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Originally Posted by tracibrooks
First, my heart goes out to the OP. Thank you for sharing with us, and reminding us that no matter the cross you bear, the next guy/gal might just have a heavier one.
Second, I think maybe some of you are coming down a little hard on the lady that won't see him. I have turned down clients before, and not given a reason. ... Most of the time, no matter the reason, I'm just going to say "I am flattered by your interest, but I think perhaps I am not the right lady for you." And leave it at that.
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traci,
well at least you responded to those guys. there's only been a few times that i've emailed/pm'd/p411'd a woman and not received a repsonse. i would have appreciated at least a note saying something like what you wrote above. and if i start an exchange and decide not to follow thru, i let the woman know i wont be able to make it. on both sides, there's no need to explain, but saying you wont be there would, imo, be very appreciated.
nitwitboy,
having lost a cousin to AIDS, a sister to cirrhosis, a cousin to metastasized cancer, and an aunt to dementia, i can only imagine what you are going thru. my suggestion - in addition to the best medical team you can find and/or afford, surround yourself with the most fabulous family, friends and acquaintances; seek out and join a cancer patients support group; visit a therapist; whatever.
just dont walk this road all by yourself. you will need the support of others!!
oh, and an attractive women in our sub-culture that's ready for you to visit her and have deliteful times? priceless!! sounds like you already have some offers on the table.
peace be with you!
