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Originally Posted by dbjp101
I think most of them care about the size of your wallet, not your tool.
Most the ladies on this site especially do not care 'what kind of man you are'
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Well, I'm sure you spend a lot of time in the ladies' areas where they can open up about clients they enjoyed and ones that will never be invited back. As well as the ones that they never even booked because of the douchey way they behaved in pre appointment communication. The type of man you are is definitely important. I certainly wouldn't want to have the misfortune to invite the type of man over who leaves funny money, shorts the donation, or just ignores the time. No provider deserves that type of man.
If a man passed screening, yet shows up drunk or something else, gets rough right away, and just generally turns a lady off, her instincts kick in. "This is not a good man. Maybe it's just a bad day for him, but no, I am not going to be alone with him." He could start using degrading and insulting language, or just give a lady a "bad feeling". That he's probably a creep, or worse, potentially dangerous.
WE decide how we will be treated. Some ladies can put up with an A-hole, most won't. My best sessions are with kind considerate men who treat me very well. Like the well endowed gentleman I mentioned earlier in this thread, who is the only oversized gentleman that I truly enjoyed. Because of the type of man that he is.
I've been known to discreetly grab my regular cell phone and send myself a message on the other phone. Then act crushed as I explain "we'll have to do this another time, honey. My sister just texted and she has decided to stop by with my young niece, and she's almost here. She has a key to my door." ANYTHING to get that jerk out of there. And it could be for any number of reasons. Or, if I think he'll take it well, I'll just say "I don't think we have the chemistry for a date, so I'm sorry but I'd feel better if you would leave please." And this works for client and provider. A lady should always be left a cancelation fee for saving this time for you and getting all fixed up, if it's YOUR idea to leave.
But we HAVE to be able to trust this person with our safety and freedom. This tells us what type of man he is.
He may have been able to control himself in his PMs, texts, emails, and phone calls, have good refs, and no alerts. Of course he WILL have alerts after a meeting like that. Or he may not be able to control his temper. A car could have cut him off on the way here and he won't let it go; etc. No mean ugly tempers allowed BCD. NOT A GOOD GUY.
NO FUCKWAFFLES ALLOWED.
The "wallet" situation should have been taken care of before the appointment if you did your research, then you know how much of a donation she requires for her time. If it's a complete surprise to you, donate it or not. But most ladies have it posted somewhere. It's not like we run a credit check on you! We have no idea about the size of your wallet. Just as long as you have the proper donation for a lady's time, that's all that's required of your wallet.
Of course a tip is always appreciated if you had a great session, let the lady know! But at least bring the amount that she has listed for her time. And don't abuse the time.
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Originally Posted by defleppard
IMHO I think most women are less interested in the size and more interested in (a) What kind of man you are, and (b) whether you have the mind and the skill to work well with what you have.
I love your quote defleppard! But honestly, if you're a good man, I don't require you to have skills. I love constructive criticism, or just a little advice, from a man on how to make him feel better. It's important to me to keep learning and up my game. And if a gentleman feels the same way, I'm very happy to communicate what feels good to me. I mean every man and woman are different, right? Let's help each other to have the best time possible!
I certainly don't pull a guy's pants down ASAP and examine the package to see if it suits me. The most important thing to me is; a hug and kiss to greet my visitor, to see if he's warm. And then to talk a bit and get a feel for the person. THEN cop a feel! And I most definitely examine the package then,
not really for size, but any signs of things I don't want to see.
If a lady is a bait and switch, or has posted photos so old they no longer look much like her, of course you have the option to leave; just like she always has the option to ask you to leave if you're not the type of man that she requires in her clientele.
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