The best way to avoid this is to screen your clients well.
Too much screening may make the clients feel uncomfortable, so I recommend only moderately screening most of your clients because you will be able to tell that most of them aren’t law enforcement when they call, especially if they are compliant about their employment information and sending you a scanned copy of their ID (PRIOR to meeting).
Highly screen any client who asks for full service, GFE, or anything explicit on the phone.
Highly screen clients that don`t seem to care what your rate is (the cops aren’t spending their own money anyways, and they know they`ll get it back).
Highly screen clients that already know where you are located before you give them directions.
Ask your clients what they look like and how old they are and highly screen physically fit clients ages 25-50.
Ask your clients their license plate numbers and where they work and highly screen clients that can`t tell you off the top of their head.
By highly screen, I mean…
Ask him for a readable photo or scan of his driver’s license to be emailed to you.
Google his email address to look for any social media accounts.
Google his phone number.
Get his license plate number and make and model of the car he will be driving.
Get a photo of him.
Get at least 3 references from other providers that have seen him.
The cops will hopefully have better things to do than fake all of the above information, but…
Be VERY careful and THOROUGH when contacting new clients’ “references”!
Make sure these are highly reviewed, current providers with a solid online track record and website.
Google and STUDY the references’ email addresses given to you!
Sometimes, cops and scam artists will create FAKE EMAIL ACCOUNTS with VERY Similar (off by one letter or digit!) websites and email addresses to highly reviewed ladies and then they instead will be the ones answering you via email pretending to be the provider reference, rather than the real reference!!
Be sure to PM the REAL reference on TER (if applicable), P411 and any other board she advertises on or uses for screening– plus you’ll find her REAL CONTACT INFO there, as well!!
KNOW SOME BASIC PERSONAL DEFENSIVE MANEUVERS AND TACTICS!
It takes many years of training to become proficient in any martial art, but you don’t have to be a Black Belt to be able to defend yourself. Every person should know at least a few basic yet highly effective defensive maneuvers. Here are a few.
One of the most forceful defensive moves is a swift strike to the throat area just below the Adam’s Apple with your fingers or the side of a stiff hand. Always think “stun and run.”
Another powerful response is to push both your hands up into the attackers chin, forcing his head to whip back.
Yet another super effective move is to push the side/edge of your hand directly underneath the middle of someone’s nose or strike underneath the nose with your palm heel.
Jabbing your fingers into a facial orifice such as eyes, ears and mouth can be quite successful as well.
Finally, if you are brought to the ground, try to get up immediately. If you cannot, stay on your back keeping your body rounded with your feet up. Keep the perpetrator away by kicking your legs and feet. If a person gets on top of you while you are on your back, keep your elbows and hands up in front of your face. Then try to push the person off by bumping your pelvis up forcefully and using your hips to get him off balance. Once he falls forward, try to roll onto your side and get up.
In addition to your natural weapons such as your hands, fingers, feet, legs, elbows and knees, Use anything you have, including your shoes, your bag, a credit card, your keys, and anything else as a weapon.
Although the above information may seem daunting, it is important not to live in fear because confidence and a positive attitude are two of your strongest weapons. Remember to keep your eyes open and walk with your head up high and shoulders back and never compromise your personal style.So go ahead and put on your Manolos, grab your Louis Vuitton bag and arm yourself with style and safety!
Types of Rapists and How to Avoid ThemThis article is about the 4 types of rapists and how to avoid them. This is something every escort should know, as we are at the top of the list of the most vulnerable and susceptible to become victims of rape and violence, unfortunately.POWER REASSURANCE RAPIST:
Sometimes called the gentleman rapist, because his motivation is not to harm the woman, just to have sex with her.
Sometimes these rapists will appear not to realize what they are doing is rape and believe that the woman wants them.
Usually a blitz attack or a peeping tom.
Often socially awkward and shy around women.
Will often reassure the woman that he doesn’t want to hurt her.
Expresses guilt and remorse and often compliments the woman on her looks and other things.
How to Avoid: He is the most likely to stop because the woman is resisting. Use extreme tactics and be aggressive and show him that you are angry and you are definitely not consenting. He may threaten you with a weapon, but he is unlikely to use it.
POWER ASSERTIVE RAPIST
Feels insecure and inadequate around women, but covers it up by acting overly macho and aggressive.
His goal is not to harm the woman, but he doesn’t care if he does end up hurting her.
