It’s hit or miss with Armoni, too
I asked her to promise me that,
if I drove to her incall, she would not stand me up
She said, “...I promise I will not stand you up...”
Her incall is 4, maybe 5 miles from I-25, on the W side of the river,
thru the quagmire of Bernalillo road construction,
then over a bit of dirt road
I arrived on time
The house, I would say, is large enough that
likely more than 1 person lives there
Things in the yard suggest a male presence, like,
pickup trucks. the empty & clean housing of a transmission
I parked & rang her phone
She picked up & asked for 5 mins
She said she would come out & bring me in
I said ok
After 6 mins, she txted
“Can u give me 20 mins im sorry”
At this point, I was pretty sure this was going South
but I still could not just drive away
I txted “is there a problem?”
no immediate response
over the next 20 mins, I txted...
“5mins turned into 25
how many will that turn into?”
and...
“my experience tells me that
this is not going to happen”
and...
“nevertheless, I am waiting”
and...
“still waiting”
and...
“this waiting is nerve wracking”
and...
“will wait a few more mins”
At 21 mins from her last txt, I rang her phone
No answer
I started up & drove away
I got a hundred feet up the road when she txted...
“Im coming out now i apolagise”
and...
“Im coming do nt worry”
I replied...
“ok, I’m turning around”
I went back & parked. I rang her phone. No answer
I txted...
“I came back
I don’t see you”
I rang her phone again. No answer
After 8 more mins, I drove away again
I txted...
“wow. just, wow”
After a few more mins, she txted...
“Walking outside I don't see you”
I said...
“I have limits”
she...
“Completely completely ready”
I said...
“I am gone”
her last word to me...
“Ooh”
Me...
“damn shame
I really wanted to meet you”
and...
“now, idk how
you could restore my confidence”
Sadly, I would say this kind of treatment
has become more the usual than the exception
a week earlier, stg Violet stood me up, cold
https://albuquerque.skipthegames.com...i/427152508312
no explanation. no apology
but, even trusted favorites can not be relied on
Diego is right
FOSTA/SESTA made a tremendous hit on the industry
followed by the pandemic
Not sure why, exactly, that translates
into such willful disregard, inconsideration & cruelty
I hope for better days ahead