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Backstory:
Well, I've been curious about hobby for a while now, finally decide to give it a try. So like newbie to anything, I did my research, read forum advice threads, reviews, post questions to seasoned vets. From that, I signed up for P411, bought a hobby phone, and created hobby email. But unlike other type of hobbies, there was one thing I was not prepared for, no shows.
Reading through reviews on this board and other similar boards, I compiled a list of ladies with good reviews, with newbie friendly one on top. So I set up an outcall appointment days in advance with one, and confirmed it few hours before the meeting time. man oh man, so much anxiety leading up to meeting , I felt like a kid waiting to open his gift on Christmas morning. Well, this kid was hit by the Grinch. I got to hotel hours early, groomed, showered, and slighty scented with good quality cologne. My "date" texted me an hour before our scheduled time and told me she was in a car accident and need to reschedule, so I thought, you know, shit happens, no big deal. I told her, no worries, be safe. I move onto next on list, called her explained my situation, she asked for screen info, send me her P411 page. Here I encountered a P411 bug, without login into my account, I can see her email address and website, but once logged in, all the contact options were restricted, so no request through p411, no schedule. Ok, she's being safe, I respect that. Better luck next time when I get a ok. I was determined to get my first ok/reference that night. So, moving onto next one, called her, explained situation and was told available after 9:30, I sent request through P411, with hotel info. Saw tracking tab on P411 and she screened me. So, great, time to break my hobby cherry. 10:30 rolled by, no call, nothing. I called and no answer, so left a message. By 11:30, still nothing, anyway, bad first no show experience.
Sorry for the LONG backstory.
Where did I go wrong QUESTION:
I picked the Courtyard hotel near the Galleria. Was that a bad location, a known LE or pimp hangout? I was being cautious in my email in that I did not send them my room with my requests, just hotel name and address. Requested to have them call when near and give their room number. Is this another bad move? The ladies put that they'll take wardrobe request on their ads, I'm a sucker for beautiful lady in sexy dress with lingerie underneath, so that was also in request email, was that a not so smart idea too? What would be considered fair time frame for assuming a no show, I mean, no calls to inform you if they're late and such. So you can move on to one that's available. And what if they call you an hour after appointment time with out status call beforehand and saying they're here, what do you do then if with someone already, tell them to go home? hehe
Seeking Advise and Inputs:
I am still into trying out this hobby, but I need to get out of newbie status first. So...
Incalls, This might be a good start for me, since ladies are usually more comfortable in their own environment. I would love to get some advice on staying discreet on those encounters. I would appreciate if experience hobbiest can PM me some reputable providers with very discreet and safe incall locations. Newbie friendlies would be a plus to start.
Outcalls, these chain Hotels were putting in my address from my DL in their database, eventhough I prepaid. Got a look and "friendly" question from the hotel reservation lady. (My home address is quite close to where they at, within 10miles.) I was not at ease all night, and waiting at hotel really sucks, no drink, no good channels, I guess I was not in my comfort zone. Heres the question, I'm not in a serious relationship, so no live-in SO and such, and being at a safe upscale apartment complex. Would it be a good idea to have outcalls at my place? At least at my place, I don't need to care about no shows, it'll just be another night. If you've done outcalls at home I would like to heard your experiences. Would also appreciated PM suggestions/recommendations on some reputable no pimp/driver, junkie outcall ladies.
If you've read through all of that, thanks. Sorry for the long post, coffee does strange things to me
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Jarz@
What did I do wrong...(Newbie trying for experience, faced with NS and No luck)
looking forward to our session.
