Out of the 3 provider references that you checked, did NONE of them say anything unusual about this guy?? Were they REPUTABLE providers? (I hate to ask that, but I'm jus sayin, sometimes these newbie backpage girls aren't very reliable sources for a reference.)
Im glad that you posted this. I will PM you for his handle. Sorry this has happened to you. Being a mother myself, I don't think that some of the gentlemen understand the hoops that we have to jump through to get childcare squared away sometimes.
Nikki