How much info is a hobbyist entitled to

[HeatherNicole]

How much info is a hobbyist entitled to? I recently had to have surgery for a non hobby related issue. I had a client that got a bit pissy about why I wouldn't book an appointment for a certain date. I told him that it was a medical issue and left it at that but he really pressured me on the whole thing until I told him what it was I had going on. If I can provide recent testing results for things that affect a client does a client have a right to want to know non hobby related medical info? The only reason I even told him was for fear that he would take the little i had said and it snowball in back channels to be something crazy. What is your opinion on this?

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by HeatherNicole

How much info is a hobbyist entitled to?

As much as you feel is appropriate to tell him. No more.

The individual (he is certainly not a "gentleman") of whom you speak is a boor and a jerk. I think you'd be totally justified in putting him on your list of "hobbyists I'd pay to go fuck off and die".

Cheers,

bcg

[HeatherNicole]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

I think you'd be totally justified in putting him on your list of "hobbyists I'd pay to go fuck off and die".

ROFLMAO never heard that one before. May I use it at some point. To me it is just that their are clients that i dont consider clients i consider them friends. Those people I would share info like that with because i know their concern rests in more than what is between my legs. For others well I just dont feel its fair to be pressured about it. I certainly wouldn't do that to them.

[JustaGuyinMS]

Lovely Lady:

BCG is correct in everything he said in this case as I understand it. If a lady told me that she had a medical issue, I'd ask if it had been satisfactorily resolved, but I'd never press her to know what it was. There are a few ladies who I consider to be friends, and I suspect they'd tell me what was going on, but that would be their choice.

No one has the right to demand private information.

JaG

[heidilynnla]

Sister, just hang up on his nosey ass! CLICK or tell him you have a severe case of nunya

Nunyabizness!

[Megawatt]

Some things are personal, if he is any kind of grntleman, he should respect that.

[Gambler575]

He's not entitled to any info, fluidity is the key to this hobby. If your schedules don't fit move on and try again later. Privacy is Safety

[naughtynatale]

Thank you Gambler575