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Old 02-23-2020, 08:45 PM   #16
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I've fallen in love with several but my problem is I cannot just have sex with one woman - so I'd be happy to have a relationship with a provider and I have but I always give them money anyway and make sure they keep their own thing going because I will never just love one woman - I just can't do it.
I absolutely admire your honesty! Honesty makes a person so unique, it is so very refreshing for a variety of reasons! & the fact you have learned yourself and know what you can/can not do is such an inspiration!

Motivate more men to be that way 😉

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Old 02-23-2020, 08:56 PM   #18
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Had a client that went to sugar daddy then to real life dating...Wasted over 3 years to have him become jealous of the hobby. Yet he never stepped up to help me trans to a civi job that would pay my bills.....Made me jaded. Butt I still adore hanging out with my client. Whether we have playtime or are OTC out for dinner. With a hobbiest I can be myself and get to talk about my day.....

Ms. Athena ,

Thank you for sharing!! Quick question - now, when you say that you wasted over 3 years... just for him to become jealous. Are you referring to him appearing to act like he could deal with the business/personal life, and balancing out the two.. then all of a sudden he couldn’t? Like acting as if he could deal with it all but in all actuality couldn’t?

I’m glad you both can still enjoy each other regardless of the differences!

I would love to hear back soon.

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Old 02-24-2020, 10:36 AM   #19
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A lot of good comments already here that spell out the issues. If this is a reciprical relationshp and he feels the same way. I think you need to find some way for the 2 of you to make it work. It won't be easy for either one of you.... but certainly could be worth the investment
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I absolutely admire your honesty! Honesty makes a person so unique, it is so very refreshing for a variety of reasons! & the fact you have learned yourself and know what you can/can not do is such an inspiration!

Motivate more men to be that way ��

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I appreciate your response and I have to say it works out best when everyone knows the rules - and the beauty of meeting women who provide is they really can't complain about me having fun with other women since they have multiple partners, also.

Providers are like nurses for the soul and emotions. As long as the are "fully present" with me when we are together they are free to do their own thing when I'm not around and I don't pry.
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A real man will never allow that!
Those type of relationships never work in my opinion! Business is business!
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I have dated a stripper when younger, wow, talk about crazy. Fun but always in trouble. That didn't last long. I will never do that again!


My wife is a past provider. Retired before I met her. We are 20 years into our marriage with a few years dating before that. It can work. She was a lot more fun back in the day, but we are older and slower now.
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Old 02-26-2020, 02:42 PM   #23
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I think in the simplest terms the level of honesty and, most importantly maturity, will be the making or breaking of any relationship. As long as one sees the other and a property or possession, it will always end badly.
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I dated 2 providers over the years. The first one failed because she wasn't honest and ended up dating a few people at the same time while telling all of us we were exclusive. The second relationship lasted about a year and a half. It only ended because she had to move far away to care for her mother. There was a great openness and respect that I have yet to find in a relationship, even in my marriage. The side benefits were pretty amazing, especially when she brought her duo partner home for some fun. We kept in contact for a number of years after having gone our separate ways and then life got in the way, so we lost contact.

I always respected their jobs and was supportive. It was interesting to me to hear about their experiences. From my perspective, such a relationship can work, but it depends on the right people coming together. I'm not a jealous or controlling type of person, so things worked well for me. I'm not sure how many other guys have the same tolerance, so I can't speak for how others might do in such a situation.
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Lou, do you do bbfs with this guy? Does he cum inside you?
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Old 02-29-2020, 08:24 AM   #26
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Lou: Any "Real World" relationship will have problems. Adding in any aspect of the Hobby World just adds another layer or more of complexity.

Think of how many ways this can go wrong for you. Imqagine this getting commitment serious. will he want you to give up escorting? Will he give up the Hobby? You met him on this site; Ok how many other sites is he active on . . .do you want him to stop that too?

If you both agree that you will continue in sex work as you do now, or in any other way (cam-girl, etc), will he be happy with that?

this list can go on and on, but you get what I mean I am sure. Now add in any of the things that bring friction to any relationship, such as seat-up or seat-down and who leaves dirty dishes in the sink to go shopping . . .or fishing (whatever) and all that other stuff.

Think this through.
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Don't fall in love with client.It never works. Also the best option would be meeting someone when you are about to leave the hobby and just not mentioning it. Or just waiting all together.
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Don't fall in love with client.It never works. Also the best option would be meeting someone when you are about to leave the hobby and just not mentioning it. Or just waiting all together.
When will you be leaving the hobby? My goodness, you are gorgeous! It would be quite easy to fall HARD for you, no pun intended.
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