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victoria · 07-06-2012, 07:51 AM

I have but its only to gents I trust.

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Originally Posted by Bull149

Sometimes emergancies arrise. I have loaned mone on at leaast three occasions. Twice it was paid back in services, one of those times at reduced rate as the lady set the terms. Once I was paid back in cash, which I promptly spent on a session.

Weveral other times I was asked to loan money and I refused. So far I think I have picked well.

RoxanneReynolds · 07-31-2012, 01:51 PM

It's a give/give situation with me and my boyfriends. If you give me a tip here and there or feed my fancy, I'll cut you some slack on the donation if you ever ask. I don't ask for advancements or help with paying my bills. I set goals and try to reach them with your help. Thank You!
xoxo

victoria · 07-31-2012, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by RoxanneReynolds

It's a give/give situation with me and my boyfriends. If you give me a tip here and there or feed my fancy, I'll cut you some slack on the donation if you ever ask. I don't ask for advancements or help with paying my bills. I set goals and try to reach them with your help. Thank You!
xoxo

Yes that is what I said in different words.I like to give if I know I am appreciated and dont mind. At the same time I know this isn't a marriage so there are some fine lines! If I have and give trust there is room for me to consider, and after one time gone wrong its " no more" and move on.

silvester91999 · 07-31-2012, 09:48 PM

Wow...

victoria · 07-31-2012, 10:31 PM

I was kidding on the Head chopped off, I do have a sense of humour....sometimes, lol=0)

rjdiner · 08-01-2012, 07:46 AM

I have never advanced money to a lady and I have never been asked. That said, if it were someone I knew well and felt it was a genuine problem, I'd probably "give" them the money. I'd hope it came back in services down the road.

victoria · 08-01-2012, 08:05 AM

That is one of the best answers.

RoxanneReynolds · 08-01-2012, 04:11 PM

I feel the same way about time, since it is the most valuable thing to a person. If you stay past your time then you should consider that on the next date and leave a nice tip....or the first if you can :-) I like gifts too.....that's my opinion. That is all.