Dating an escort?

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Charlie_Harper

Unless your 100% detached from your emotions. In that case, why would she want you? Just sayin'....myeh.

Exactly!

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by frizzo

I am seeking a LTR, possibly even marriage, with an escort. Any advice on how I might meet a lady outside of her work? Thanks!

This is a tough question to answer because most escorts do not walk through the grocery store saying to everyone who passes " Hey! I am an escort and I want a husband! Can you pass screening? " Lol.

Seriously though, most ladies who are in this line of work all have very different reasons as to "why" they are in it. Most are very low key and do not want people to find out who they really are. For this very reason, you will NOT be able to meet an escort "off the clock" per say. Get it? You will have to book a session with one that catches your interest and try to get a feel for her personality.

The odds are against you however, because most ladies in this business are either A) Single and like being single or B) are married or already have a bf in which they are happy. We do not come here looking for our happily-ever after. We are here for 2 reasons: 1) Thrill of the hunt and 2) The dough

Pussy isn’t free any way you analyze it but I figure I'm cheaper in the long run considering I will leave and not take half of everything you may own... minus my donation of course

Happy hunting

[ali*cat]

All this is right on point, but DAYUM it get's lonely sometimes!!!

[LAVixian]

don't sweat it ali... maybe we could talk Mr.Giz into swinging through your area... I promise you wouldn't be lonely hehe

[ali*cat]

I hear ya babe, I could never date while in this profession tho, I just think I could expect some MAJOR trust issues. (myself and him) But it sure would be nice to have someone to hold at night again.
:-(

[China Doll]

Without knowing your reasons for wanting this, I won't pass judgment.

I can only speak for myself, but I will say that I wouldn't date a client on principle. It would be a poor business decision for me no matter how much I liked him. I think it's generally frowned upon by the ladies when clients try to date us. On the other hand, I don't have any alternative suggestions, so this advice is potentially pretty useless.

[BellaIsabella]

Personally, I wouldn't try to date an escort, if you meet one that you like, then go for it, but I wouldn't be actively looking for one to marry/date because it closes off your options to other women.

[ali*cat]

Some people enjoy being single, I have been for 3 years now, I am to the point where it is getting VERY old. In NO way do I want to be married again, but it would be nice to have someone (outside of the hobby) to hang with every once in a while. I have NEVER dated a client, NEVER will. I'm just sayin'. I don't care how tough you are everyone needs some affection every once in a while.

[BellaIsabella]

Originally Posted by ali*cat

Some people enjoy being single, I have been for 3 years now, I am to the point where it is getting VERY old. In NO way do I want to be married again, but it would be nice to have someone (outside of the hobby) to hang with every once in a while. I have NEVER dated a client, NEVER will. I'm just sayin'. I don't care how tough you are everyone needs some affection every once in a while.

You are right, marriage can be a hassle sometimes, it can put a damper on any fun you might want to have.

[ForbiddenFriend1]

Frizzo I wish you all the luck in your search...I can't speak for other providers, but, in my private time I usually go to upscale restaraunts with a lounge area. I'm usually the girl enjoying a cocktail and reading a book all alone....my advise....when you see a beautiful girl quietly sitting alone - go over and say hello
xoxoxo

[SlowHand49]

Why ruin a good thing by bringing the M word (marriage) into the picture? Just find a provider you click with and strive to become a regular . . . visit as often as you can afford to, enjoy, repeat . . .

[MrGiz]

12 a day , eh? How much time do you plan to be spending with your new bride? Sounds like you may need to educate yourself a bit more before wasting too much time chasing a fantasy.

It can happen... but not by seeking it!

Insert any other profession, occupation, career into the equation and think of how you would pursue the same dream. No matter which method you come up with... you will be automatically limiting you chances of success, and excluding waaaaaay too many possibilities.

Good Luck... You're gonna nead it!

Giz
P.S. - Julie... I'll be spending some time near you again soon.... you know what that means

[dudeabides]

gotta say been with one or two that would be a great repeat activity on a daily basis.. and at that rate marriage would save me say... 365 x a buckfifty... hmm.. marriage would give me steady nice sweet and a savings of 54,750$ per year...

Damn Frizz... you may have something there..
just get the pre nup.. a good divorce lawyer will cost well north of what you saved.. lol..
So Girls... I m taking applications.. based on the math Frizz, it looks good.. and the sex.. well .. those are the sane reasons I can think of..

But like you say.. its for love.. nearly had a that feeling for one of em also.. so..look out.. can be done for crazy reasons too...Would be an interesting stat.. 1 in 2 in America end in divorce.... so .. maybe you can beat those odds..
so.. at that point when it does.. you become elgible to run for Senate.

[dudeabides]

before you ladies torpedo me.. of course I was tongue in cheek throughout the above post.. Frizz, this is unusual of you to seek , and marriage never happens when you are looking for it..and most will tell you its the woman who does the choosing...even though the man has to be sensitive enough to notice.. so.. keep an open mind... it can be great, but starting with an intimacy hurdle like a dozen guys a week to leap out of the gate, when there are enough challenges of getting to know and please the other person... all to say.. I think keep your day job and keep an open mind while putting yourself in position to meet more ladies. No doubt there are a # who seem way way too good for this and need a good solid caring man to rescue them, so... u never know she may be the one..
Thats my doctor dude moment for the month..

[ali*cat]

aww, how sweet!