May use a con to lure you into his location and rape you or a blitz attack.
Mainly uses verbal threats, but may use a weapon to ensure you do what he says.
Often socially competent and known as macho and aggressive. Likely a drinker and may be intoxicated.
Sees women as inferior to men and as objects. Low opinion of women.
Likes to “talk dirty” and will often involve the female by asking her to do things, but doesn’t care about her pleasure or pain.
His goal is to humiliate the victim. Often, he will rip your clothing to scare and intimidate you.
Often he is athletic and has a masculine type job, such as construction or police.
How to Avoid: He won`t respond to begging or pleading. The more angry you get, the more it will escalate the situation. If you are aggressive he will see it as a challenge to his masculinity. In my opinion, it is best to remain calm and do what he says, because his intent is usually not to harm the victim physically, but this can happen when he gets angry.
ANGER RETALIATORY RAPIST
Rapes because of displaced anger. Seems to be angry at all women.
He blames the victim for his problems and shows extreme anger.
He typically is very violent sexually and doesn’t attempt any foreplay. Uses sex as a weapon and frequently humiliates the victim.
Often causes serious injury to the victim or kills her.
Often a stranger attack, and he seeks women of his own race.
He sees the attack as a message to others in his crusade against women.
How to avoid: Don’t challenge or enrage this rapist. Talking him out of it will be useless. Try to either escape or incapacitate the rapist. The more angry he gets the more violent he will become. He has a higher level of violence than the power rapists. Be extremely complaint with the rapist`s demands and only try to escape or incapacitate him if you are sure it will work, or else he will become more violent.
ANGER EXCITATION RAPIST
This is the worst, most dangerous rapist, but luckily, he is also the rarest. If you get this rapist, his intent is probably to kill you, so you must escape.
He is a sexual sadist. He gets sexual gratification from his victim`s pain.
He will usually use a con to attack the victim, such as offering a ride, or picking up an escort. These men often select escorts, because they wrongly believe that people won`t look for us or miss us. For this reason, we are more likely to run into this type of rapist.
Carries a “tool kit” of items he uses for the rape, such as duct tape, scissors, a weapon.
He is socially competent and sometimes a sociopath. He can play the part of a nice guy. He gains the victim`s trust before the attack.
The attack will often go on for a long time. He may hold the woman prisoner for days.
Tortures the victim.
Has a large collection of pornography.
May have bizarre fetishes and act out various sexual fantasies on the victim.
May take a souvenir such as jewelry or record the attack with photos or video to re-live it later.
Takes countermeasures to make sure his DNA isn`t left, such as using a condom or contaminating the evidence.
Often college educated.
Engages in a “secret life” of rape.
Mostly attacks strangers.
How to avoid: Don`t agitate him because violence increases with anger. This rapist is probably planning to kill you, so you must try to escape from him. Usually he has done a lot of planning for the attack, so you must outsmart him. Do whatever you can to escape.
STAYING SAFE ON OUTCALLS ~ ALWAYS HAVE A SAFETY BUDDY, AND ALWAYS CALL, NOT TEXT!:
DO YOU HAVE A SAFETY BUDDY?HOW ABOUT SECURITY CALLS? TEXTING IS NOT ENOUGH…Texts are totally useless for security:
Sending a text does not guarantee the network has delivered it.
I’ve had texts take 24 hours to go through. Sometimes they don`t at all.
Sending a text does not guarantee the network has delivered it to the right number.
Sending a text does not guarantee the security buddy has seen it.
Your security buddy lost their phone or their battery went flat or they`re an escort too and they got an “Immediate” call, or they got drunk or fell asleep or…..
Even if your text message security goes through okay, you are still not covered:
(Highly unlikely scenario, but still possible) The client has another agenda. They see you do your security texts. They then incapacitate you then later they send an “All clear” security text to your buddy. You are not reported missing for days or weeks..
Security is a phone call.
Phone just before you enter address or hotel.
Phone just before you leave the call and state that you will see the driver in 2 minutes. This discourages any last minute abductions.
If you don`t have a driver, phone your buddy when you are back in your own car/taxi/Uber/Lyft, well away from the client`s location.
These calls create a traceable timeline for the police to follow if you do go missing.
