Questions/comments about pimps will result in ban?

[Crock]

Originally Posted by Namssa

No,

The following is not permitted on the site:

Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site


and under guideline #16 cyber stalking is covered.
So if someone post multiple times that a person is pimp, management, cheap, rude, handsome or whatever after posts then that could be deemed cyber stalking.


It's not complicated, but many like to make it that way. RTM it and all the admin staff can see it.

Ah, so mentioning that a lady is managed or pimped isn't the issue. It's calling a guy a pimp that is the issue? That makes sense.

The former is a safety issue that is an important part of an "information exchange." Since (normally?) guys aren't going to try to meet each other, the latter is just namecalling.

Do I have that right?

And thank you for the response!

[Guest083119]

Crock, it is a little bit more complicated than that. Of course, alerts about safety issues are okay, e.g., some dude hiding in a shower or making contact with a member. In a review, if the lady mentioned she was managed, then that would be fine to include.

What was not okay, was people constantly jumping on other threads and accusing girls of being pimped and managed. Or repeatedly calling guys pimps or girls madams.

More troubling was many times it was unfounded and seemed to be done in a bullying manner. Sometimes it may have been accurate, but it didn't need to be mentioned ad nauseum in a stalkerish way.

Does that make sense?

[needingmilking]

The way I see it, a lot of girls here can use some management.

Real management, like helping to organize things.

Now, pimps, are not management. Exploitative behavior is never cool.

But how do we prove it? difficult just assuming here.

[Crock]

Originally Posted by B Three

Crock, it is a little bit more complicated than that. Of course, alerts about safety issues are okay, e.g., some dude hiding in a shower or making contact with a member. In a review, if the lady mentioned she was managed, then that would be fine to include.

What was not okay, was people constantly jumping on other threads and accusing girls of being pimped and managed. Or repeatedly calling guys pimps or girls madams.

More troubling was many times it was unfounded and seemed to be done in a bullying manner. Sometimes it may have been accurate, but it didn't need to be mentioned ad nauseum in a stalkerish way.

Does that make sense?

It makes sense, but I'm unsure where the line is drawn between alerting others to the fact that someone may be managed/pimped, and bullying through repeated accusations.

Let me pose my question another way: Is it possible (without running afoul of the rules) for someone to repeatedly warn others that a lady is pimped/managed, if not done in a disrespectful, stalkerish, and/or bullying manner? I hope so. I hope it's the harassment and bullying that is not being allowed, and not the mere repetition of important information (even if the lady doesn't want that important information to be repeated).

And thanks for clarifying this!

[Brandofan]

[elchapo]

Originally Posted by Crock

Let me pose my question another way: Is it possible (without running afoul of the rules) for someone to repeatedly warn others that a lady is pimped/managed, if not done in a disrespectful, stalkerish, and/or bullying manner? I hope so.

No, it is not possible for someone to repeatedly warn others that a lady is pimped/managed. Eccie sees this type of behavior as harassment and being bullied.

It will not be tolerated.

That member will be banned immediately if staff comes to this conclusion.

[Crock]

Originally Posted by elchapo

No, it is not possible for someone to repeatedly warn others that a lady is pimped/managed. Eccie sees this type of behavior as harassment and being bullied.

It will not be tolerated.

That member will be banned immediately if staff comes to this conclusion.

That's very unfortunate.

Thank you very much for the clarification. I may not like this new standard, but I really appreciate it being cleared up.

[needingmilking]

one man's pimp is another woman's friend...

[Crock]

Thanks again, staff. I really do appreciate the info.

Originally Posted by needingmilking

one man's pimp is another woman's friend...

Right...