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Ms. Athena · 03-31-2012, 12:09 AM

I was shocked after speaking with another Newbie Friendly provider whom says she does NO SCREENING AT ALL. Now I am Newbie Friendly, BUT they must be willing to provide some form of reference, normally work info and ID. So what does Newbie Friendly mean to YOU? Does a client just call up and say hey.........and your like cum on over? Isent there some way to screen without having past provider references? Safety is so much more important then any amount of money. Play safe and have fun!

Tiffani Jameson · 03-31-2012, 12:29 AM

Yes, darling. There are plenty of ways.

There are certain ladies who feel like their best screening tool is their instinct. They are the ones who either have been or will be busted.

Newbies for me, unless they are easily verified via an online presence, are rarely eligible to see me short notice. Because I don't have a phone number listed, I don't get the last minute guys. I have great experiences with non-hobbyists. They pre-book, are willing to put in the time to communicate to get to know each other better, and are very respectful (and it's very true of all the men that pursue me). But it's not that I have never been told I'm doing too much for a hooker, but not enough to dissuade me from seeing newbies.

Ms. Athena · 03-31-2012, 01:19 AM

I so agree Tiffani. I do go by instinct always, and have turned down clients even with a provider okay, if it didnt feel right. The last minute newbies that call and want NOW action will never work with me. If your willing to work with me and help me feel secure then Im more then willing to work with you. But to see a client just cause he calls...........Nothing is worth my life or my freedom. I enjoy the hobby and giving pleasure, but respect is needed on both ends...............By the provider taking her time to screen you she is keeping you safe as well as herself.

DallasRain · 03-31-2012, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms. Athena

I so agree Tiffani. I do go by instinct always, and have turned down clients even with a provider okay, if it didnt feel right. The last minute newbies that call and want NOW action will never work with me. If your willing to work with me and help me feel secure then Im more then willing to work with you. But to see a client just cause he calls...........Nothing is worth my life or my freedom. I enjoy the hobby and giving pleasure, but respect is needed on both ends...............By the provider taking her time to screen you she is keeping you safe as well as herself.

My opinion exactly!

{there are safe ways to verify newbies,but they have to be willing to make me feel comfortable by giving certain pertinent info out}

nightengale1973 · 03-31-2012, 09:07 AM

Thank you so much for posting this. As a newbie i started questioning this myself. I have seen providers post that they are newbie friendly yet their showcase profiles state that they require references. I was confused and now you have shed some light on the matter. Thank you all.

cumalot · 03-31-2012, 11:02 AM

It makes me too nervous to see a provider that doesn't screen and I won't see them because of that. If it's too easy to see someone it makes me wonder what am I walking into. No thanks I would rather be screened, it only helps the situation and makes for a more relaxed session. If it's too good to be true then it probably is. We all need to do our part to make every one safe out there and that's the least a client can do is submit to a good sreening...These newbie friendly providers should still screen and if the guy doesn't want to give up the intel that they require them let them do without..ijs

Tiffani Jameson · 03-31-2012, 11:04 AM

You're welcome, Nightengale.

If you see newbie friendly, don't let anything else you see scare you off. Just make sure your initial contact with a lady mentions the fact that you'll give her what she needs within reason to be comfortable with you, and you should receive a favorable response every time.

alluringava · 03-31-2012, 11:42 AM

I decided to become newbie friendly for the reason that well, I have gotten requests from gentlemen who sounded sincere, and you have to start somewhere. I'd rather then start out with a provider ( me LOL) who has a good reputation, and I just ask them to join P411 and give them their first okay.

charlestudor2005 · 03-31-2012, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by alluringava

I decided to become newbie friendly for the reason that well, I have gotten requests from gentlemen who sounded sincere, and you have to start somewhere. I'd rather then start out with a provider ( me LOL) who has a good reputation, and I just ask them to join P411 and give them their first okay.

Here's a thought: since those ladies who are newbie friendly are, in a sense, taking on a bigger risk, you should be like insurance companies and charge more for that extra risk. You could say that a newbie isn't really a newbie after say (arbitrarily) 3 visits. Then the guy would get a regular fee without the charge for extra risk.

You could also support P411 and the hobby at the same time. I know on P411 you can give a discount, and some ladies do and a lot of ladies don't. However, ladies could support the system by structuring their rates in a tiered manner to the number of OKs that a guy has been given (or been given in the last 6 months or the last year). Some guys, like me, would not benefit much, if any, at all from this tiered pricing. But the guys you ladies seem to like (like SL) could benefit a lot (even though he seems to have no shortage of cash). Plus some guys could hobby more and spread the wealth around.

Just a thought...I only get one a week, and there it is. lol I wasted it on this idea.

shorty · 03-31-2012, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Here's a thought: since those ladies who are newbie friendly are, in a sense, taking on a bigger risk, you should be like insurance companies and charge more for that extra risk. You could say that a newbie isn't really a newbie after say (arbitrarily) 3 visits. Then the guy would get a regular fee without the charge for extra risk.

You could also support P411 and the hobby at the same time. I know on P411 you can give a discount, and some ladies do and a lot of ladies don't. However, ladies could support the system by structuring their rates in a tiered manner to the number of OKs that a guy has been given (or been given in the last 6 months or the last year). Some guys, like me, would not benefit much, if any, at all from this tiered pricing. But the guys you ladies seem to like (like SL) could benefit a lot (even though he seems to have no shortage of cash). Plus some guys could hobby more and spread the wealth around.

Just a thought...I only get one a week, and there it is. lol I wasted it on this idea.

What about the ones that don't care to be on P411 or write reviews? Ladies do give discounts especially with it being end of the month. Just have to know the lady and when she needs that money the most.

charlestudor2005 · 03-31-2012, 05:00 PM

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Originally Posted by shorty

What about the ones that don't care to be on P411 or write reviews? Ladies do give discounts especially with it being end of the month. Just have to know the lady and when she needs that money the most.

The whole idea was mostly tongue in cheek. Nothing will change the current system...even the suggestion of a better one.

I've NEVER been the beneficiary of an end of month special, nor do I know know anyone well enough to know what you suggest.

pyramider · 03-31-2012, 05:10 PM

How about the ladies just give downloading tips to the newbies? That way the newbies that cannot follow the ladies' instructions can still get off.

Shayla · 03-31-2012, 06:37 PM

I've always been newbie friendly.
MOST people are good, I think. A few bad apples here and there but you can't let them ruin it for everyone.

Ms. Athena · 03-31-2012, 06:52 PM

Thanks everyone for all the input and I hope this helps those with questions in this area............

Naughty Destiny · 03-31-2012, 07:06 PM

Generally, I do not like seeing newbies, not for the reasons that you have mentioned (being verified), but because I feel their lack of experience can sometimes lead to an awkward appointment. Obviously, there can be exceptions to this. From my experiences, I enjoy myself much better with experienced men. But to each their own.