Providers Only

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

We all have our opinions.

Any and every guy I have dated that I had to see every day, all day ended badly. The one man I could say I was truly in love with was one that had distance from me. He made me miss him, want him, long for him...that gets too common and trivial if one is around all the time. We never had the time to take each other for granted like many couples do today. Having space from a person so you can get your head straight is healthy.

As human beings we desire certain things apart from the people in our lives...does not mean we don't love them. I love my child more than anything, but I would be lying if I said I did not enjoy time on my own with adult friends...same with a spouse.

It does not mean going off to Vegas and looking at strippers for a week, but it could simply be a golfing trip for him and a few days at the spa for her. A partnership is not defined as not allowing the other person to have their own life within a partnership of marriage. You can be away from someone and still want them there, but also enjoy being apart. I don't buy that human beings cannot possibly relish being without each other for a few days...that sounds more like addiction and again, a codependent type relationship.

I miss someone I am in love with when they are away, but that does not mean I can't have girl's day or take off for a week. It makes me miss that person and want them even more when I return.

I am in complete agreement. I took many fun trips with the boys to go flying or having a golf vacation and she did her fun stuff also. I was talking about an extended time like I said. I agree you need to do something just different sometimes like you mentioned your child being number one but you just need different people around you at times. I can remember coming home to a female wife and a female daughter and female fucking cat and way too much female fucking talk and just needed to be around some male shit or I would go crazy. That's normal. Ok I think we got together on this one

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by burkalini

I am in complete agreement. I took many fun trips with the boys to go flying or having a golf vacation and she did her fun stuff also. I was talking about an extended time like I said. I agree you need to do something just different sometimes like you mentioned your child being number one but you just need different people around you at times. I can remember coming home to a female wife and a female daughter and female fucking cat and way too much female fucking talk and just needed to be around some male shit or I would go crazy. That's normal. Ok I think we got together on this one

LOL on the house full of pu**y statement.

[Sami]

I am single and really like the freedom, no I love it! I have said for a long time the perfect relationship for me is, I have my place he has his. I go to his home, he comes to mine. If he is having a bad day or wants his man cave go. Same for me.. That eliminates attitude caused by one aggravated. Everyone needs their space even if you love one another.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

So I know us men ...we would be in heaven with a beer a provider..my question is do you (providers) think about finding a perfect man and marrying him..just curious?

Sure, I do all the time. I am probably one of the few providers who has crossed the line and dated several of her clients. Some worked out, others didn't, some we parted as friends, others we didn't part so well. But it was no different really than dating 'civilian' men ( I say that in regards to dating clients). I even married a client a long time ago, and that didn't work out, but it was primarily because he lost his job, and I had to continue to work as a provider. He became very jealous and it just wasn't working.


Every woman I think wants to marry a nice guy, and as liberated as I am, I won't lie...while I own my own house and car, and I am independent and require a lot of privacy and personal space, I would like to find a nice man to be with me and share my life with, as long as he understands my boundaries and doesn't try to control me. And who wouldn't want to be spoiled with gifts and romance? I'm a die-hard romantic and getting flowers is a highlight for me. A woman can be independent and still want a man to be a part of her life.

[Lecia.Love]

i think as women, (because we are emotional by nature) have often thought about having the perfect man to marry and to keep.. But, as a woman who has analyzed the psychology behind those thoughts, and REALIZED along the way, that by sharing my life and love (and personally connecting mind mind body and spirit) with many men, i can be living just as much in the "fairytale" Ive dreamed of as a young girl. Love is the fundamental basis of the ideal marriage is it not? (I indeed wouldnt marry someone i didnt love) But i think ,why not LOVE everyone Because Love is in FACT a Verb. (also, connecting with a good few men, i can pick and choose what i like best about each and every one of em) __--i kno this may seem like babble to some, but thats why im known as LISA dot LOVE thanks for readin (if u made it this far):-P

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Well yea, third time may be a charm lol. I love nothing more than being only one man's whore.

I have to say...I love your icon. I love cats

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by alluringava

I have to say...I love your icon. I love cats

Don't encourage her. lol

[London Rayne]

Heh heh!!

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Heh heh!!

No LOL London keep on posting cat icons. * from a fellow cat lover* meow

[Tiffani Jameson]

Originally Posted by Jasminekitt

I think I have a problem, I tend to find something wrong with every man that I date! Its the married ones that I tend to fall for!! I hope to find that special one, but as of now it seems like a fantasy more than reality.

I tend to be a little over-analytical too. I consider subconscious behaviors over the pleasantries and niceties of the obvious show.

Oh well, maybe you and I can date, and we won't have to worry about it. I'll go lezzie for you! I'm hell with a strapon!