WE HAVE LAUNCHED OUR SAFETY BUDDY ALERT SYSTEM:
-This system will be manual at first, but will become automated once perfected
-This system will be available for any lady who wants to volunteer as a safety buddy on specified days convenient to her
-This system will be a tool for ladies who wish to contact the participating safety buddy volunteer in order to have someone know where they are before, during and after an outcall
-The safety buddy volunteer must only be contacted by the provider if listed as available on the day the provider is in need of a safety buddy
-It will be the provider`s sole responsibility to call the safety buddy before and after each call
-The safety buddy volunteer is free to call the provider if she becomes worried or alarmed due to the provider`s failure to check in and check out with the safety buddy volunteer
Who wants to become a volunteer? Who wants to participate in the system?
We already have 30+ Active Members and Participants! Join Us, FREE! >>CLICK HERE<<
I`d love some feedback! Let me know your thoughts!
SEXUAL HEALTH AND SAFETY
-NEVER EVER use oil with condoms for penetrative sex. Oil breaks down the natural proteins in latex/rubber. Water-based lube is the absolute safest, even safer than silicone-based.
-NEVER floss or brush your teeth for an hour before giving unprotected oral sex (use an anti-bacterial mouthwash if you`re concerned about bad breath or just want to freshen up), and others recommend quickly looking over the genitals you`re about to go down on for obvious signs of contagious STDs (including genital warts, which can potentially be transmitted from genitals to mouth).
-Pre-cum can contain HIV, and although not letting men come in your mouth SIGNIFICANTLY reduces your already low risk to even lower levels, if you are concerned about becoming infected via pre-cum while performing fellatio you have two risk-reduction options: not taking the head of his penis in your mouth or using barriers for oral sex.
-NEVER EVER use non-latex condoms unless they are polypropylene. Any other condoms are not recommended by the CDC and do NOT protect against HIV.
-DO NOT EVER use condoms coated with Nonoxynol-9, a spermicide. Studies have shown that N-9 can cause genital lesions and damage to the rectal lining, allowing ease of access to STD`s. Click here for more info on N9 and it`s effects on the body —>
www.guttmacher.org/pubs/tgr/08/2/gr080204.html
-The main cause of failure of condoms is lack of lube. Use loads; With Anal sex, if you think you`ve use too much lube… it`s probably about the right amount.
-Some medicated vaginal creams, like monistat, estrace, femstat, vagisil, premarin are all NOT latex-safe, so NEVER ever use them before intercourse.
-Don`t put on more than one condom on a client at one time; it doesn`t increase safety, and it causes friction between the two layers making a split much more likely.
HELPFUL HEALTH, SCREENING & SAFETY LINKS:
www.sexuality.org/concise.html
www.scarleteen.com/
www.immunize.org/catg.d/p4075abc.pdf
http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/a...e-tips#slide-1
www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/
www.yourtango.com/sex-advice
http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/...ex-advice.html
www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/sexualhealth.html
www.cdc.gov/sexualhealth/
www.webmd.com/sex/default.htm
frostd.org/MainPage.html
www.caeny.org/index.html
www.nswp.org/
www.swopusa.org/
www.desireealliance.org/resources/support.htm
www.swaay.org/index.html
hips.org/
www.scapa-lv.org/
www.redumbrellaproject.org/
pony212.wordpress.com/
www.urbanjustice.org/ujc/projects/sex.html
swop-nyc.org/wpress/
https://play.google….ipper.app.bsafe
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COMMON [UNTRUE] THINGS GUYS SAY TO NEW ESCORTS
Posted on January 26, 2014
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Are You a Newbie?
Here’s a quickie guide of the (UNTRUE!) things you’re most likely to hear as a NEWBIE, in no particular order:
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“Ruby down the road provides this service. Why can’t you?”
“Diamond down the road charges $50 less.”
“Sapphire down the road doesn’t mind going over time.” 1911962956.gif
“Can I pay you by check? I’ve never had a problem with other ladies accepting them.”
“I forgot my wallet; can I pay you next week? I’m going to become a regular client.” 1544784191.gif
“If you give me a discount today I’ll become a regular client.”
“I can do you a (better) website in exchange for free services.”
“I can be your security in exchange for a free service.” 4169724106.gif
“I can be your driver in exchange for free services.
“I can take (better) photos in exchange for free services.”
“Let’s you and me team up together to provide a couples service, I’ll get free sex and you’ll get more work.”
