It wouldn't be so bad

[Nikkilove91]

And GoBlue, I guess be surprised because if I don't know you, it's a deposit. And people do if they want to see me, if you don't want to pay a deposit, pick a woman who.doesnt enforce this...that simple.

[sjohnlewis]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

Lol you say never pay a deposit, but you are only thinking at one side of the coin. For me, I have got confirmation multiple times right before I leave for an appointment, they never show. Some of them reputable, all verified. But I wasted my gas, sometimes even getting a room for nothing. So, this is why I don't host anymore, take deposits and enforce the cancellation policy. You may see it as whatever you like, but when it comes down to it...clients have cancelled way more than the women do. And most of the snatch and run bullshit women have reports/alerts on them. So that is up to the client if they choose to see shady ladies....that is super upsetting that men don't see things from our point of view. Half of you will read part of this & start arguing instead of reading & listening to what we say....

We all understand your point of view, and we agree with everything you say.

Your second point: that is up to the client if they choose to see shady ladies. The reviews are here to read, if a guy chooses not to take the advise, it is on him.

So how would a lady expect to collect a deposit prior to seeing a guy, and if you would collect it when you saw him: what would be the point of that?

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

Lol you say never pay a deposit, but you are only thinking at one side of the coin. For me, I have got confirmation multiple times right before I leave for an appointment, they never show. Some of them reputable, all verified. But I wasted my gas, sometimes even getting a room for nothing. So, this is why I don't host anymore, take deposits and enforce the cancellation policy. You may see it as whatever you like, but when it comes down to it...clients have cancelled way more than the women do. And most of the snatch and run bullshit women have reports/alerts on them. So that is up to the client if they choose to see shady ladies....that is super upsetting that men don't see things from our point of view. Half of you will read part of this & start arguing instead of reading & listening to what we say....

Nikki...its your biz to run it the way you seem fit. As it is our coin Md we choose how to spend it. So no argument here.
But I would be curious how this is working for you in terms of your new client gain say 6 mos or so from now.
It is my belief you will see a considerable drop just imo.
And if so will the policy be good or bad for biz...only you will find out.
Then you'll have to ask yourself if there is a decline is this worth it

[Nikkilove91]

I've actually been doing it for awhile. It has helped my business as I know longer have to deal with assholes that want to bullshit. Instead I am getting upscale, better clientele who actually give a fuck about me..but I'm going to stop myself before I say something I shouldn't.
And g'night

[Shrek69]

I view this simply....

Don't waste ladies time. Life happens, sure.

A thought...be a gentleman, act accordingly, be nice, follow the ladies rules.

Then and only then......fuck the shit outta her!

Now back to regular programming

[GoBlue34z]

I would never cancel unless something super important came up and that has never happened. But if a gal said send me 50 a week before you see me...well that is never happening and have to assume most guys are the same way. I get it cancels suck and it's a dirtbag move but it's part of the business. If its working for you nikki great but too many fish in the sea for me to ever send money ahead of time

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

I've actually been doing it for awhile. It has helped my business as I know longer have to deal with assholes that want to bullshit. Instead I am getting upscale, better clientele who actually give a fuck about me..but I'm going to stop myself before I say something I shouldn't.
And g'night

No worries hun...wasnt arguing just discussing. I hope it continues to work for ya. I wouldn't do a deposit as my own policy. But glad that's workin for ya babe

[KayC_K]

We shouldn't have to ask anything of someone who calls. They should be MAN enough to know how phone appts work. Call. Show. period. It's not about the excuse they use not to. it's about simple human consideration. If you refuse to acknowledge I deserve respect then dont call and pretend to give it. it's just low class behavior.

[sjohnlewis]

Originally Posted by Nikkilove91

I've actually been doing it for awhile. It has helped my business as I know longer have to deal with assholes that want to bullshit. Instead I am getting upscale, better clientele who actually give a fuck about me..but I'm going to stop myself before I say something I shouldn't.
And g'night

Some of the ladies have solved the problem by raising their rates. It keeps away the low class guys (cheap). The real question for the ladies would be about the number of repeat customers: is there enough to give a steady income without any advertisement? If not, one would need replacement customers.

[Fsn57]

. Nevermind

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by KayC_K

We shouldn't have to ask anything of someone who calls. They should be MAN enough to know how phone appts work. Call. Show. period...

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