How Does a New Guy Get an Appointment?

[IDigChicks]

A) Why is p411 not accepting any more users?
B) What other accepted screeners are there that one could use?
C) You could tell I'm a total newb to the hobby if I asked how to find out whether a provider accepts newbs, right?
D) What does the screening process entail in general? I can understand why some newbs prefer to remain anonymous (marriages etc).

[Guest083119]

P411 is accepting apps from guys.

[yourdesire]

As Bthree said they are accepting apps w/2 referrals. I am newbie friendly in kc and surrounding areas

[Exchequer]

Originally Posted by IDigChicks

B) What other accepted screeners are there that one could use?
C) You could tell I'm a total newb to the hobby if I asked how to find out whether a provider accepts newbs, right?
D) What does the screening process entail in general? I can understand why some newbs prefer to remain anonymous (marriages etc).

I am going to throw my 2 cents in since I have only been in the hobby for three months. I make be talking out of my butt so anyone correct me if I say anything wrong since I'm speaking as an Advanced Newbie.

If you are serious about this hobby you need to make an investment and play the long-game.

Find someone that is newbie friendly. Sometimes they will state it in the ad but sometimes not. If they are not newbie friendly, more than likely they will state it right up front. You will have to show them an ID if they are credible. I had to submit a drivers license and work ID on my first time but that was a full-blown encounter.

Maybe ask about a short dinner date at a public place where they can feel comfortable. Then you can use that to schedule something more significant with them. Depending on the situation you may be able to do something that evening if they are completely satisfied with you. Remember feeling comfortable works both ways.

If you are interested in getting a P411 account, then who you choose needs to be a P411 provider. You will need at least 2 OKAYs get it approved. More OKAY's might help it get approved quicker although it took me two days. The second provider you see will be a little easier with having the first reference. It might help to ask the first one if they have any provider friends that you could see as the second. Usually if two providers know one another well enough a simple phone conversation about you might be all there is to get that second encounter.

Last tip. I have found communicating with the provider in complete and thought-out sentences helps to go a long way. The same can be said for dating sites.

If you aren't serious and want to play the short-game.

skip the games.com

[yourdesire]

I am newbie friendly in kc &ks and travel a lil. I do all I can not to collect personal RW info though at times it is neccessary.

[abaddon]

Yes, no girl in their right mind wants to be the "first" to see someone with paper thin credentials. It amazes me how many lurkers are on here who never pull the trigger, probably because they can't get screened, or at least they never learned how to write, as they post zero reviews.

But, there are a lot worse things that can happen to a provider than just getting busted. The mortality rate in the profession is probably comparable to realtors, who also go to remote locations with total fucking strangers all the time.

There are much more important reasons to screen than not looking good in an orange prison jumpsuit. Your life might depend on it. It's all about personal safety. And, all they have to make is one mistake. And, that's why some ladies' screening process is only slightly less invasive than a colonoscopy.

Gosh! What a downer I am today.

[Gfe Juliette]

Right on!

Juliette

[Fizley]

Post in your local forums a ISO (In Search of) a newbie friendly provider.

I would review their online profile to make sure they have a review history and an online presence. Also communicate with them by private pm at first to make sure the profile matches.

[LordBeaverbrook]

Join P411, participate in forums so you become visible (engage with newbie friendly providers in forums so they get to know you - communicate in full clear sentences and with respect), do a strip club review or three, try a couple of ISOs and watch for new members who need reviews as well. A lot of new ladies don't have much screening (but then that makes it somewhat risky for you, but that is the price you pay, so to speak - I've found many gems in new members).

Good luck,
LB