On the issue of provider or SA-SB "incalls" this is where the "established" ECCIE and TOS providers have an advantage over the whole SA scene.....:
If an Eccie or TOS provider has a "good reputation" for Not creating any drama, and she has never been flagged for "incall issues" then she is basically a Guaranteed "safe" session. "Established" providers usually have clean incalls and they manage "traffic" there responsibly so guys don't bump into one another. Although the latter happens sometimes too.....
SA girls? No public review system, no formal Guys Room to report all their incall-weirdness. More chance of a "baby daddy" or "driver" stopping by with a totally un-reviewed SA girl.....
I got "cash and dashed" by an SA girl In....Her.....Own......Apartme nt. Yes, she was Dumb Enough to do it in her own place, with her own mail with her real name lying around. That probably would never happen with an "established" provider with a good rep on Eccie or TOS....
Another SA-Real-Bruiser: I paid and we started getting busy. I requested CFS to BBBJ and back again and she said she wants one or the other, not both. I guess I requested the change once more because- BOOM
, she went into Hardcore Linda Blair Exorcist Mode.
Kicked me out of her place, and (yep) I had already paid.....
If SA girls have their own incalls and living spaces it is not a "neutral" meeting space, and they might think they can "get away with" more. Won't happen with an "established" Eccie or TOS provider, might happen with an un-reviewed, un-vouched SA girl.....
I rent affordable motel and hotel rooms, ideally with no "drive up to the door" designs (bad for "baby-daddy's" parking and then barging in) and I book two (2) hours so I can get two pops. Luckily many SA girls charge a standard, typical PGH one hour fee for two hours. So the overall freight works-out.....
I want to avoid all FDH's-Feral Defensive Hoodrats. I have witnessed enough of them in their natural urban and rural habitats so I want to avoid seeing them, accept in documentaries.....