Outside Hobby Dating Life

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I date just fine. It's refreshing to be with someone that wants me for me, and doesn't want "Laura Lynn".

What's the difference? Same person and the pussy is the same yes?

[Lucas McCain]

BLM, I am assuming that she means that she can be herself and have someone like her for who she is as her whole self as a real life person and not just for what she can do BCD as her alias LL that may not be 100% her because who the fuck is the same as they are at work as they are in RL?

I don't mean to speak for you LL, so please feel free to correct me if I am wrong.

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Lucas McCain

BLM, I am assuming that she means that she can be herself and have someone like her for who she is as her whole self as a real life person and not just for what she can do BCD as her alias LL that may not be 100% her because who the fuck is the same as they are at work as they are in RL?

I don't mean to speak for you LL, so please feel free to correct me if I am wrong.

Me...I’m the same. Pretending is just exhausting imo.

[FireKitten]

I quit dating when the new laws went into effect. My focus needed to be primarily here.

I've never hidden what I do, so I doubt it would be a secret after retiring--especially with still being in need of great sex. (One guy could be enough, but not too keen on ownership.)

[playerplano]

For me dating equals a greater level of connection. I’ll agree the hobby means “sure thing” and I appreciate that aspect. I have found most people are not a match for most people. I’m also not interested in monogamy so that limits dating for me lol. I’d date a provider because I’m not jealous and so I imagine I’ll end up in some sort of swinger ,poly , open relationship.

LL I understand what you mean about being yourself and Analeese what you say about being “on” is exhausting. A famous actress said men fall asleep with a star and wake up with a plain girl. Honestly I look for the same thing in the hobby and dating. Connection , passion and chemistry equal a good time or a long time lol.

[western11sky]

How about a view from the opposite side...I’m a single male and recently met this wonderful woman! We had a few dates and things were going real good. On a very recent night out, I wanted to see if she felt the same. So during dinner I explained my feelings about relationships and most important to me is honesty. A little about me is that my ego isn’t fragile, I’m not insecure, I’m never jealous, I do care deeply for the women in my life...so I said to her that she could tell me anything about who she is and no matter what, and in return for her honesty I promised her that I would be nonjudgmental, accepting, understanding, compassionate, and I promised to never use it against her in any way. After a few moments, she promised the same to me. So after a few secret confessions she told me what she really does for a living....an escort! Yeah I didn’t see that coming! The date ended like the previous ones had. On the way home, the thought of her revelation were in turmoil and I really struggled with it. I had to be true to my word and accepted this fact. I called her early the next morning. I could tell she had some hesitation in our conversation but then asked me how I felt about her work. I told her that I loved her and appreciate her honesty. I assured her that my feelings haven’t changed. Fast forward, her life hasn’t changed and I accepted and love her very much. I doesn’t bother me at all and I support her on anything. I will never demand that she quits, she will when she’s wants. For me, she is the most amazing woman I have ever met!

[dallaswill]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I date just fine. It's refreshing to be with someone that wants me for me, and doesn't want "Laura Lynn".

You were one of the first people I saw when I joined 9 years ago. You arrived at my place in a blue polka dot dress. Very amazing time with a beautiful lady. And we saw each other a few times after that. Don't know why we lost touch.

If only I had known you were up for RW dates. Or do you find it counter productive to date clients? Dating a client could mean loss of income stream.

How would one be lucky enough to meet you in the RW and ask you on a date? Meet thru friends, at the grocery store, clubs?

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by western11sky

How about a view from the opposite side...I’m a single male and recently met this wonderful woman! We had a few dates and things were going real good. On a very recent night out, I wanted to see if she felt the same. So during dinner I explained my feelings about relationships and most important to me is honesty. A little about me is that my ego isn’t fragile, I’m not insecure, I’m never jealous, I do care deeply for the women in my life...so I said to her that she could tell me anything about who she is and no matter what, and in return for her honesty I promised her that I would be nonjudgmental, accepting, understanding, compassionate, and I promised to never use it against her in any way. After a few moments, she promised the same to me. So after a few secret confessions she told me what she really does for a living....an escort! Yeah I didn’t see that coming! The date ended like the previous ones had. On the way home, the thought of her revelation were in turmoil and I really struggled with it. I had to be true to my word and accepted this fact. I called her early the next morning. I could tell she had some hesitation in our conversation but then asked me how I felt about her work. I told her that I loved her and appreciate her honesty. I assured her that my feelings haven’t changed. Fast forward, her life hasn’t changed and I accepted and love her very much. I doesn’t bother me at all and I support her on anything. I will never demand that she quits, she will when she’s wants. For me, she is the most amazing woman I have ever met!

