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Camille · 01-18-2010, 03:40 PM

People shouldn't worry about making lists or not.
In the grand scheme of things it's not that big a deal.
If it is, then it's time to broaden ones horizons.

Guest050715-1 · 01-18-2010, 03:48 PM

You’d be amazed how many gentlemen contact you, me and all the women on this board because of our posts. For me posting is fun. I truly is stimulating, funny and entertaining. I don’t watch TV, so I even get some of my news here. They may have seen you on another advertising site, but they find out more about you from your posts. It’s similar to the thread Laruen started about introduction letters received from gentleman. I WANT to know more about them, and they want to know more about us. The largest erogenous zone is in our heads. Smart, compassionate, educated, funny, alpha (or non-alpha depending), etc. are sexy and they come out in all of our posts.

guest051510-1 · 01-18-2010, 04:01 PM

I've been in a funk all day today, not sure what's going on with me. My best friend was at a funeral all day today and called me after. He seemed more dismayed from my lack of cheer than the loss of his friend. His nickname for me is: Muse. He'll call and ask, "how's the Muse?" But today all he could say was, "The Muse isn't very musie today" and "why is the Muse so blue?"

I wish, I knew.

niceguy · 01-18-2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

Well then I am doing something terribly wrong. I have not gotten ONE single client from all my post here, aspd, or any of the other 7 boards I am a member of. I have been working, but they all found me via Date-Check and P411 and not one of them post or have read my posts.

So, to save myself from driving away clients, maybe I should save my posting to forums unrelated to my work.

I am a member (under my real name) of a forum that is about my favorite t.v. show. I post there as well. We joke about the show and about each other's crazy stories from their personal lives. We discuss and theorize the show and try to predict where the writers are going with the plot line and story. We talk about what other shows we like and just life in general. We are a social club of sorts, that were brought together by a common interest.

That's how I viewed these boards; a group of online friends that get together to talk about all types of subjects brought together by one. That one subject, that common interest may be P4P but that is not why I post.

I guess I'm just lonely looking from comradery. Guess that is mistaken for advertising. Well, all I can say is sorry. I'll just get a house full of cats to keep me company.

I've had a really bad day.

Dear Colette,

I was on ASPD for over 10 years, and one of the big attractions for me was ALWAYS the posts about other subjects other than the obvious. Just one example posts about travel. One of my favorite things.

I found the vast majority of people in the High Dollar Hotties interesting and intelligent.
Many subjects over the years were discussed there. Many quite interesting and well thought out.

I enjoy my carnal pleasure as much as any man, but my selection process over the years has rarely been swayed by some graphic review.

More often than not it has been information about the lady I have gathered by reading her posts and to a smaller extent her website that has swayed my choices. Your web site is truly unique, and I have certainly enjoyed reading through it.

You may or may not believe that posting to a board such as this (other than ads), will bring you business.

My opinion is, although it may not be obvious, it will.

Contribute where you find things that interest you. You will find, over time, each person’s posting style has their own unique posting personality. Some are 180 degrees different then others, but interesting nevertheless.

Large numbers of men enjoy intelligent woman. Women they can have interesting conversations with, and maybe enjoy a meal with before the private time.

When I have picked women based on their personalities and not just their physical attractiveness to me the BCD time has always been just great.

As time goes along some you will enjoy reading more than others, but all are at least are worth taking a look at. It does not matter if you agree with everything they say or not it is the divergence of views that makes it interesting.

Enjoy your time here. You truly strike me as a fascinating woman.

I too am new to ECCIE, but I am quite impressed with what I see, and believe this will be one of the good places to be moving ahead.

WTF · 01-18-2010, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

I've had a really bad day.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

I've been in a funk all day today, not sure what's going on with me. My best friend was at a funeral all day today and called me after. He seemed more dismayed from my lack of cheer than the loss of his friend. His nickname for me is: Muse. He'll call and ask, "how's the Muse?" But today all he could say was, "The Muse isn't very musie today" and "why is the Muse so blue?"

I wish, I knew.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

Let me reword that.

Who do you think had the worse day? You, your friend who just buried a friend or the friend that is now six feet under?

If you think in those terms....your day may not be so bad.

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yk_9sEhV3vM"]YouTube- Daniel Powter Bad Day[/ame]

guest051510-1 · 01-18-2010, 05:14 PM

My day wasn't bad, I just felt bad. I cried all day (sobbed) through work. As if I was channeling someone else's pain. Maybe, I was feeling the sadness my friend was unable to as he watched his other friend buried. I don't know why I felt so blue, but that was my color of the day.

WTF · 01-18-2010, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

My day wasn't bad, I just felt bad. I cried all day (sobbed) through work. As if I was channeling someone else's pain. Maybe, I was feeling the sadness my friend was unable to as he watched his other friend buried. I don't know why I felt so blue, but that was my color of the day.

Ok, other than crying all day and feeling bad and channeling someone else's pain you had a great day.

I'm just joking with you...trying to cheer you up! Think of it like this....you could be six feet under or like your friend! Anything is better than those two options.

guest051510-1 · 01-18-2010, 06:00 PM

Thank you
WTF for the video. It helped.

Zoey Blake · 01-18-2010, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

Thank you
WTF for the video. It helped.

That was a very sweet video... and I sympathize with you Colette, sometimes moods can seem to overtake us, and the ones that seem to have no recognizable source are the worst

Something about not knowing why you feel miserable just adds to the misery...

But buck up beautiful, things will get better, they always do eventually

Carrie Hillcrest · 01-18-2010, 09:56 PM

He'll never see me again because I talked his ears off and he really noticed my teeth.

Hope your tomorrow is better. *hug*

Guest020510 · 01-18-2010, 10:28 PM

Ohhh, I am not going around and around.
I have opinions! I used one opinion to illustrate another opinion, on advertising in the forum. What I thought of the thread does not matter. Not everyone is always going to agree, or like, or care, etc. what you are, say, support, etc.(<---sigh!!!)

Wtf has a good point; and high kicks and q-feel's dancing in heaven are fabulous for mood adjustment.

Guest083011 · 01-19-2010, 06:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Ansley

When I saw this thread it reminded me of the 'list'. Someone is always bound to feel slighted or get their feelings hurt.

Hey, Ansley, I wasn't slighted. The list could go on and on; like people thanking people on the Golden Globes or the Oscars.

After reading the rest of the posts and seeing 'Colette's feelings yesterday I realized what a funk she was in. I hit that feeling every so often. The proverbial "blues."

We should be honored that she shared her thoughts with the "crew" here because we are her friends and buddies.

Hopefully today is a little better. Someone may have called her and told a funny story or just reconnected. It lets her know that life is here and now and should be enjoyed.

Guest050715-1 · 01-19-2010, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by WTF

WTF is wrong with this picture?

Let me reword that.

Who do you think had the worse day? You, your friend who just buried a friend or the friend that is now six feet under?

If you think in those terms....your day may not be so bad.

YouTube- Daniel Powter Bad Day

The way I see it, the one that had to bury his friend for sure had the worst day. The departed is just that – he’s left this plane and on to the next great adventure……………….Life is all about attitude and perspective………….Back to happy fun-time…….