I want to stop.

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by lots2020

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop.

Are your encounters just so good that you can't get enough of it?
or is it the thrill seeking of it that drives you?
I quit so many times before. It wasn't until I figured out why I was doing it that I was able to walk away in a healthy manner (not villifying it...I could do it again, I just am able to choose not to). When I was being honest with myself, the effort required by ME to have a good time wasn't worth it on the women I was seeing. The more and more I did, the less and less attractive the providers made it (being a headache to setup, not all that fun to be with, the money spent, etc)

Originally Posted by lots2020

I'm feeling really paranoid. If anything, I jusy want some reassurance if there is any.

paranoid of WHAT?

deny everything all the time (even if you did do it)
gaslight the accuser and force them to prove it
even when they prove it, continue to deny it.

[Capital]

Originally Posted by ben dover

So Lots 2020, how's it going? I see you were logged on here today.

He did quit, but he logged in to get a good laugh at the guys who don't have his ball set, and still seek pussy onine. Right Lots 2020?

[ahab11]

A tactic that I heard was used with some success was reporting laptop stolen.

Closed all Social Media Accounts saying they were hacked.

Closed/Changed all Bank Accounts due to said hack.

Hired an Internet Service that "Cleans Online Reputation".

Appears to have worked for the guy as his problems went away.

YMMV

[Yesyes36]

Hello Lots2020. It looks like you do need to step away from the hobby, if you haven't already done so. With your self-professed "paranoia", this is not a good pastime for you to be engaging in.

If I understand your post, you are in your 20's? Guys in their 20's should be getting all the free pussy they need. Participating in this hobby at such a young age can have some really detrimental long-term effects on your views of women and sex. This world is a whole lot different than the non-hobbying world. I suggest that you save this for later, or not at all. Young folks in their 20's can find a whole lot of fun that doesn't involve the possibility of LE raining down on them.

That's just my $.02 worth anyway.

[FightFan]

Sounds to me like you are not afraid of the hobby but afraid of something you did or possibly afraid of one of the girls managers . Maybe your afraid of the reality of it all . If you didn't do anything too stupid you have no worries from cops . Sounds to me like your running from yourself and the reality of the hobby .

Maybe you realized many of the young hot girls you thought were pure were getting banged hard every night and taking fist fulls of cash from horny older men .

Maybe you realize its much easier to rent a piece than it is to long term lease a piece . The only fear you will have to face is the reality of the hobby and your shattered ideology of women and the hobby itself .

[pertpvyztrzv]

LE isn't going to care, but maybe your future spouse might or if you go to get a clearence for fed job or something. Research on staying anonymous as possible. Totally anon is next to impossible but figure out the threat you're trying to protect yourself from and go from there.

If you can't afford it, whatever you do, don't nut with Internet Porn. Google "Porn induced Erectile Dysfunction". It's a real thing. So many studies and men reporting that porn messed with their real lives.

Porn has been around forever, but maybe because porn on the internet is too easy and too real as opposed to print pictures, it messes with your brain chemicals that happen during real sex.

Scale back on doing hobbying so often. If you must nut, do it without porn, use memories and get it done. Or scale back services - find an AMP and just a HJ is better when it's someone else besides yourself.

Do what you must but don't get trapped by easy internet porn - nothing is free.

[Tiny]

Originally Posted by winn dixie

Chances are you're already on a "list" plus you have posted reviews.
Think about....

Countries with no extradiction??

Haha!

Burkina Faso is lovely this time of year. And there's no extradition treaty with the USA! Same for Cuba and Venezuela and the poontang there is dirt cheap.

I'm pretty darned paranoid, and if I were in the the original posters shoes, I wouldn't be worried.

[Michael8219]

Countries with extra diction: crisp/clear language found in Italy, Estonia, Slovakia, and Hungary.

One way to stop is to pour cayenne pepper all over your pee pee. Or pound it with a rubber mallet.

I like more exposure like CFNM.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by Ripmany

1. Most it cheaper to hobby and get a feel good than get a GFE.
2. So call GFE file all kind crap on you.
2. Just for getting a hooker most I ever heard a cop is 2 miles out side her hotel. Many sting get you show up and it don't matter what you said.
3. There like to get a quick sting it not considered a high crime.
4. Get new pp and CA account. Close them and reopen as need and if using them to hobby you need to get out.

Why in Gods name is it so difficult to post comments that can be read clearly by someone who understands the english language??

[Cendell M]

Quit being a puss in the boots, no one’s coming after you!

[liamhenry]

Originally Posted by lots2020

Hello!

Been a long time coming (heh), but I want to stop hobbying because 1) Finances and 2) I don't want to risk my (so far) clean record anymore as a person somewhere in
their 20s. That being said, I have several questions:

1: If I stopped cold turkey today, is
there still a chance that LE would come knocking on my door in the future? Months from now? Years? Decades? If yes, then I guess what's the likelihood?

2: What would old text messages on SMS (naive, stupid me used my actual phone a couple times) come back to bite me in the rear? Luckily for me, I've never EVER texted any explicit things like sex, bj, or any of the sort, but I've asked about availability before as if asking for appointments. Idk, kinda paranoid about this one.

3: Same with CashApp/PayPal, is it possible that I've already or could be flagged for soliciting/prostitution already?

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop. Tbh, I'm feeling really paranoid. If anything, I jusy want some reassurance if there is any. Any insight would be highly appreciated

Yeah that's Very Emotional moments

[liamhenry]

Don,t Stop and Never give up

[Salty Again]

... Unless you were on Epstein's Isle or at one of those
P-Diddy bloke's party events - I'd surely reckon you got
no reason to worry about LE there, mate.

#### Salty

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by lots2020

Hello!

Been a long time coming (heh), but I want to stop hobbying because 1) Finances and 2) I don't want to risk my (so far) clean record anymore as a person somewhere in
their 20s. That being said, I have several questions:

1: If I stopped cold turkey today, is
there still a chance that LE would come knocking on my door in the future? Months from now? Years? Decades? If yes, then I guess what's the likelihood?

Unless you used credit cards, you're just fine. Even if you used credit cards, you're 99.9% OK.

2: What would old text messages on SMS (naive, stupid me used my actual phone a couple times) come back to bite me in the rear? Luckily for me, I've never EVER texted any explicit things like sex, bj, or any of the sort, but I've asked about availability before as if asking for appointments. Idk, kinda paranoid about this one.

Doubt it, unless some pimp or something wanted to black mail you.

3: Same with CashApp/PayPal, is it possible that I've already or could be flagged for soliciting/prostitution already?

They have to prove it.

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop. Tbh, I'm feeling really paranoid. If anything, I jusy want some reassurance if there is any. Any insight would be highly appreciated

I've been on hiatus for over 15 years, but will never claim 100% that I won't go in again.
Good luck, I know exactly where you're coming from and know it's hard to move on from the joys of hobbying.

...

[liamhenry]

No Keep it On