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Originally Posted by Taylor Made719
And have done pretty well being the new girl in many different towns in the us on backpage I believe gentleman do this because for verity if they wanted the same old same old they stick with their wives. As for NCNS I believe that’s is on the provider and how she conducts herself over the phone. There are some states that I will never return to after trying to go back to the same town twice. I never understood how a provider stays in just one city all the time
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Interesting question, to which I doubt there's any one "right" answer. I agree with Taylor Made that there's an attraction to variety. Those of us with a Y chromosome do have an urge to go pollinate all the flowers. But there's a lot to be said for many repeat visits to the same woman. In my (limited) experience, it isn't necessarily the "same old same old," because she doesn't always bring the same mindset to each appointment; if you go in with an open mind and without an agenda of your own, the flow goes different ways on different days. Also, when you see a woman for the first time, she's pretty much always at least a little nervous and watchful -- can't blame her for that! On the second and subsequent visits, she knows that you're safe, clean, respectful, friendly, not a problem about paying and so on (if you are), and she's much more relaxed, which is always good.
I'd guess that NCNS is equally a problem for travelers and locals, but I certainly wouldn't know. Your fellow professional companions are your best source of insight here.
Added by edit: some of us tend to be "traveling clients." I'm one. I know a lot of people around here, and a lot of them know me. I've had exactly one appointment in my home city, and I've never felt more naked than when I was walking into and out of that hotel ... I just KNEW I was about to run into someone who'd speak to me. So I do all my "hobbying" at least as far away as Indianapolis; I feel all kinds of safer when I'm at least two hours from home. And I doubt that I'm the only one. My point is, if you travel to a given city, the guys you see aren't necessarily going to be local to that town.