How often would you hobby if..... ???

[regalbeagal43]

So I'm new to the hobby and I've found myself increasing my frequency.

In the beginning I would do it once every 2-3 weeks.

Then slowly to every week.

To recently 2-3 times a week.....

Has anyone got tired or needed a "deload week" (phrase used in the exercise and training world) and just needed a week or two or longer off?

Or would you hobby every day if you had the time resources and financial resources?

I'm finding with the extra exercise and viagra my body is starting to feel the effects of this hobby.

Just gathering input from the more seasoned hobbyists.

Thanks!

[thewoodthatcould]

If money and health weren't major concerns then I would change the way that I hobby altogether. I save up and build up for about 2-3 months and then I binge. In part I like the novelty of new encounters, but the lack of familiarity sometimes carries its way into the BCD activities. The way that I would change would be to have 3-6 "go to" dates that I'm about to spend anywhere from a weekend up to a week with on a mini holiday or vacation. I would expect to compensate them for time spent while additionally covering meals, lodging and a few activities (shopping would not be one). Essentially, I would hobby like having an out of town girlfriend where you can enjoy the experience of companionship in small bursts.

Great post btw!

[RickyG2002]

If I had the time and financial resources, I think I would still stick to once a week... maybe splurge one week and go twice or so. The only difference I think is for some of my ATFs, I would do multi hours instead of just 1.

Work generally gives me a dead week where I dont hobby every 4-6 weeks or so. I either have to go out of town for a week or I am on call for a week. I dont hobby outside of the DFW area and work usually keeps me too busy to hobby whereever I am anyway... and when I am on call, I dont chance it and have a visit ruined because I have to split to answer a call.

[regalbeagal43]

Originally Posted by thewoodthatcould

If money and health weren't major concerns then I would change the way that I hobby altogether. I save up and build up for about 2-3 months and then I binge. In part I like the novelty of new encounters, but the lack of familiarity sometimes carries its way into the BCD activities. The way that I would change would be to have 3-6 "go to" dates that I'm about to spend anywhere from a weekend up to a week with on a mini holiday or vacation. I would expect to compensate them for time spent while additionally covering meals, lodging and a few activities (shopping would not be one). Essentially, I would hobby like having an out of town girlfriend where you can enjoy the experience of companionship in small bursts.

Great post btw!

You bring up good points about the health part. I really didn't think of it that much, I'm always careful (or atleast I think I am, and you've got me thinking more about it)

I've never thought about the longer duration aspect - I normally do single day - 60-90 min but haven't done overnights or travel. I think that would bring a whole new level to hobbying but I don't have the flexibility to disappear for several days currently.

It's interesting - the more and more I read about the hobby, the more and more I'm finding most guys would love to have the companionship without the strings....

[Cowboys1960]

Probably weekly. I am at 5 independents and an amp since I started in April with an Indy scheduled for Thursday. Might be taking a bit of break after to figure out what I like.

[ahab11]

I go through spurts where maybe 2-3 times a week then I stop for a month.

Usually something like a provider who keeps me waiting for 30 minutes or gives me a rushed WTF kind of session or ghost me entirely is the sign I need to take a hobby break.

OH2 going away will impact some guys but i'm comfortable with the numbers of the girls I have in my contact list so when the weather gets cooler i'm sure i'll be back in heavy hobby mode.

[reddog1951]

In my 40s and 50s, I hobbied almost daily, sometimes more than once a day. I was lucky, great income and several local massage parlors and strip clubs. Slowed a little in my 60s and especially after I retired since I no longer had "work" excuses. Covid hit and actually didn't hobby for almost 2 yrs. Back at it now, but nowhere near the number of providers available as in the past. Damn it.

[Bushjumper]

If money were not a problem, every other day. I'm just not as young as I once was.

[Moby-Dick]

usually 2 per week, one with strong massage + FS , one without massage just fun.

[RomanRevko]

A lot more if the ho’s were hot….