Good for you man, most guys here wouldn't want their woman getting stuffed for a living, maybe I'm just the jealous type

She ever tells you about the monster cock that gagged her for air and split her open that day? Or you guys don't talk about work?

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by BLM69

Good for you man, most guys here wouldn't want their woman getting stuffed for a living, maybe I'm just the jealous type

She ever tells you about the monster cock that gagged her for air and split her open that day? Or you guys don't talk about work?

Omg BLM....you made me open my mouth so wide ...and not how I’m sure you’d prefer lol

I’m dying over here lmfao

[playtimecgreen]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I date just fine. It's refreshing to be with someone that wants me for me, and doesn't want "Laura Lynn".

If only we had met in the RW...

[FunMonday]

Originally Posted by western11sky

How about a view from the opposite side...I’m a single male and recently met this wonderful woman! We had a few dates and things were going real good. On a very recent night out, I wanted to see if she felt the same. So during dinner I explained my feelings about relationships and most important to me is honesty. A little about me is that my ego isn’t fragile, I’m not insecure, I’m never jealous, I do care deeply for the women in my life...so I said to her that she could tell me anything about who she is and no matter what, and in return for her honesty I promised her that I would be nonjudgmental, accepting, understanding, compassionate, and I promised to never use it against her in any way. After a few moments, she promised the same to me. So after a few secret confessions she told me what she really does for a living....an escort! Yeah I didn’t see that coming! The date ended like the previous ones had. On the way home, the thought of her revelation were in turmoil and I really struggled with it. I had to be true to my word and accepted this fact. I called her early the next morning. I could tell she had some hesitation in our
conversation but then asked me how I felt about her work. I told her that I loved her and appreciate her honesty. I assured her that my feelings haven’t changed. Fast forward, her life hasn’t changed and I accepted and love her very much. I doesn’t bother me at all and I support her on anything. I will never demand that she quits, she will when she’s wants. For me, she is the most amazing woman I have ever met!

I'm touched. Please update us in 6 months an let us know if you are living in bliss as described above. Stopping short of being a total ass I sincerely wish both of you the best. Here's the deal with women. Not all but many do not solve a problem in a relationship. They just bitch and moan and yack about the problem and just when you think the issue is resolved they go right back to it and bitch and yack some more. It's extremely unproductive and it creates boundaries with intimacy. Perhaps their feelings were hurt or their trust was violated. Its the same for a man but usually processed differently or the man is very spiteful in holding the woman's past (and in this case her livelihood) against her. Anything you say can and will be used against you in a relationship at some point. Of course, honesty is the best policy but only with that rare individual that is stable enough and reliable enough to handle it. I can honestly say that I have stuck my cock in so many women I wouldn't have a clue as to how many or that I would not do it again because I'm a slut/sex addict and that any woman (if honest with herself) would have no reason to trust me based on my past. While being perfectly honest the woman has most likely been fucked better or by a bigger cock and so on and so forth. This is why I like providers. They don't care and I don't have to care about what they think other than being respectful and enjoying the moment. Being perfectly honest does not mean you have incriminate yourself. You should honestly plead the 5th.

[TheOracle]

Originally Posted by western11sky

How about a view from the opposite side...I’m a single male and recently met this wonderful woman! We had a few dates and things were going real good. On a very recent night out, I wanted to see if she felt the same. So during dinner I explained my feelings about relationships and most important to me is honesty. A little about me is that my ego isn’t fragile, I’m not insecure, I’m never jealous, I do care deeply for the women in my life...so I said to her that she could tell me anything about who she is and no matter what, and in return for her honesty I promised her that I would be nonjudgmental, accepting, understanding, compassionate, and I promised to never use it against her in any way. After a few moments, she promised the same to me. So after a few secret confessions she told me what she really does for a living....an escort! Yeah I didn’t see that coming! The date ended like the previous ones had. On the way home, the thought of her revelation were in turmoil and I really struggled with it. I had to be true to my word and accepted this fact. I called her early the next morning. I could tell she had some hesitation in our conversation but then asked me how I felt about her work. I told her that I loved her and appreciate her honesty. I assured her that my feelings haven’t changed. Fast forward, her life hasn’t changed and I accepted and love her very much. I doesn’t bother me at all and I support her on anything. I will never demand that she quits, she will when she’s wants. For me, she is the most amazing woman I have ever met!

Yikes!

[FunMonday]

Western11Sky, since your new found love, is, in fact, unconditional and it does not bother you at all that she is a provider please provide her profile link. I have yet to see a hobbyist profess his love for a provider and openly state who she is. That kind of sums up BLM's point about jealousy. It's perfectly natural. Don't worry.