You either have had to hurt her in such way that you made her snap where she thinks everyday Easter and/or You are a sparkly unicorn with a special horn and worth boiling bunnies over daily.NO RESPECTABLE equestrian would risk ruining her reputation. The horses in the stables talk and that would destroy any future gallops w/ horses she hasn't had the privileges of riding yet.
With the new library open, new readers still need to be verified to receive their library cards. I cannot pick up and move all the books in one night. I have to be able to trust my readers will not have overdue books.
The comfort zone is different for every equestrian and every reader and should be respected. And if you are that sparkly unicorn, I have a book for you to read