My Personal Hot Button

['TUNACAN']

Happened to me in 2004. with Goldcoastbeauty

** Her private website showed outdated pics where she was slim trim & fit, that 38ish, 40ish, 45ish, soccer mom you see at the grocery store. Yeah that one. Age doesn't bother me but when I get in my head the images she advertised on her personal website & her P411 pics and those didnt show side images then hides behind the door at the Hotel and I turn around after walking in and say to myself Woah! The drive up from San Antonio you gained 40-70 lbs in less than a 10 hr trip ? That's a bunch of twinkies. Something is wrong.

Gina at P411 didn't help either. Said I was over stating her weight, ok get her on the scale beeyotch! This was $ 250. hr and a 2 hr appointment. I couldn't get wood if a crane tried to pick me up and halfway thru the session I suggest I am not going to be able to perform. My diabetes, AC1, sugar level is killing my performance level today. She agrees to return 1/2 the donation for a 2 hr event. Well that was nice of her!

The honest truth is I don't visit BBW's or farm animals ok. Read the ** up above one more time. I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful, not my style at all. But outdated pics was the issue and Gina has always been helpful with me since day 1 but she ruled against me on this deal and I have no ill feelings towards her. It is what it is. I'm not going to whine over spilled milk. Take my white ass back down stairs and wack off or something. Abe taught me a good method. Ask the lady to send me a picture of her holding up 3 fingers in a sefie, total body shot. This tool will help me from making any mistakes ever again.

Ok I'll quit ranting !!!!

[tbrad]

I know exactly what you mean; I have met several ladies on this board and I only met 3 out 10 who had accurate pics and information. So I have been rotating between the 3 instead of taking chances on other ladies.

[rexdutchman]

welcome to the party ,,,,, about 50/50 chance of good pictures

[Cruisin]

Not just old and fat as some poster pint out. It creepy thin as well. The Skeletor type. If I can see your hips bones that is as much as turn off as too big for me.

[luv2luv]

I have sorta found one "method" that helps. It has become one of my standards. If I'm texting, I'll question her as to whether she likes/loves the things I'm particularly interested in. If the answer I get back is "When do you want to meet?", or some other answer that doesn't address the question, I figure I wouldn't have liked the answer and drop it there.
And there's one other hint. If she comes back with "I don't mind kissing" or a similar answer, I figure she really wanted to say no but just didn't want to give up the donation.
Point is: I really appreciate ladies who are upfront honest about their services.

[luv2luv]

Double post.

[OT8]

I'm a P411 client for the most part, so forgive me if I have little to no eccie cred. This is becoming a problem on P411. Since limiting new providers P411 is aging and the few pics posted are often dated to say the least. I often check if the provider has an eccie page and they helps a great deal, but naturally, there are some bombshells on P411 that do not have eccie, or go by a different name, so I can't check their reviews. Consequently, if a provider on P411 is at the right price, but has no eccie page and looks fantastic, its a no. I've tested this theory and was really disappointed.

[Joddxxx]

Most of the times, I’ll read several reviews on a provider in order to match up their physical description, personality, and activities to get an accurate picture before I make a decision. This method hasn’t failed me yet.

[mag7315]

The last new provider I met was not even close to her photos. P411 has an "actual age" next to the provider, indicating her age has been verified. They should have an "actual weight" verification, too.


Many of the showcases have the same photos as the first time I ever found Eccie many years ago. Maybe photos should all be date verified.

[TheOracle]

It's simply a cost-benefit analysis type of thing.

They figure the potential benefit of you showing up and possibly going through with the session since you're already there outweighs the cost/risk of putting up accurate photos that would deter clients from showing up at all.

[pmdelites]

the takeaways i see here:

research as much as you can - read reviews, chk her websites (if any), ask guys who have consulted w/ her.

then, if upon arrival the provider's age and/or body appearance doesnt match her publicized age/appearance (not by a little bit but by a LOT), JUST LEAVE - unless your dick is controlling things. it's up to you whether you let her know why or make something up ("oops, left my wallet in my car"). dont waste your money or your time.

then, either in a review and/or the private forum, get ahead of her and WRITE ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCE - that is, call her out in a tactful manner. be as straightforward as you can about her age and/or appearance.

this also goes for her activities and skill levels.


if, on the otherhand, you go in blind and/or stay for a less than deliteful experience, it's kinda on you. but,pls write about it so others can know.