Should I let myself be bullied

[Jenna G]

So I know you guys are supposed to think we don't have daily lives to. But, I'm sure many providersn have a SO, today I told him I came out of retirement out of fear of those guy exposing me. So should I still let him scare me off. Or continue to help grow the well intentioned provider network and also advocate for equal rights for consensual sexual arrangements between consenting adults?

[Guest072020]

We don’t know the full story.

Please do what you think is in your best interests.

[Jenna G]

Thank you for the push to think for myself. I mean that to.. ✌������

[Nole312]

No one should be bullied for any reason

[bc1969]

Very interesting question but kinda cryptic,,I take it that you have previously escorted but stopped because you found someone you liked a lot and decided to devote yourself to him?

But since then you started up back in the business and maybe was not completely upfront with the SO at first but now you have come clean on the truth, cards are on the table now?

And that you felt it best to tell him because you were kinda being preemptive to the fact that he would find out regardless, kinda like 2 + 2 = 4,,meaning the demands of escorting are not that hard to figure out by your closest friends?

But now it seems like he’s bullying you or harassing you to stop?

[Bondage7000]

Don't let anyone bully you girl. Stand up to the asshole

[Jenna G]

I don't understand mean people. Especially in the pleasure business.

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by Jenna G

I don't understand mean people. Especially in the pleasure business.

First of all, we don't know each other Jenna. Or have we ever met, but being that I've been accused of being a "bully" before. But for the life of me can't understand why. Maybe I can offer some perspective. It takes 2 to tango, and life's too short to bother to bully anyone without reason. Not justifying the bullying at all. But in the mind of the person bullying you, might there be "reason" they find justifiable? Not saying it's true or reasonable, but in their minds it might just be. I don't know. But like I said, I've been accused of being the "bully" before. Being that there's 2 sides to every coin, find out what "reason" they might have. Has there been any animosity between you to bring it about? There you might find some answers. Then again, some people are just plain mean. Good luck figuring that out.

Now retaliation is a whole different matter. I know I have the tendency to do so when provoked, as some of you already know.

And definitely take a stand. And kick some ass doing it. Nothing a bully likes more than for the person being bullied to just lay down and curl up in a fetal position. Best of luck. I mean it.

[Jenna G]

I have no idea who it even is. but they know my real information.

[bc1969]

Ah, an anonymous stalker? Like Hot says, the person probably feels justified in what he is doing. Hope it’s just a guy who caught feelings and that “just a guy” he should move on, and seriously dude if you’re reading this, check urself and move on, get a clue man, your acting stupid!

Personal info is usually not that hard to find if your a social media person or have had trouble with the law. Ignore it and let it run the course, you need to get a clue also maybe, stop flaming this situation.

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by bc1969

Like Hot says, the person probably feels justified in what he is doing.

Of course I'm right bc. Even when I'm wrong, I'm right. JK LOL

On a more serious note. Maybe there's a way to resolve this. Who do you think might have a reason to do this to you? Start eliminating the suspects one by one. Who do you think would be this mean to you? And what motive would they have? What do they stand to gain? I seriously doubt they'd be doing this just for sport, more likely out of spite. For any real or imagined offense you may have inflicted on them. Surely there can't be that many suspects in your life, or are there?