Male Chastity - Revisited

[ElisabethWhispers]

I believe this has been discussed before but male chastity is just something that I do NOT understand. I'm always trying to get a man out of his pants. It hasn't really sunk in that it might be advantageous to have him keep them on!

Found this blog that was interesting:
http://www.malechastityblog.com/lock...and-in-heaven/

Guys, have you thought about this at all?

Ladies, any input?

I've run into some men who liked the idea of being controlled in this fashion. And hey, I'm open to most things!

Elisabeth

[DrStrangeLove]

The though of a woman controlling my orgasms is erotic. But I don't think I'd want to wear one of those things all the time. I workout in the mornings before I go to work and shower at the gym. A chastity belt might be difficult to explain.

[ElisabethWhispers]

What if you were told to not orgasm while at work and then as soon as you got home, you had to service your female friend with your tongue (or other parts of your body), not be allowed to orgasm and then had a chastity device put on?

How would you feel then? Would the whole idea of that be erotic because it's my understanding that it really is.

Elisabeth

P.S. I'm sounding fairly innocent about this topic but the truth is, I know a little bit about it! grin.

[DrStrangeLove]

Well, I definitely don't orgasm at work. I like what I do, but not that much!

Seriously, to answer your question, I would find that scenario very erotic and appealing with the right woman. I've only explored the idea of a woman controlling my orgasms through teasing and denial, which when done correctly is a HUGE turn-on, as can be witnessed when she finally lets me orgasm. Going to the next level and wearing a chastity belt, while there with her, would be an extension of that scene.

For me, the erotic aspect of this play is that the woman has control. I don't need to tell you that men can be manipulated by their cocks. The degree of that manipulation varies from man to man, from one moment to the next, and definitely depends on the manipulator. So, when a woman gets me using my "southern" head instead of my "northern" head, her controlling my pleasure is an extreme turn-on. For me, it's a combination of being (somewhat) objectified, being made to service her, and being controlled. Controlling whether or not I am allowed to have an orgasm is the ultimate control. She may only allow me to orgasm in her presence, under her direction, and after I have satisfied her.

[needingmilking]

I used to have a mistress control my orgasms for a year, while in college. Used CB and other methods...
Definitely an activity for the young. It uses up a lot of energy and time. Just sitting in a conference room for an hour with that thing is very difficult...

[Zhivago52]

Although it is not exactly "chaste"...I do enjoy saving up a large loade for my willing partners....