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Originally Posted by LynetteMarie
When someone says s/he lives a life based on pleasing him/herself, does that raise red flags for you or is that perfectly acceptable?
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Every person in the world does this. The only difference between altruism and selfishness is that the altruistic person gets pleasure from doing things for others (many for the noteriety it brings). If you don't recognize this, you haven't looked deeply enough at your motivations.
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...who may not share the "it's all about me" mentality, what emotions does this sort of comment trigger in you, if any?
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None. I look at actions, not words. Regardless of what any escort ever told me verbally, what her actions told me by the second or third appointment was what determined if I would make any further visits. In general, what I used to decide whether or not to see someone the first time was
not what she purposely wrote to attract her clientele. For example, I always booked multiple hours, so I looked for escorts who preferred fewer clients with longer sessions. If her rates didn't scale with time in way that reflected that and she wasn't willing to make me her only client the day I saw her, I wouldn't schedule.
Oh, to have such a pervy mind while drinking coffee.
. Maybe that is what we are really talking about.