“Jennifer down the road doesn’t mind me calling/texting/emailing at random times of the day/night for no particular reason.” 3249232746.gif
“I don’t give out my personal details to other ladies who visit me at home, why do you need them?”
“Can you describe what you’re going to do me/what we’ll get up to in our time together?” (In other words he’s asking for masturbation material).
“GFE/PSE really means bareback. Do you do bareback?” 2346198366.gif
“I’ll give you ($$ $) if you do bareback with me.”
“We don’t need to use a condom, I only have sex with my wife.” 696753710.gif
“Do you have any more pictures please?” (Even though you have 5 galleries worth on your site.) 166322328.gif
“Can I have some more details please?” Or variations thereof; sometimes prefixed with: “I haven’t seen your website, a friend gave me your number…” or “the computer ‘crashed’ just after I managed to write your phone number down…”
“I’m a prolific reviewer” (translated it means “Do whatever it takes to make me happy or I’ll threaten you with a bad review”.) 1164835837.gif
The above is not to be confused with the hundreds and thousands of lovely gentlemen out there who make this job worthwhile and keep our bread buttered. Remember, if you hear any of the above, they’re either not genuine or they’re not worth seeing.
But don’t worry, you’ll soon sort the good clients from the riff raff!
Spotting Time Wasters- A Guide to the Most Common Time Waster Comments:
We all get them from time to time and you can’t always spot them but, like any other business where taking appointments is the way its done, you will have them. Below are common sayings from “time wasters”, aka “time vampires”, or “time tumors”…
The ones that insist on sending a picture of their dicks. [Why would we want to see that? As if we have not seen one before? IDIOTS] 3526726405.gif
“Send me a hot pic, to keep me going until I see you”… [How about you send me some $$$ until I see you? Pervert]
“Send me a pic of your face… [You know they won't book you once decline to send one, so why bother?]
“‘How much for a fuck”… [Probably a pre-pubescent 12 year old prank calling]
“Can you take a big cock? I’ve got a huge one. You should be paying me…” [I suppose you want a discount too, huh? Sure, why not. I love my uterus pounded and then taking less money for my troubles. Fkn awesome!] 1327202685.gif
“I know we’ve exchanged several e-mails, and arranged a booking but I STILL want to chat on the phone with you, just to talk about the appointment” – [Note: some clients will genuinely want to speak to an escort before an appointment to feel her out in the same way smart escorts feel out clients on the phone before meeting them - BUT this phone call does not need to cover any sexual topics so if he calls just to talk about what you're wearing, hang up and cross his booking out of your black book asap!]
“What are your rates?”
‘My rates are on my website.’
“Oh my friend gave me your number”
‘Oh, right… in that case ask your friend to give you the website address.’
“How big are your tits?” – [This may be the beginning of a jerk session]
“Oh you will love seeing me! I’m handsome, and have a big dick.” [Last time I checked, handsomeness and a big dick doesn't sit well with my landlord or bill collectors]
“I’d like to see you for a couple of hours…or maybe all night if we really get along” [If I'm doing an overnight, you damn well better book that in advance].
“I’m looking for a lady to see on a regular basis…” [Watch out with this. It could be the beginning of a haggling session].
“I’ve never done this before, how would you see the evening progressing?” [Note: This is a great time to tell them to send all their questions in an email - if they're genuine-but-nervous, they will email but if they only want to get off to your voice, they won't bother!]
“I want you to arrive with just stockings on under your coat’ [Note: These ones may even plan to hide and watch/film you wandering around the hotel/street, so be extra careful here]
“Can i have some details please??” – D’oh, use your imagination if you want to jerk off. 8P
“Can you describe yourself please?”,
‘Have you not seen my website?’
“Yes but my computer crashed before I got a chance to look at your site”
‘Oh, really!!! I suppose you made a note of my number AFTER it crashed!!!!’ 560643511.gif
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Any more good ones, ladies?? I’m sure you’ve heard a bunch of B.S. from certain guys which you can share with new ladies!
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EASY D.I.Y. SEO FOR ESCORTS
Posted on January 26, 2013
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SUBMIT YOUR SITE TO GOOGLE:
So that your clients can find you when they search the internet.
Search for your site on Google. If you can’t find your site, proceed.
Go to Google Web Submit
Log in with your Google account/gmail
Click “Add a website”
It takes months for Google to register your domain, so the sooner the better, and be patient!
