Fake account to gain info?...

[Anonymous01]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

When will women learn to shut the fuck up about asking others for advice. Just got to check with the other girls about what they think. Shut up! Oh, was that too strong, would you have accepted: quit talking?

... streaming series is "The Handmaid's Tale."


Why didn't you just tell OP to get barefoot, pregnant and back in the kitchen where women obviously "belong"?


As an aside, I bet OP can whoop your misogynist ass 2 out of 3 - I've got a 50' X 50' drop tarp and a 55 gallon drum of Mazola standing by....


Tickets are on sale for $25.00 each - betting will close 5 minutes before the match begins!


All strap-ons donated to the match must be in original, sealed packaging!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Crock

What an absurdly limited perspective on what has taken place.

Imagine this: OP sees her brother-in-law multiple times every week at family functions. There's no way he doesn't recognize her from her pictures, regardless of how many times she changes her hairstyle or makeup. He's the one that sent her the PM using her real name. She still has no clue about who knows her true identity. Discussing that here changes that not one iota.

You would make a poor poker player. You have to know the difference between a winning hand and a losing hand.

Perhaps you should consider shutting the fuck up?

SOUNDS LIKE A CROCK TO ME

No one thinks she was talking about her brother-in-law: that came out of your own perverted thinking. Of course her brother-in-law would recognize her, and any other family member.

But someone she has just met a few times; not so sure about that. I have gone back to see a lady after seeing her several times, and was not sure it was the same lady: the weight, hair, and boobs were a little different; i thought it could have been a sister.

[Crock]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

No one thinks she was talking about her brother-in-law: that came out of your own perverted thinking.

I merely used that as an example of how limited your perspective was. You can tell that it was entirely made up from my own "perverted thinking" because I said, "Imagine this" indicating that it's entirely made up. That, my friend, is called a clue.

You should attempt to curb your misogyny and think a bit more about the possibilities before posting again, if you wish your post to be considered with any credibility.

The fact is we don't know who has contacted her. It could be her father in law. It could be her high school sweetheart. It could be her preacher. We don't know. If she knew, she wouldn't be asking for the advice that she's asking!

[JRLawrence]

If the examples you gave are true, it is limited to a much lower number of people who really know her well. For those people, your observation is correct.

Now let's talk about the vast number of other guys who may not know her well, or her pictures well. That opens the number of people up to a very large number, perhaps a number too large for you to even think about.

Reading, and comprehending what you read, are two different things. Just offered the suggestion that if it was just someone fishing for information, ignore them.

[kehaar]

She was talking about someone that has a protective order. If he contacts her here, has has broken that order. However, except for a sting, she is SOL, because there is no mechanism to prove who it is.

She can block him, but if she is looking for anonymity, this is not the place to put photos, and frankly, it is too late.

The fact that people(the po recipient) can be assholes is a fact, and the way life rolls.

If I was a provider, I would have my clients put photos in the reviews(where they are hidden from the general public), and not have any others.

[RetiredSubmariner]

A couple of providers on this forum have PM'ed me, and we have taken our conversations off-line to regular email. In so doing, they 'slipped' and gave away their real names. Take a close look at your email software down on the signature line to see if you may have given away too much personal details.

If you are trying to maintain multiple personas, it could easily get confusing.

For the purpose of OPSEC you may want to be sure that you are not giving away too many private details.

[Anonymous01]

Or, just have a dedicated, end to end encrypted email service like Protonmail that you only use for the "hobby".
If you're communicating with providers that have free commercial email (Yahoo, Google, AOL, etc.) your security is compromised the minute you open an email from them, or send an email to them.
I olny use email to communicate if the provider has a protonmail.com or .ch addy or a Hushmail,com addy.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Anonymous01

Or, just have a dedicated, end to end encrypted email service like Protonmail that you only use for the "hobby".
If you're communicating with providers that have free commercial email (Yahoo, Google, AOL, etc.) your security is compromised the minute you open an email from them, or send an email to them.
I olny use email to communicate if the provider has a protonmail.com or .ch addy or a Hushmail,com addy.

gmx.com has been suggested here also, and I have used it successfully. There is only one problem.: They want to move to a service charge if you don't log in at the right place, and they don't make it easy to get back to the old log in screen: use a connection on your computer that knows exactly where to go. Now I have no problems reaching the private email. Unlike Google, Yahoo, and AOL there are no requirement to supply a number for your cell phone.

[omg_lol]

IMO using sites like GMX seems more discreet than using Protonmail, tutanota, or hushmail if that’s still around.

[tia travels]

Originally Posted by Sig9er

With all due respect ma'am, as an innocent bystander.....you have face pics in your showcase and 5'10" and beautiful!!!! It would not take much detective work...

I agree with the above. That very well may have been the way this person recognized you.
I would have to say so that this doesn't happen again in the future, remove your face from you photos.

Have you asked this person point blank...how they know your name?
I would be curious (if it were me) to find out.

If they haven't threatened or blackmailed you yet, maybe they're only hoping to secure an appt.
BTW, it's quite possible they're following this thread if you feel they're trying to find info on you.
It may also very well not be the person with the PO on them. Sometimes, it's always the least expected conclusion/answer/result.