How do we voice our views?

[Guest011914-1]

I am wondering how we as providers voice our opinions on men we have seen without pissing people off? I am not one for drama but I have seen one in the south and NY that my comments would not be very nice and I also try and behave like a lady and avoid the drama but the more posts I see by one person I more I so want to say something. so I guess to that one person and you should know who you are this is for you.... ok i feel better..

[JustaGuyinMS]

Lovely Lady:

You have brought up an issue I've heard before. Right now, the only way you can express yourself about guys you've seen and not expect a firefight is to put it in the lady's forum as a warning to the other ladies.

I know there have been suggestions that there should be a place for providers to review clients - something that I'm not would be well received - so you might bring that up with the lady mods.

JaG

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by JustaGuyinMS

I know there have been suggestions that there should be a place for providers to review clients - something that I'm not would be well received - so you might bring that up with the lady mods.

That issue comes up regularly in the national discussion forums. Usually it degenerates into a flamefest.

Generally, it's an idea that's either loved or hated.

The men who love the idea generally think they're awesome lovers, and think that if there were a hobbyist review section, they'd get to read how they're the greatest lover since Casanova, and how they can give a woman multiple orgasms from hundreds of miles away merely by thinking about that woman. My take: they have giant egos that want to be fed (and I'm betting they might well be disappointed if they get their wish). The women who like the idea.... I dunno why they do. Mostly as a "thank you" to the guys they like, I guess.

The guys (like me) who don't like the idea don't want to read about their shortcomings between the sheets, and would prefer that information be sent to ladies backchannel rather than be aired publicly. The ladies who don't like the idea basically think that it'd hurt business; guys who get bad reviews from ladies wouldn't see them. Most likely they wouldn't be honest, anyway, for fear of hurting client feelings.

My take on the issue: client reviews exist. They're called "references". You already know how to get them, I'm sure.

Cheers,

bcg

[Guest011914-1]

i actually did a post today on references and how some females say "he is good" and I asked what the provider say and what the guys like to told about them...I always say thank you and even send thank you emails...and i doubt you have any sortcomings...

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

That issue comes up regularly in the national discussion forums. Usually it degenerates into a flamefest.

Generally, it's an idea that's either loved or hated.

The men who love the idea generally think they're awesome lovers, and think that if there were a hobbyist review section, they'd get to read how they're the greatest lover since Casanova, and how they can give a woman multiple orgasms from hundreds of miles away merely by thinking about that woman. My take: they have giant egos that want to be fed (and I'm betting they might well be disappointed if they get their wish). The women who like the idea.... I dunno why they do. Mostly as a "thank you" to the guys they like, I guess.

The guys (like me) who don't like the idea don't want to read about their shortcomings between the sheets, and would prefer that information be sent to ladies backchannel rather than be aired publicly. The ladies who don't like the idea basically think that it'd hurt business; guys who get bad reviews from ladies wouldn't see them. Most likely they wouldn't be honest, anyway, for fear of hurting client feelings.

My take on the issue: client reviews exist. They're called "references". You already know how to get them, I'm sure.

Cheers,

bcg

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

i actually did a post today on references and how some females say "he is good" and I asked what the provider say and what the guys like to told about them...I always say thank you and even send thank you emails...and i doubt you have any sortcomings...

I'll make you a deal... I'll come make a visit to Dothan, and we'll spend a long time together. If you discover that I have any shortcomings, I expect you to point them out and help me improve.

Cheers,

bcg

[Bigfatrat]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I'll make you a deal... I'll come make a visit to Dothan, and we'll spend a long time together. If you discover that I have any shortcomings, I expect you to point them out and help me improve.

Cheers,

bcg

Careful boy, you read the BJQ thread. That very thing just occured till the thread was closed. She said I was a staker and had a short coming. Now I'm out seeing the young 20 year old with doubts about my manhood. LOL
Best to keep the fantasy away from reality.

And Irish, I'm a slut for gossip. You can always PM some of us. I'd love to know the real pricks on here.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by Bigfatrat

Careful boy, you read the BJQ thread.

Your humor detector may need recalibration.

Cheers,

bcg

[Guest011914-1]

how could anyone doubt your manhood?

Originally Posted by Bigfatrat

Careful boy, you read the BJQ thread. That very thing just occured till the thread was closed. She said I was a staker and had a short coming. Now I'm out seeing the young 20 year old with doubts about my manhood. LOL
Best to keep the fantasy away from reality.

And Irish, I'm a slut for gossip. You can always PM some of us. I'd love to know the real pricks on here.