I do the couples massage with my wife. The place we go I got a L1 years before. When women are around its all business, sorry to burst your bubble. I will let my hands wander and they definitely tease but nothing like when alone. I'm usually raising the tent and she will keep playing around it but that's it. If you pushed maybe you could do better but I get the feeling it's two sides of the business that they don't mix. She has offered multiple times for me to come get a massage later in the week...