MAKE YOUR SITE SEO-FRIENDLY:
What does your client search for? Optimize your site for that “search term”.
Make sure that the “search term” is included in the title, (i.e. Gypsy Mistress – Escort in Miami)
Make sure that you have a meta description; The meta description is the snippet that appears below the blue link in Google search. Words that matched the user query get pulled out in bold, like **below**:
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Include your “search term” in your pages and in your gallery descriptions.
Consider adding the “search term” to your domain. (i.e. gypsy-searchterm.com) — Hence why EscortSite is very popular
GET AS MANY QUALITY INBOUND LINKS AS POSSIBLE:
Google counts inbound links. Sites with many quality links get a higher rank.
Ask your friends to link to your site. [If you'd like to exchange links with me, email me:
GypsyMagick69@gmail.com]
Add links on your blog, Facebook page, Flickr, Twitter, LinkedIn, or any other page that you possess edit rights to.
Link to web sites that are in our escorting industry, this verifies that other escort websites or directories acknowledge you and verify you are also in the escort business. Also, link to web sites that compliment your business, like gifts, flower delivery, lingerie affiliates, limo services, etc. thereby offering those web site’s customers more options to find you. This is sure to boost your search engine ranking and pull in more visitors to your site.
LIST UP TO 95 HIGH QUALITY OUTBOUND LINKS:
Linking to quality web sites will score higher than those with lower rankings.
This does not mean you should only exchange links with high ranking sites, as most backlinks (regardless of ranking) will provide some benefit. However, be aware that linking to linking farms or web sites blacklisted for spam/malware can actually devalue your seo score, so be sure to research the sites you’re exchanging links with. It’s also important to inspect outbound links regularly to ensure none are broken or dead. Try not to have more than 100 links on a single page to avoid being flagged as a linking farm.
ADD YOUR SITE TO GOOGLE MAPS:
It is likely that your clients will search for local providers.
Go to Google Places
Add your business and your site
ADD YOUR SITE TO LOCAL YELLOW PAGES:
Get inbound links. Get higher Google Rank.
Do you have any local yellow pages where you live and work?
Submit your link to those as long as it is free.
PUBLISH YOUR NEWS ON YOUR FB PAGE:
Many people will see it and you get inbound links.
Write something on your wall. Remember that pictures and videos are great.
CREATE A LINKED-IN PAGE:
LinkedIn is booming and is at the top of Google Rank for searches, after FB and blogs.
Be sure to use terms like, “Private Model”, “Muse”, “Masseuse”, “Concierge:, “Travel Companion”, “Leisure Consultant”, etc. Be creative! NEVER say escort!
PLACE FACEBOOK LIKE, TWITTER, FLICKR, ADDTHIS, AND LINKED IN BUTTONS TO YOUR SITE:
A great way to get inbound links and to market your work.
HOW? Check out these easy tutorials and free code snippents:
FB Like
Twitter
FlickR
AddThis
Linked-In
PUBLISH YOUR IMAGES ON FLICKR AND TUMBLR:
Many people search Flickr for images and might contact you if they are interested in your look from your photos/videos.
Be sure to add “search key words” to your images and your galleries.
FlickR
Tumblr
SUBMIT YOUR WEBSITE TO DIRECTORIES and TOP LISTS:
A great way to get inbound links and reputation.
