Holy wow! I am sooo sorry to hear that this happened to you! His behavior was inexcusable, while yours was very nice considering. I would have tossed him out withOUT his donation if he tried something I clearly stated I'm not comfortable with. In fact, I HAVE had to do that in the past...and have no regrets about doing it.
Please please always remember YOU are in control and can end it at any time. Also, please drop me a PM if you'd like some tips on anything hobby related here in SBC...we ladies need to look out for one another
. As for Mr BigK...more like big assclown and def on my DNS list. I've seen him before but won't again if he thinks he can do this crap. And any lady that gets a ref request on him should include a link to this alert...always best to make INFORMED decisions.
Stay safe and have fun
Majic