Screening?

[dj8rocks]

^^^^^^ I like your style. Professional and respectful of our privacy as well. Kudos to you Ms Jen

[SpanishJewel]

Generally I am not newbie friendly. However, I have seen newbies because of their initial email. Explaining their situation, grammar and spelling was correct. All personal information was FREELY given by them. Thus I was more than happy to respond to them. They had taken their time, done research and did not bitch one time about the process. Super cool guys and some I still keep in touch with.

Men who inquire as to my availability in a one line email or text. No thank you. I will send them to the newbie pages on here and other national sites. If they get bitchy with me and start to cuss. They soon find out that I can get fucking wicked if need be. Shoot.

So, I suppose it depends on presentation and what my gut tells me to do. Provider AND client safety is very very important. Provider references are always the first emails I will respond to if I have not been on my pc for a few days.

Safety first, do your research. Be specific, trust me, you'll find her.

Good luck
Jazz

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by NSAKS

Sorry but I'm very new here and to the hobby. I'm curious to what screening means? Where do I get it, and how long does it take? Thanks.

You need to leave this behind and find another hobby, now. Seriously you need to find another hobby, you are not cut out for this one. This question could have been answered by you doing a simple Search. Your only friend in this hobby is the Search tab above. All of your hobby questions can be answered by doing a Search. If you are too lazy, or stupid, then it's solely on you.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by pyramider

You need to leave this behind and find another hobby, now. Seriously you need to find another hobby, you are not cut out for this one. This question could have been answered by you doing a simple Search. Your only friend in this hobby is the Search tab above. All of your hobby questions can be answered by doing a Search. If you are too lazy, or stupid, then it's solely on you.

ya, he should run
but staying could be more entertaining ah by others anyways

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Which is why you do your research and choose the right woman - someone with a stellar reputation...

mmmmm its not no on icky VP with a stellar reputation has never done home evasions on clients home ...
oh wait that has happened errrr never mind

lets see if I can think of a better example to support your thought
ugh I'm old so that may take lots of time

[Hermosa]

Screening can be intrusive depending on who your interested in. Some ladies want everything including your bank numbers. Best leave the too intrusive ones alone! Some will ask (and they really do need to know) something about you for their safety. Still, you need to do your research and learn. Read the reviews, check out for Alerts, and do some interacting on the boards. You might try some "newbie friendly" ladies to start. You can then develop some sort of track record that others can see what kind of person you are. However, you and only you are able to protect yourself by only sharing what info you're willing to give out!
Now, one thing that works very well with me is this. A nice introduction through PM (or however the lady asks), using complete sentences, not being rude or crude, and disrespectful! You'd be surprised how many guys fail the simpliest comon sense test? So, have fun, play safe, and be cool. There are some wonderful ladies out here. Some of the best, have responded on this link to you!!! 😬

[joesmo888]

find a newb friendly provider in your area. write a review for her so she remembers you. then use her as a reference the next time and so on. it is like building credit. also ask providers after the session to get you on date check or p411 etc. they can hook you up for a free account

[Solitaire]

Originally Posted by Skjellafetty

If a man was respectful, responsible and non leo a few-or even several-years ago, is he really likely to have changed?

Yes! People change over time, that is the only constant.

For some guys, familiarity breeds contempt. Those guys are nice in the beginning, but over time begin behaving in ugly ways - asking for inappropriate things, short-changing, etc.

Sometimes guys are asshats from the get-go, but are on stellar behavior in the beginning to get into certain circles, then revert later.

Still others, losing income over time, abandon the more reputable ladies, and begin keeping company with less-reputable ladies - and ALL the risk and drama that ensues. (a bust waiting to happen)

Then some guys get busted, then help out in future stings.

We all love it when a guy simply shows up, shares all the changes in his life, we celebrate, then we all go home happy. But since that doesn't always happen, we continually re-screen.