When to ask approriate questions on activities/fantasies?

[dtstar]

Hey,

As I am doing research about this hobby, a question came to my mind. The question being at what stage of the screening process is one able to talk about fantasies etc. I assume it is after the client is screened.

But after being screened is that type of talk a normal thing to do? or should one just stay quiet and just go with the flow.

I assume it will not be a fun conversation between client and the provider if the provider requested no discussing any activities of any kind. How will the provider know what the client wish or not?

Thanks

[VIPRaniLane]

This is where reviews and P411 profiles are most helpful. You can read and see if the lady you're interested in enjoys the same activities as you. While some ladies will discuss details with you after screening, some never will. Best to follow the lady's lead on this. Some will say on their site or ads, NO EXPLICIT CONVERSATION. Others will state that they're willing to discuss exactly what you're looking for after you've been screened.

[Goodguy_69]

Be mindful reviews are not always accurate or exaggerated especially on the erotic review. I've been disappointed many time reading untrue reviews on ter and being disappointed. I don't really use that site anymore just look at the ad board from time to time. Too many ladies worried about their ter score then just being honest and having a nice tasteful adult experience. This site seems pretty accurate but remember everyone has different chemistry with each other. Don't be afraid to ask questions I usually ask when I give my references. If the lady gets insulted then I just move on. You can be tasteful with a service or fantasy question without upsetting the lady. In my experiences if they don't want to answer something especially when you have been screened and verified. It usually means they won't offer or do what you ask. Honestly most ladies who I've asked specific questions are usually ok with it. I've offended a few but like I said I just move on. In the end you are paying so you should be happy with the service in the end.

[KelseyBelle]

Ask after screening and yes not all reviews can be accurate. The best thing to do is ask after screening so there's no disappointment.

Have fun!

[dtstar]

Thanks for the tips. This is some good info

[Lena Duvall]

What Rani said! It's best to check each companion's policies relating to etiquette which will likely be stated on their showcase or website.

Originally Posted by VIPRaniLane

...While some ladies will discuss details with you after screening, some never will. Best to follow the lady's lead on this. Some will say on their site or ads, NO EXPLICIT CONVERSATION. Others will state that they're willing to discuss exactly what you're looking for after you've been screened.

[dtstar]

Excellent advice. Thanks everyone. Being a newbie, I will be scared to talk about it initially. Does one just ask - what services can be discussed? or would like to talk about fantasies etc?

[VIPRaniLane]

I would ask the lady: Can I let you know what type of things I enjoy? She will let you know if you can proceed or not

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by VIPRaniLane

This is where reviews and P411 profiles are most helpful. You can read and see if the lady you're interested in enjoys the same activities as you.

Especially in situations where a whore's reviews are self writtin right?

For example..... If you were to write a review of yourself you would surely highlight the activities YOU enjoy the most.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by dtstar

Excellent advice. Thanks everyone. Being a newbie, I will be scared to talk about it initially. Does one just ask - what services can be discussed? or would like to talk about fantasies etc?

You could post an ISO..... Lay out what you are looking for and ask the whores interested in/Ok with the activities you are waiting to PM you.... Then check them out in their reviews....

The key to reviews is learning how to find credible guys with similar tastes to yours....

Did you find your way here to be told what to do and how to do it by someone only interested in your wallet?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Especially in situations where a whore's reviews are self writtin right?

For example..... If you were to write a review of yourself you would surely highlight the activities YOU enjoy the most.

Ouch....

P411 is the only way to go for newbies. Sadly they stopped listing actual items of interest. Yes they still have generalizations but not the item per item listings they use to have. But the absolute best screening tool for both hobbyist and Provider.

Before I ever meet a provider I make it crystal clear what my expectations are. I do have deal breakers. If in doing research I can't determine if something is available I ask. Once I meet a provider there is ZERO discussion of money or activities.

Now if you want some freaky shit its best to meet a provider at least once then share with her what your interests are and determine if it available, she is willing and if there is an up charge. I've spent a lot of time with ladies over the past 8 years and I can tell you if you ask a provider you've never met to go to Taco Bell and eat 3 burittos & 3 Tacos poop in a plastic bag and bring it with you along with fresh orange slices... your chances of securing an appointment are pretty slim. IJS

[Tatiana Skye]

I prefer being asked up front. I would hate to waste your time or mine.