Why the pile on negative reviews on girls you have never seen?

[Tara Evans]

This is very disturbing to me that there is a trend that is going on not just with me but other providers where there are men that have never seen a provider go on to their review and bash the crap out of them. Saying shes a horrible provider, shes not gfe, there are other girls to see that are way better.Yes I am talking about my review boys. Bigdog0311, you have never seen me ever. But yet you still go on to every review that I have and bash the crap out of me. Why? Please tell me why? You have never seen me to say that I offer a bad service. But yet you keep going on my review and bumping it to the top of the page? And yes there are more of you. Yes I might not be for everybody, and I am sorry. I have been doing this way to long to know how to please a man. I can try my best to please all of yall but If I cant then I am sorry. Sometimes we just don't click. But please don't listen to what some of the guys are saying that have never seen me and have 0 reviews of any girls. Love yall, Tara

[mikahranae]

Girl....I would not even waste your time with threads like this. This is an ongoing issue that will not change. All this thread will do is cause more people to read your bad reviews. Just let it pass. If your service is good, you will have guys take up for you on those bad reviews too. Most of the guys research very well and will realize you aim to please, even if it doesn't suit everyone!

[Guest071613-2]

Aw, Tara you were doing so well by not responding! I hate to see that you posted this. Review rebuttals are pointless! Anyway, it appears that whatever they are saying about you is something that has been going on for a long time, if I am to believe all the responses to that thread. So if it has not affected your income yet and it's been going on for that long, then I wouldn't start worrying about it now! You have plenty of regulars I am sure, and bad reviews seldom actually keep guys from taking the plunge, so who cares?

Let it go, get your groove on, do what you do and how you want to do it.

[Guest101610-2]

We never know how we look to others and Tara, I gotta tell you, you are one of the queens in our hobby world. Truthfully those guys make themselves look completely retarded and they usually get their names crossed off our lists because of how nasty they are to another girl.


So Tara, lassy you come out of this smelling like the rose you are. I really don't think what anyone can say here would even chip the paint of your reputation.

[Guest082216-1]

Tara, your just adding fuel to the fire. Don't respond. Don't lower yourself. Plenty of guys also posted that they did have a good experience with you. Give the best service you can and ignore the others out there. The best thing you can do is fix anything that might be broken and ignore the rest.

For the Record, I have never met you. I am not a White Knight. I will honestly report my experiences.

[looiecypher]

I just love how folks are quick to jump in and tell a lady she shouldn't have posted to a bad review .
I know you may be trying to help but the review in question has hung around for a bit and I know it has to be hard for her.
No one and I mean no one likes to be slammed by people they don't even know and then be expected to sit back and do nothing about it.
She feels she is being treated unfairly and rightfully so.She has just as much right to post her rebuttal as the assholes who are piling on her review have to comment. Even more of a right if they have never even met her.

I for one certainly do not like the trend or belief that the lady should not post a rebuttal in fear of retaliation.
By the sites rules she is not allowed to post it in the review section ,instead she has to post it here in the coeds.Instead of saying she shouldn't I say all her supporters should now back her and speak up for her in this rebuttal.The people with positive attitudes should be heard loud and clear . Stop letting the people who love tearing down ther people have the loudest say.
The ladies on this site should all join in and post thier feelings about the pile ons and support the ladies in their rebuttals.
Time for more positive thinking and posting on this site.

[Randy4Candy]

So, I suppose those who might not have the most glorious things to say should just keep a sock in it and sit quietly in the corner. Aw, shucks.

Fortunately, I have never been a position to post a negative review. This doesn't mean that I have never had a less than stellar sessions nor does it mean that I don't have the bar set high enough...

...for cryin' out loud, THIS IS RECREATIONAL SEX...wholly crap, Batman!