1) Visit the links below
2) Submit your site:
Directories/Guides:
http://openescort.com
http://openadultdirectory.com
http://Girl-Directory.com
http://www.angel-elite-escort.com/
http://escortplayground.com
http://erotic-guide.com
http://www.one-escort.com/
http://www.divine-girls.com/
http://luxury-escorting.com
http://geishaAffair.com
http://escortdirectory.com
http://worldescortguide.com
http://www.femalecompanions.com/http...cortguide.com/
http://escortography.com
http://afterfiveEscortDirectory.com
http://www.worldescorts.net/
http://www.highclassreferral.com/
http://www.internationalescorts.com/
http://escorts411.net
http://www.vixen-escorts.com/
http://worldwideescortguide.com/
http://worldwidetravelescorts.com
http://internationalescortlistings.com
http://escortguide.com
http://hotescortsworldwide.com
http://escorts-international.com
http://redbooker.com
http://avenue-x.com
http://blackbookcompanions.com
http://escortexam.com
http://escortboogie.com
http://www.adultsbestdirectory.com/
http://us.worldescortmap.com/
http://www.independentescorts.org/
http://www.worldescorts.net/
http://xfinder.com/
http://www.escortgirlguide.com/
http://www.escortplius.com/
http://www.adultbenelux.com/
http://escort24H.net
http://www.erotic-guide.com/
http://www.adultgaga.com/
htttp://www.sipsap.com
http://www.theescort…s/miami-escorts
http://www.meetmeinyourcity.com/
http://www.intimatescorts.com/
http://www.escortyellow.com/index.php
http://www.independentescorts.com/ht...vaescorts.com/
http://www.escort.sexcia.com/
http://www.workinggirl-reviews.com/
http://www.escortslisted.com/
http://escortdirectory.tv/
http://independentescortservices.com/
http://sexescort4u.com/
http://escortreviewthumb.com/
Top Site Lists:
http://escortgeosites.com/
http://www.adultworkerads.com/
http://escorttop100sites.com/
http://independentescortservices.com...dex.php?inc=no
http://www.escort-exklusiv.de/top100...corts-100.com/
http://www.escortslisted.com/top100/independents.html
http://www.highclasslist.com/
http://www.100topescorts.com/top100/
http://escortography.com/top/
http://escortik.com/top/
http://escortsthumb.com/top/
http://escortgo.com/
http://www.divine-girls.com/links-di...ndents&lang=fr
http://www.escortsites.nl/
http://www.escortstonight.com/php-bin/top100/index.php
http://www.petitesweets.com/top_100/index.shtml
http://www.topsite.com/
SUBMIT AN ARTICLE OR SHORT STORY TO EROTIC LITERATURE SITES, PRESS RELEASE SITES and ARTICLE BASES:
Call it something like, “Confessions of a High End Escort”. A great way to get inbound links and reputation.
1) Visit the links below
2) Submit your article and website (make sure you’re not overtly sexual in nature when submitting to the clean sites; the key is to make your articles and stories seem “informative”):
Article Bases & Literature Banks:
https://noveltrove.com/ (allows XXX content as long as it’s well-written)
http://www.freebestsexstories.com/news.htm (allows XXX content)
http://www.stories-erotica.com/ (allows XXX content)
http://www.literotica.com/stories/index.php (allows XXX content)
http://www.asstr.org/main.html (allows XXX content)
https://www.lushstories.com/ (allows XXX content)
http://www.sextails.com/sex-stories/...-stories.shtml (allows XXX content)
http://www.short-fiction.co.uk/ (allows XXX content)
http://www.soulgasm.com/toc.htm (allows XXX content)
http://www.uponyoursatin.com/main.php (allows Adult content)
http://www.escortprovider.net/ (allows Adult content)
http://Dating.com (allows Adult content)
http://exotics.com (allows Adult content)
http://Helium.com (allows Mature content)
http://www.pressmethod.com/ (allows Mature content)
http://www.pr.com/ (allows Mature content)
http://www.prbuzz.com/ (allows Mature content)
http://prurgent.com/ (allows Mature content)
http://PRLog.org (allows Mature content)
http://www.24-7pressrelease.com/ (keep it clean)
http://www.1888pressrelease.com/ (keep it clean)
http://express-press-release.com/ (keep it clean)
http://free-press-release.com/ (keep it clean)
http://www.free-pres…se-center.info/ (keep it clean)
http://www.i-newswire.com/ (keep it clean)
http://www.pr9.net/ (keep it clean)
http://www.pr-inside.com/ (keep it clean)
http://www.prcompass.com/ (keep it clean)
http://press-base.com/ (keep it clean)
http://pressabout.com/ (keep it clean)
http://www.prleap.com/ (keep it clean)
http://theopenpress.com/ (keep it clean)
USE FORUMS AND OTHER COMMUNITIES:
Ask for their feedback, or publish your news on forums that are related to your business.
Remember that the forums DO NOT have to be local, or even involve hobbyists (other escorts have great opinions and can provide traffic too)! Get exposure and traffic from EVERYWHERE!!
