Cold Cold Frigid Aqua, or Steam that Burns Into Your Soul

[nevergaveitathought]

so what attracts you and draws you to a person you don't know..making you want to spend money on them...or conversely as a provider (i dont really care for that term) what makes you think about a man later after an appointment and feel quickened upon their renewed appointment....

is it all about looks for an initial appointment? Is it wording in an ad?

i do enjoy looking at the pictures in the showcases or websites.. and while they are helpful.....nothing allures me and attracts me and makes me think its all worthwhile as do the soft caring words of someone. maybe its a lie, a farce, and cotton candy that melts away with no substance, but i like to believe its true for the moment at least. so the words ..yes the words.

equally true are words that drive me away and make me fizzle and wonder what am i doing?

[Happy Diver]

It's all visual with me. Words don't do it.

[guest051510-1]

Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

...or conversely as a provider (i dont really care for that term) what makes you think about a man later after an appointment and feel quickened upon their renewed appointment....

It would depend on what was special about the man. Everyone has their strong suits. For some it's as simple as touch. I just melt when caressed by a man with a loving touch. Others, it's their intelligence and all the interesting things I learn when in their presence. Some, it's their wit or charm that keeps a smile on my face and a song in my heart long after they're gone. Looks are not that important to me, but how the gentleman make me feel (both physically and/or emotionally) are the things that draw me in and keep my attention.

Oh yeah and they should be a good kisser.

[guest051510-1]

BTW, here are some very COLD Hotties.
http://www.thelocal.de/gallery/news/839/

[nevergaveitathought]

Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

BTW, here are some very COLD Hotties.
http://www.thelocal.de/gallery/news/839/

women are interesting the world over

nice Nicolette

[Happy Diver]

Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

BTW, here are some very COLD Hotties.
http://www.thelocal.de/gallery/news/839/

That is SO German! Right down to the regulation white undies.

LOL great stuff!

[Marcus Aurelius]

Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

BTW, here are some very COLD Hotties.
http://www.thelocal.de/gallery/news/839/

I like the girl on the right's boobages.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by nevergaveitathought

so what attracts you and draws you to a person you don't know..making you want to spend money on them...or conversely as a provider (i dont really care for that term) How about "escort?" what makes you think about a man later after an appointment and feel quickened upon their renewed appointment....

is it all about looks for an initial appointment? Is it wording in an ad?

i do enjoy looking at the pictures in the showcases or websites.. and while they are helpful.....nothing allures me and attracts me and makes me think its all worthwhile as do the soft caring words of someone. maybe its a lie, a farce, and cotton candy that melts away with no substance, but i like to believe its true for the moment at least. so the words ..yes the words.

equally true are words that drive me away and make me fizzle and wonder what am i doing?

Some of my criteria:

1. Gotta meet my price point. I can nix HDHs immediately.
2. I like spinners so I'm probably going to go with them if possible, especially ones with A cups. Just my preference. However, I may not get there because spinners tend to have a higher price point IMHO.
3. I look to see what's on the menu...I want a full menu.
4. [For me] She has to do outcalls.
5. Given a choice between a young lady (20s) and a MILF, I'll take the MILF. Mostly in 30s, but I've gone higher. Less BS in attitude. We both know why we are there. The 20 yo tends to think she should only see studs (which I ain't), and pouts.
6. If there is diversity available, I'll try to see a lady from a background I haven't seen yet.
7. The wilder the better. I may be a boring old man, but I don't want to feel inhibited should be click.

Others, but those tend to be the load-bearing walls.

[AvaAstor]

Bravo, Nicolette.... There are some VERY cold hotties. I find that I am incredibly attracted to a gentleman who treats me with respect. Old, young, smart, ignorant - a man that has a few manners is a complete turn on to me. It becomes apparent very quickly when a gentleman sends an email requesting to spend some time with me. I usually can determine if I am interested in seeing them with one contact; if they are courteous and respectful during subsequent communications I find myself very anxious (almost too anxious) to spend time with them.

[Anne Shimizu]

Originally Posted by AvaAstor

.... It becomes apparent very quickly when a gentleman sends an email requesting to spend some time with me. I usually can determine if I am interested in seeing them with one contact; if they are courteous and respectful ...

I agree with Ava - it is a cerebral thing but the right emails often spark quite a bit of attraction.