Thinking about seeing a escort again... but I have a question.

[bankai]

I don't really wanna waste my money so I want the workers and experienced clients to answer this question and be very honest about it.

Why you can't get a straight answer on services provided upfront before you see a worker? I have a woman I kinda want to see, huge tits, no stomach, short and my type but I sent her a few texts about what services and she stopped responding. I know safety is a big deal since we don't know who's on the other end of the line but what about the client who doesn't know what to expect and ends up wasting money.

I wouldn't want cby and no foreplay and spent money for that, especially for the hour for one pop.

So I want to know.

What to expect from a hour date with a girl in the 250 price range?

Why is discussing letters not allowed?

[KevinMDOK]

Many providers don't want to discuss services, as that would be agreeing to exchange money for specific sexual acts. They don't want to risk that as you could be LE, and setting a trap to arrest them. They best way to find info is to read the reviews. I know that if you don't have premium access it can be hard to get much meaningful info. Sometimes, past people who have reviewed the lady will give you some info if you ask via PM. If the lady is on other sites, you can look her up and might find more info on what services she is willing to provide. It will get easier once you have reviewed a few ladies and they feel like they can trust you.

[Fizley]

I am a service kind of guy. Rather than contact her and start asking what is on her menu, how about going to see her for a quick, or HH. When you leave, and as your tie your shoes ask can we consider xyz service next time for the hour? If she is scheduled another appointment for the next day.

Some providers are willing to meet you for coffee during their slow times. See if she is one of those willing to meet you and gain a comfort level. Then as you walk out to the parking lot you can ask about service.

The key is for the provider to gain a comfort level with you.

[January Maye]

OP: Asking menu and roses from a provider both rest on the cusp of poor taste. Both are legitimate curiosities. Anymore, however, they could be conversation enders.

Reason being if we are all doing our part and using resources the way we should....the answers are ours to be had. If you do not have premium access it will be tougher, but it can be done. As a seeker of such information, the laziest way and most reckless way is to ask the lady of your choice. You have fellowes out there who have reviewed this person before. Maybe try to find one who has reviewed her a couple+ times and PM that person for details. If you actively participate in discussions, opinions, etc that would be a plus in receiving an answer back from them. Personally, a pet peeve of mine is a person with no previous contribution to the site asking questions.

It just seems a little bit like pissing on the lawn of those who have put some work into cultivating that land. All in or all out. Trust takes time to build on this lawn. Common efforts to the same end go a long way.

Free speech means you can discuss whatever you would like here. It is all allowed. Just remember that when you decided to register, your words hold far more gravity than ever before. Be respectful and use discretion. This is not a platform to rock a "persona/image". ALL of us depend on you and each other to hold this fort down. What you post can affect everyone.

Try to be a class act. If you cannot get the answers you are looking for by dimming the lights.....do what you feel. Research what you can and go with your gut. Go with VERIFIED providers.

P.S. Nobody here would know what to expect from "price ranges". Maybe tone it down a tad.

- January Maye

[January Maye]

OP: Asking menu and roses from a provider both rest on the cusp of poor taste. Both are legitimate curiosities. Anymore, however, they could be conversation enders.

Reason being if we are all doing our part and using resources the way we should....the answers are ours to be had. If you do not have premium access it will be tougher, but it can be done. As a seeker of such information, the laziest way and most reckless way is to ask the lady of your choice. You have fellowes out there who have reviewed this person before. Maybe try to find one who has reviewed her a couple+ times and PM that person for details. If you actively participate in discussions, opinions, etc that would be a plus in receiving an answer back from them. Personally, a pet peeve of mine is a person with no previous contribution to the site asking questions.

It just seems a little bit like pissing on the lawn of those who have put some work into cultivating that land. All in or all out. Trust takes time to build on this lawn. Common efforts to the same end go a long way.

Free speech means you can discuss whatever you would like here. It is all allowed. Just remember that when you decided to register, your words hold far more gravity than ever before. Be respectful and use discretion. This is not a platform to rock a "persona/image". ALL of us depend on you and each other to hold this fort down. What you post can affect everyone.

Try to be a class act. If you cannot get the answers you are looking for by dimming the lights.....do what you feel. Research what you can and go with your gut. Go with VERIFIED providers.

P.S. Nobody here would know what to expect from "price ranges". Maybe tone it down a tad.

- January Maye

[tinman483]

To me it seems a lil odd or weird now days. It seems (that way I reed it anyway). All things are a YMMV!

And even before this hysteria started!


