I lean heavily towards the Domme/Top/Sadist side of the spectrum and have been "in the lifestyle" for about six years. It's a natural extension of my sexuality and something I find deeply satisfying. I do, however, find it to be a more personal and intimate experience. Finding compatibility and chemistry, as well as someone who has a shared interest in your preferred areas of play is vital.
I have training in a number of areas of safe play and am always interested in more education! I'm not really into shibari, mummification and other forms of heavy bondage (what can I say? It takes too long and I get bored), but I do enjoy restraint and less intricate rope play. I don't engage in activities like fire cupping, needle/piercing play, blood play, or any kind of discipline that breaks the skin for safety reasons. I also leave the single tail at home so we don't disturb the neighbors (wink wink).
My primary areas of interest are: power exchange, service subs, bondage, humiliation, role play, feminization, regression, sensory play of all sorts, impact play, chastity, discipline, discipline and more discipline. It's all about the psychological intensity of the scene. All of the physical artifice is an accessory and a means to mental and emotional ends. I prefer acting as a Domina to men, but am open to female submissives as well.
I know there have to be more of us around! I love other kinky people