Ladies - what stops a repeat encounter

[BigMikeinKC]

Ladies - Aside from the obvious, poor hygeine and short changing, is there anything else that will cause you not to accept a 2nd visit from a client?

[DallasRain]

bad attitude!

[MsElena]

If he keeps asking for a service that isn't offered......haggling over the price.

[Taylorsweet]

Setting numerous appointments and canceling w/o a courtesy call.

[vanity6901]

Guys who ask if you need a boyfriend repeatedly...and are serious. Or if they ask too many personal questions.

[Guest121212]

I'm a woman, I need an excuse?

Kisses,

- Jackie

[Fast Gunn]

I would say that rushed and mechanical service would pretty much end it for me.

[Fast Gunn]

Originally Posted by jackie@sintropolis

I'm a woman, I need an excuse?

Kisses,

- Jackie

Well, yes, Jackie, you DO need an excuse if you don't have even an idea.

Otherwise, you become as they say, "irrational".

Heavens forbid!

[Guest121212]

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Well, yes, Jackie, you DO need an excuse if you don't have even an idea.

Otherwise, you become as they say, "irrational".

I didn't say I didn't have an "idea", only that I didn't need an excuse.

What many gentlemen interpret as irrational, many times an Escort or provider calls "trusting their instinct (gut)". And, in doing that, she is never wrong, no matter if she can effectively quantify with words why she doesn't want to see a client again. The day she stops trusting her feelings is the day she needs to retire . . .

There are the obvious reasons not to see a client again that don't bear discussion as they are, well, obvious and some of them were mentioned previously . . . it is the fact that we are "irrational" as human beings with feelings that makes this thread most difficult.

Occasionally, the answer is just no, and I (we) don't need a reason or explanation . . . and, frankly, if I politely decline the call, none (any explanation) is requisite.

Kisses,

- Jackie

[BiggestBest]

It is a woman's choice. With each choice there are benefits and consequences.

It bothers most guys when they don't know or don't understand the reason.

So make something up please.

[Guest121212]

Originally Posted by BiggestBest

With each choice there are benefits and consequences.

That statement is as much true for you, the hobbyist, as it is for the Escort or provider.

Sometimes, there isn't a reason, but if it will make you feel better, just chalk it up to my being an irrational bitch . . . I've been around long enough to know that not all money is good money.

Kisses,

- Jackie

[vitokc]

Providers don't really need a reason. Maybe it just doesn't feel right. When you get stood up, that may be the reason. It may be unfair. Clients make the same choice and don't always give a reason. I have been in places where I wish I would not have showed up and others where I changed my mind because of the atmosphere, smoke, alcohol breath, etc. So there can be many reasons for the providers just as we clients make choices.

[vanity6901]

Well said Jackie!!!! You ALWAYS have to trust your instincts, and if people don't understand they may need to re-examine the situation from the view of the provider.

[Allie_Kat]

It could be a variety of things. I've rarely met with anyone that I wouldn't meet with again though, I suppose I've been lucky.