of our time together. I enjoy her company and conversation every bit as much as our fantastic "play time".
As for the "why would anyone want to see a 30 year old when they can have a mid 20"s lady" question, you must be looking for something completely different than I. I don't condemn your preferences, but merely use it as an illustration of everyone having different tastes. That's why they make vanilla and chocolate, my friend. For me, the more mature lady (note, I didn't say old, I said mature) has more life experiences and is, most likely, a more intellectual companion.
Anyway, sorry to write this novel, and this will be my final post in this thread. I just want to convey that every individual and every situation or arrangement is unique and depends completely on the people involved. Please stop making blanket statements as there are exceptions to everything.
P.S. Thanks to all the hard working, caring ladies out there who are making the lives of us guys better in so many ways on a daily basis. You know who you are!!!
MYA MITCHELL
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