I woke up this morning thinking of this string, remembering something. I shit you not!
When/If the reader should find themselves in a similar situation around ANY metro “no-tell motel” you might want to consider the OLD, tried and true “street check”. If the OP had remembered/knew the test he would at least have had another clue. He could have simply had the lady come out to his car for the test. She refuses, drive away!
Hoping I don’t have to list the steps (of the check) in a public forum.
Another 2 cents.