Why is it?

[drinkindreamin]

Why is it that toxic women have the BEST pussy? Thinking back on a past personal relationship this evening. I had feelings for the girl but she had more problems than I could fix , not to mention what I took for an undiagnosed bipolar personality disorder. Without a doubt in my history of the hobby and and my personal life, she had the best puddintang I’ve ever had. In all seriousness I find that many providers have similar issues, such as daddy issues, wanting to be wanted, I even feel some have been sexually abused. There’s been times I felt guilty for possibly taking advantage of those types mentioned. I’ve always been one that had to look into Pandora’s box.

[Harley Diablo]

I have the same experiences. Most all have issues due to man or home issues and most have abused alcohol or other things. There is always a reason or they would not be selling it on here.
The last one I really liked and spent time and money to help her future she ended up running with a gang of pushers and got in to deep.
Even my regulars I see have daily issues and always asking for more but now I just say NO and do the session and move on.

[Horn^I^Dog]

Harley pretty much nailed it. I'll toss in that the majority of a gal's problems are due to extremely poor decisions. They generally want to continue making the same bad decision, just want the consequences to go away. They'll use their last time to go out and party, then they can't pay their phone bill. Since they can't pay their phone bill, they cant get any biz. BUT if you just front them money for their phone, it will all be OK.



You can't fix anything for them unless they want it fixed.


HID (21-HID)

[Lopaka316]

All true! So many times I have been asked to front money “just this time”. The other one I have gotten is “my kid needs…”.

[MuffinMan]

Remember Gentlemen, that no matter how hard you try, you can’t save somebody from themselves. Once you’ve figured that out life will be much less stressful in the “hobbyverse”.
MM

[MrFriendly]

Well said Muffin

[drinkindreamin]

Originally Posted by MuffinMan

Remember Gentlemen, that no matter how hard you try, you can’t save somebody from themselves. Once you’ve figured that out life will be much less stressful in the “hobbyverse”.
MM

And that’s a fact.. many experiences I’ve encountered in the hobby has influenced my personal life. I have personal friends both male and female I’ve helped and helped.. not to mention the hobby experiences. One day I just came to the realization… “ I can’t save you “ and you can’t save people. That’s something that comes from within. It comes from struggle and sacrifices to put yourself on another lever. As HID mentioned it comes from choices and good decisions as well. Another thing that influenced me is those in the hobby I’ve supported when they were down and when they got on their feet. The calls stop, the texts stop, there’s no good by. And should you meet on the street there’s no hi how you been or Thank you for helping me. What cuts like a knife is those you call friends, family and lovers are the first to treat you like that.