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Originally Posted by JackFlanders
Personally, I would rather have a lady lie to me big time than to tell me her previous appointment is late. Tell me anything, I don't care - say traffic is bad, your mom stopped by, you got hung up on a call with your ex, your place is a mess and you're still cleaning up, etc, etc. Any comments?
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I respect honesty. But, sometimes it needs to be balanced with tact. I agree with you that the way she handled it would be a turnoff for me as well, because I don't like the idea of going right after another guy and she's asking you to be inconvenienced for another client's failure, but I give her some credit for being honest with you. She didn't string you along like has happened to me on occasion. I've been told she's running a little late, can we push back the time 15 minutes. Then 20 minutes later, it's I'm getting ready and I'll call you in 10 minutes. Then, you call her 15 minutes later and she doesn't answer. Etc., etc. I don't mind a white lie or a vague excuse about why she needs to reschedule, but at least give an accurate estimate of how long the delay is going to be. So, I think the takeaway for escorts is: 1) don't schedule appointments back-to-back, 2) don't talk to one client about seeing other clients earlier that day, 3) when a guy is running so late that he messes up your schedule, put the negative consequences on him, or perhaps if the late guy is such a great client or it's just a mix up, go out of your way to make it up to the guy you bumped (reduced rate? extra time?), and 4) don't string us along!
