i should have searched before i posted:
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=236423
that said....
mike/david/big.....funny you said that but i thought the same thing but then i thought i was over analyzing. i'm not saying women can't have muscle definition but the triceps in the second pic just have that "male" definition to them. then the square jaw in the 4th pic.
i called her yesterday and she sounded female enough. a smoker maybe but did have a feminine voice. haven't had a follow-up call from her as expected today so i guess she effectively made up my mind for me.
if anyone samples i'd sure like to know how it works out.