I usually take my time figuring out who I would like to see and postings along with chat and reviews play heavily into how I go about it. Ads are great (usually) for the basics of the physical stuff and a list of menu items, if listed, but other than that, the rest is just fill and pretty much worthless. They are, after all, ads...LOL. Reviews are tricky because one has to filter out the self-aggrandizing Penthouse porn, negativity, and attempt to find out what and, more importantly, HOW the provider went about her business. The only times I have come up short in a session is when I deviate from this plan that works well for me and follow the herd, get caught up in the Flavor of the Month Club or not contain my curiosity about a "bad girl" (of course, THAT one sometimes works out really well...heh heh heh).

Most of the men here have had occasional bad experiences and they can recognise them whether or not he has had personal experience with the provider in question. I don't think this is "piling on" (whatever that is) nor does it make them assholes. But, they also need to remember that what happens with hobbyist A may not necessarily happen with them - either way, good or bad - and measure their responses accordingly.

It's well established that everyone has good days and bad days. It's also well established that many don't like YMMV girls, especially when that kicks in at the beginning of a session - towards the outer limits of boundaries, yes, from the get go, no. Regardless of that, many men like to go in, put it on autopilot and be taken care of by a lady who's script they like. WALDT and more power to anyone who gets what they would like to have. And any lady who decides to run her operaton that way should do so without continually being picked at. But, OTOH, one who decides to operate that way should be realistic enough to understand that YMMV cuts both ways and there are some who will not see her. Hell, that's just another of many factors that figure in to how men decide whether or not to patronize a lady. For some, just to be naked in the same room with a smokin' hot, young babe is enough for an instant nutt caused by the clothing rubbing junior while being removed. For others, not so much. It really is NOT A BIG DEAL in the overall scheme of things. It would be a good idea, however, for everyone involved to remember that each one of us is only a miniscule part of that overall scheme, like it or not, need it to be something more or not.

Now, back to good day/bad day...listen, if things are not going well and the session didn't really fire up, IT WON'T KILL YOU to try hard to provide some reasonable level of satisfaction and admit that things didn't go all that well. The couple of times a provider actually did that with me, I was floored and really appreciated the humanness. I found it admirable. I also know it's not found often.

Anyhow, NC/NS, flakiness and other behavior that jerks people around will never fly. Everyone knows this and long ping pong matches about who didn't do what to whom just are part of it. Granted, things can get pretty rough when others kick in with their 2-cents but I can never understand why a lady starts a pissing match because she didn't make a damn phone call. Those things die away in a couple of days if they are left alone and the provider will have other opportunities to show what she can do and they will be reported as well if she sees to it.

All but the extreme cases should be subject to a longer view with less emphasis on instant gratification so prevalent today. Most things are neither as good nor a bad as they seem at the time.

[lisa.lisa0302]

Umm No she should not had posted this...this would have blew over, how many good reviews do you have......alot right? hell i would like to borrow a few of those good reviews. Lol...she can spare them.

Tara, I know having that review going and going and going stinks big time. I would feel like crap. I know how it feels to have people comment on a review with less than polite comments.

Tara provide the best service you can, if the gent is being unbearable, let him know or end the session, maybe he is not aware he is being unbearable. I think people just need to communicate. Both parties need to feel at ease and comfortable. If not both parties need to walk away before the drama begins which ends up a mess.

I really don't understand why the review is still open.......doesn't matter which provider it is, but just how long should the I hate her/I love her comments should go.

Just my thoughts

[looiecypher]

Yep, she shouldn't have posted this we obviously are living under Talban rule and women should be seen and not heard.
May as well bury her up to the neck in sand and stone her to death.
A woman with an opinion,not a good thing to be I guess.
Why is the review still open? Because by the way the site is set up unless the Op requests it to be closed it stays open. Unlessl the lady posts a rebuttal then both are supposed to be closed.
lets see how long it takes this time.

[guest040711-1]

Tara contacted me and asked that this be closed. She has had her say and this one is done.

I will add that there is a differenc between a review rebuttal and this. The review in the center of this would die a natural death if everyone stopped posting to have the last word.