Ladies: Do you find this hot? Or not?
Over on Another Realm there was a post about men in panties, so I posted an experience of mine. I'm curious to see how women in general would react to a little cross-dressing BCD by their straight partner.
I dabbled in this several years ago because I had an adventurous RL playmate who was extremely titillated by the idea of getting me in panties, stockings, and lingerie, and eventually talked me into going shopping with her at a local lingerie/sex shop (As Susan Sarandon said in Bull Durham, tell a man it's foreplay and you can get them to do anything). She was greatly excited about getting a female attendant to help us, telling her she wanted to buy things for me, holding them up against me in full view, talking loudly about what size I would need, making me try on the nightgown, while I blushed brightly, etc. Incidentally, there was PLENTY of apparel big enough to fit the largest guy, so I suspect it isn't all for transgenders. I'm 6'4", 220, and it wasn't hard to find things to fit me.
The attendant got into it and did her share of stroking and teasing me and telling me how lucky I was to have such an imaginative partner, that all guys should learn to get in touch with their feminine side and they'd make better lovers. On the car back to her place, my partner was practically vibrating with excitement and pulled my hand under her skirt to feel her soaked panties.
What an experience when we got back to her place! I found that the feel of a pair of queen-size crotchless pantyhose, panties, and a very silky short nightgown to be very erotic, especially with my partner similarly attired. The taboo aspect of it I found stimulating, and the feel of hands rubbing each other's bodies through sensual fabric while we kissed, stocking clad legs rubbing against each other, bodies slithering against each other through 2 layers of silk or satin was amazing. Part of this fantasy experience included our keeping all but panties on throughout the experience. DATY/DATO with her in the queening position and her lingerie forming a sensual tent around me, yummmm. Likewise for CFS, her in CG, moving slowly, 2 sets of hands caressing breasts/nipples with almost no friction through the lingerie, both sets of nipples getting very hard--or in mish with out chests rubbing with liquid sensuality together. I ended up finding the whole experience incredibly sensual. Neither of us had any desire to completely crossdress me or go out in public that way--though my partner threatened (promised?) to bring in a friend of hers sometime--kind of sad that never happened. It became a periodic part of our play, and we found that going to sleep snuggled together in our sexy attire was also great, occasionally resulting in middle of the night slithery spoon sex. Unfortunately she moved away, and up until now, I've been too shy about a negative reaction to seek another partner.
So, how do you ladies react to this, and how many men do you think are out there who are turned on by such a scene, but fear getting rejected by women if they ask about it, and flamed by men if they post about it?
Any other brave/foolhardy guys out there who admit to being turned on by such a scenario?
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