SCREENING / VERIFICATION 🙄🤦🏽♀️

[Dougas615]

I understand the providers views . I don’t mind providing some personal info for screening . But 99% of providers requires 2 provider references . How do you get 2 provider refs if very few sees newbies . I did the p411 a few years ago , all they did was call my job . No real background check .

[pyramider]

There are thousands of threads here on how to references. If someone cannot figure it out then that is on them.

[Agent220]

Originally Posted by Exotic_gem

Thank u for this post! I get sooo many guys with no references, don’t wanna pay small cheap deposit, and don’t want to provide screening
And Then they like to say our screening is waaay too much!! Smh

I agree with all of that except that d word. Now if you traveling across state for a weekend, then I understand that as well.

[iquit]

Originally Posted by Amina Aston

I've noticed that for some reason men are having major difficulties with providing screening information. If you were apart of the hobby prior to the seizure, then you should know better. Period. Too many men are too hot to trot, and are flowing in from BP unfortunately. You should never see a provider without providing her some form of verification. I personally don't care how BP was run. We all want to safely enjoy ourselves. Don't contact providers with no intention of verifying yourself. It's a literal unsafe, highly questionable waste of time. While some ladies may be very hard up for cash, not all of us are willing to be persecuted over a potential meeting. I've been getting an influx of messages from unserious time wasters. Step it up guys. Learn how screening works, and stop being scary. We need to ensure our safety too. 🙄

I do understand the need for references but then again, anything that links my hobby and real world identities is a definite no,and trust me, the requests are ridiculously too personal. Example is someone asking for my real first and last name and a copy of my drivers license. While I understand the need for it, it's not supposed to be hard to help hobbyists have some privacy during the process. Maybe suggest a method for newbies that addresses their need for discretion.