Why We Do It

[Johnsson]

I'm with you scribe and my gf has yet to fuck me in the hot tub...any bets on who is first...Jenn, the gf or Kayden town when she comes through...???

[FatCity]

while we all have a variety of reasons, could any argue that we are srong? The reasons are logical and defensible yet its shunned so hard in society

[FatCity]

This fine study is pigeon-holed into just the Arkansas section. It would beneficial presented to all in the global COED section. I would be interested if any providers EVER considered these motivations and if they ever factored into what they provide/

[tuckahoe]

Sorry to see an account from a long time respectable member 'Guested'.

We all have our reasons for visiting escorts. I'm not going to pick out the numbers now. I have met some fantastic ladies!

[Exchequer]

Originally Posted by tuckahoe

Sorry to see an account from a long time respectable member 'Guested'.

Me too, reminded me of better times when things were fresh and fun. But things change and life goes on. RIP, Guest110920 you are missed.

And to keep the thread on track, #9 for me!

Originally Posted by Guest110920

1. Some have difficulty finding a partner for a conventional relationship
2. Some are unsatisfied with their current partnered relationship
3. Some patronize sex workers in order to bolster their masculinity
4. Some seek to abuse other people and target sex workers because they are viewed as accessible and unlikely to report victimization to the police
5. Some are looking to fulfill a fantasy with a person who will engage in desired activities (such as role playing or sadomasochism), someone with a desired physical appearance, ethnicity, or cultural background (often based on stereotypes of other nationalities), or someone of a different sexual orientation (e.g., heterosexual men experimenting with gay or transgender individuals; heterosexual women seeking lesbian experiences, etc.)
6. Some buy sex because they find it risky, thrilling, or sporting (calling themselves hobbyists)
7. Some wish to avoid the obligations or emotional complications involved in a conventional relationship
8. Some seek a limited romantic or emotional connection in addition to or instead of a purely physical experience
9. They just want to FUCK!

[MJewel]

I see allot of #7s they simply want zero drama

[Johnsson]

[SlowHand50]

6 and 7 with a dash of 5 all day (and night)

[Rustonbailey]

SO has severe physical health problems, so normal intimacy is not possible. Been over 8 years .

[scottprestons]

2,3,5,6

[notquiteatroll]

2, 5, 7&8 (but not likely at the same time)

I think theres also a bit of addiction as well.
Whenever I'm with a passably attractive woman who's comfortable and willing, tender and good enough to seem shes having a nice time I get flooded with a feeling of well being and can sleep soundly.
And it's not even from cumming, medical issues block that pleasure.
Maybe the addiction to women is kinda like the addiction to air.

(Anyway gentlemen cum on all those tits you can, while you still can)

[eccieuser13]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Lol! All the best parts and I'm not responsible for anyone's laundry.

I agree with you, Ginger, it's much more than a transaction... for some of us ladies. In fact, I'll say it should never be treated as a "transaction" because it's about two people/ two lives colliding -- even for a few hours in time -- in a busy, fast-paced world that is lacking so much intimacy (physical and emotional).

And regardless of why you do it, it can have as much or as little meaning as you wish it to. But the real zest in life, I've learned, comes from connecting meaning to everything we do. That's where happiness lies, passion, great sex, and fulfilling relationships with people.

Everyone we come in contact with we impact. So I think it's best not to be too casual about anything at all

This is such a fascinating topic for me, and frankly, I never understood fully why men see escorts (even being one myself!) UNTIL I matured and was married. I realized that marriage and relationships change people and makes it that much more difficult to feel excited about and enjoy a partner and have a great sex life.