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Originally Posted by joyote
idk how some of you guys seems to get away with this
I would expect a provider to simply break off contact
after such an inquiry
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ABQ (and NM as a whole) is an increasingly dire scene (outside of AMPs where it is actually pretty good). We used to have a decent, but rotating, roster of younger local college aged providers and generally at least one or two great ladies on tour at any given time. Over the past year or two, the former dried up outside of basically one woman (who I hear is awesome but is definitely a hassle to coordinate with) and the latter increasingly don't even bother.
Chatted with one of the women I am a regular with (she still comes by but doesn't advertise outside of her regulars anymore). while getting dressed a few months back. Apparently some of the people who invade every thread to scream about how nobody should ever do a deposit also have a tendency to outright harass providers. She specifically referenced that the reason she changed her number late last year was because somebody was just putting her shit in every gas station men's room in the state because she wanted a deposit and wouldn't send him a video of her masturbating "in exchange". And it sounds like that is a pretty normal experience in NM these days. And apparently multiple women have had guns pulled on them and were robbed at the end of a session.
Which more or less leaves us where we are. A line out to the interstate of people wanting to raw dog one lady while also talking about how their favorite blowjob is from someone with "only a few sores in her mouth" and so forth. And most of the locals who try to make it work are desperate enough that they can't really negotiate or walk away because they need the cash.
Not to say that there aren't still some diamonds in the rough but... the rough is REALLY rough.