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Originally Posted by DFW5Traveler
There are hot buttons and then there are hot buttons. Some people, including myself, can be pushed to breaking points. Even the most mature of us all can be pushed off that razor's edge. Spirited debates can and will bring out the worst in people.
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I wholeheartedly agree. I consider it mature to be aware of that and be capable of handling it. The world would never change if it wasn`t for people stepping out of line every once and a while.
Decades ago it was considered rude for a woman to wear short skirts and even have an opinion.
So to be capable of handling changes is maturity. and growth. Hiding behind "how things should be or always have been" is old fashioned and rigid and lacks reality. And truth and reality is not pleasant at all times.
That was what i meant to say. I love heated debatte. Everyone does it. Pretending it does or should not exist is shortsigthed. People usually fight for what is theirs. If you manage always to keep a cool head, you`re either phoney or not very personally involved in discussions. That is my opinion at least.
I can debatte things that don^t matter to me with a cool head any time. But if someone tries to argue with me that my cat deserves to get put in the microwave and eaten ...well another topic :-)