She can't provide a reference for you if she can't remember you

[SweetSuzanna]

I wish ECCIE had a policy!! Or at least guidelines for getting verified, how ladies screen new clients, etc

I want to spend time bcd, not PM-ing!
If you want to tell a lady you have not seen before about how safe and polite and clean you are you have to give her the names of providers you have seen recently (6 months or less) .If you want to be verified quickly, send her a link to to the showcases of these ladies.
Please be mindful of the fact that as great as you may have been in bed, chances are she may not remember your name and handle! Sure some providers keep good records, have great memories or are super low volume, and may in fact remember you.
But please guys, for the sanity of providers, give us MORE info about your session with the lady who you want to verify you!
It's not asking a lot. Approximately when you saw her, where, the phone number you gave her, the name you go by, a general physical description of your appearance, and PLEAsE: something that will help jog her memory! Maybe you wore a nice suit, and brought her her favorite wine. Perhaps you guys talked about politics. Maybe you spilled wine on her carpet or wore a purple thong..Something!
I have this simple process outlined in my showcase but it's like pulling teeth to get guys to follow it.
I guarantee the few that do are first in my "to do" list!
Guys that say " I saw sexyTraci from Topeka last spring" or something vague like that, are last on my list. Cuz now I have to PM you back and ask for more info. Then you might say, "no wait, SexyKristy, but I think she is retired, or she doesn't have a showcase, blah blah". After 6 pm's back and forth , I say "to hell with it" and move on to you men who can follow simple instructions