It like some providers (that you haven't seen in the past) think , o that's to many questions and then not the next. Some are ok with being a lil nawty.

And I live out of town seems some want a date now others don't mind a bit of a wait.
Some don't seem like she has done any screening. But maybe they have already have read encounters you have had? No way to tell! Most of my screening is done before I ask about a date. Never have had a newbe tho. I am not a fan of the risk. LOL
What ever ya do, don't get a reputation of a NONS! I never have, but stuff in life does cum up just let them know. 1st date especially!
And don't blow up their phone! Everyone has stuff to do! Even if it another client! Respect their time! And guys in some sort of service industry know this or should?
Just sayin as in most stuff YMMV
I duno if this helps but be safe!

[lovingcamela]

This is good advice, especially because all of us don’t do reviews any longer. I am more than happy to meet someone for coffee and have done so in the past.

[lovingcamela]

This is good advice, especially because all of us don’t do reviews any longer. I am more than happy to meet someone for coffee and have done so in the past.

[Pangolier]

Discussing specific services is an enormous red flag for law enforcement, and many girls immediately terminate all communication upon seeing such. It's best to try and ascertain that info without asking her directly, such as from another man who may have seen her recently. If you can't, then either don't see her, or see her once. Once you have had a pleasant session with her, 99% chance she'd be willing to discuss services afterwards. However, this conversation is best had in person, not via electronic means. And note I said AFTER the session is done, not before starting it.

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by bankai

What to expect from a hour date with a girl in the 250 price range?

The price is very much NOT an indicator of any specific services. Base prices vary widely from city to city (a $200 girl in Kansas City or Dallas might be a $400 girl in New York or Los Angeles). Also, different women have different standards. You'll find very high-dollar providers who don't do specific things and lower-priced women who have no problem doing whatever you ask.

As others have said, you have a few options, including more research from other sites or contacting guys who have provided reviews, or simply seeing her for a limited session or date before spending the "big bucks" on a full meeting (if that's even an option).

We've all been in the situation where we have paid a provider and did not get the services we hoped for. In that case, the best you can do is leave an honest review for the next guy.

[friendly fred]

Originally Posted by Fizley

I am a service kind of guy. Rather than contact her and start asking what is on her menu, how about going to see her for a quick, or HH. When you leave, and as your tie your shoes ask can we consider xyz service next time for the hour? If she is scheduled another appointment for the next day.

Some providers are willing to meet you for coffee during their slow times. See if she is one of those willing to meet you and gain a comfort level. Then as you walk out to the parking lot you can ask about service.

The key is for the provider to gain a comfort level with you.

Excellent advice - I almost always take them out to lunch first, unless she is a reco from a provider I have personally had a session with that went well.

You are going to have to lose money and time to find the good ones - but the good ones know other good ones and will provide excellent intel on the better providers - though they don't always recommend the drop dead gorgeous because, well....you might not come back!

Cops won't take the time to build such a case against small fry...they can just show up and make their numbers pretty easily. If they are trying to build a trafficking case just hope you can get out of the way.

As for price, these girls generally know what the going rate is and have been socialized their entire lives to value sexual activities and I've found you have to pay to get the super pretty and well put together girls.

Adam Smith wouldn't be surprised.

[roadcourse]

Originally Posted by KCQuestor

The price is very much NOT an indicator of any specific services. Base prices vary widely from city to city (a $200 girl in Kansas City or Dallas might be a $400 girl in New York or Los Angeles). Also, different women have different standards. You'll find very high-dollar providers who don't do specific things and lower-priced women who have no problem doing whatever you ask.

As others have said, you have a few options, including more research from other sites or contacting guys who have provided reviews, or simply seeing her for a limited session or date before spending the "big bucks" on a full meeting (if that's even an option).

We've all been in the situation where we have paid a provider and did not get the services we hoped for. In that case, the best you can do is leave an honest review for the next guy.

I would much rather spend time with a provider that has a great attitude than a gorgeous provider with shit for an attitude. Attitude is one of the least understood attributes of providers in my experience. Looks are definitely not everything. Not by a long shot. Make me feel good and it does likely feel very good. How often do we walk away not feeling good due to a shitty, mechanical attitude? That's why there is reluctance to try someone new. There ya go.

[Sienna91]

If anyone asks me sexual questions that I have never met I will terminate all communication. That is what reviews are for. Pm guys who have seen the provider but asking sexual questions right off the back especially as a newbie will get you blacklisted by SEVERAL GIRLS.

[Sienna91]

And price range is indicative of nothing.