Examples:
http://AdultHobbyBoard.com
http://TheEroticreview.com
http://bestgfe.com
http://www.southerngfe.com/forums/
http://eccie.net
http://TnAboard.com
http://bigDoggie.net
http://www.utopiaguide.com/
http://naughtyreviews.com
http://www.thereviewboard.net/
http://myredbook.com
http://www.mypinkbook.com/
http://thebluepond.net
http://theOtherBoard.com
http://www.adultfax.com/forum/
http:/punterlink.com
http://www.captain69.co.uk/
http://www.escortsan…ists.com/forum/
http://providerreport.com
http://usasexguide.info
http://tosluts.com
http://www.heaven-or-hell.com/forums/forumdisplay.php
http://www.sexyescortads.com/forum/
http://blog.escortmojo.com/
http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/index.php?styleid=2
http://perb.ca/vbulletin/forum.php
http://www.escorts-canada.com/
http://www.caerf.com/
http://terb.ca/
http://www.ukescortsforum.com/
http://www.londonukescorts.co.uk/
http://www.punternet.com/
http://www.escortslist.co.uk/
http://www.puntingzone.com/
http://punterplanet.com/
http://www.escort-ireland.com/
http://www.verifyhim.com/
http://providerbuzz.com/
https://uknswp.org/um/
http://saafe.info
http://stripperweb.com
CREATE A BLOG, GUEST POST ON OTHER BLOGS, AND INTERVIEW OTHER ESCORTS FOR YOUR BLOG:
A great way to build reputation online and to showcase your work. Blogs also take the top spots on search engines due to constantly updated content (an SEO essential).
Examples:
http://blogger.com (Google favors Blogger since it is owned by Google itself)
http://wordpress.com
Find Adult and ALT Models to Interview:
http://ModelMayhem.com
http://ModelNetwork.com
http://www.wickedtalent.com/http://w....musecube.com/
EMAIL CLIENTS & OTHER PROVIDERS, AND SEND OUT NEWSLETTERS:
Ask for their feedback. Spread the word.
Create a Newsletter with Mail Chimp (make sure your newsletter is NOT adult in nature). Advertise by way of Information, using infographics, colorful pictorials, and collages, etc.
STAY SAFE & MAKE $$$$, LADIES.
xxoo
GYPSY
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SCREENING 101 FOR PROVIDERS!
Posted on August 17, 2012
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Hey Dolls,
In light of all these crazy busts, sting operations and dangerous, aggressive clients popping up, I decided to compile a manual of screening methods.
I made sure to make it as comprehensive as possible. Below is info compiled from Pillow Talk Forum, VerifyHim, Saafe, StripperWeb, UKNEA, various Tumblr notes, and best of all, from My Own Writings.
I hope this helps… Enjoy!
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SCREENING METHODS…
(Listed in NO particular order since each has its own pros & cons)
(A) Two recent valid provider references.
or
(B] Personal / employment verification.
or
[C] 3rd party reference verification service.
**I suggest ALL THREE, or at least TWO of the three**
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ALWAYS COLLECT THE FOLLOWING INFO:
- WHERE did he get your contact info
- Clients name or alias
- Preferred contact info; phone number AND/OR email address
- Age or (preferably birth date)
- Generic location he is FROM
There are two basic themes to look for when screening:
- Look for consistency.
- Look for any information you can dig up that is more than a year old.
A good indication that you are dealing with someone of ill-intent:
- There is absolutely nothing about them online.
- Everything you find was created recently.
Provider Reference Verification Method
This method can often be the easiest and often offer the greatest degree of
anonymity to your prospects.
Info to collect – References:
- Reference stage name and her preferred contact (email or phone)
- Link to the references website (or active ad)
- Memory jogger (when he saw her & where – estimates may be enough to help)
- Clients detailed physical description (or a photo)
Actions to take:
(1) Verify the client’s personal contact info.
- Google his phone or email in quotation marks, like so: “johndoe@gmail.com” – note any clear specific results.
- If contacted via email, use Read Notify to observe open IP and location, and check if it matches the location he’s given you, using GEO IP.
- If contact via phone, use SlyDial to listen to his voice mail message without having to call him. (call 267-759-3425)
- Use BeenVerified to check out his background and find out if he has a violent history.
- Use Spokeo and Wink to check if the information he gave you matches up with what public records databases show.
- Use ZabaSearch and WhitePages to match his phone number and address to what he’s given you.
- Use Tineye to search a photo given and find out if it is posted anywhere else on the internet.
- Use the Exif viewer from Opanda to view extended info embedded in the image such as IP address and Geo-location.
- Utilize Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter to find his public online profiles just using his email address with the search tool.
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-Facebook is the easiest way to find people by name or email address, if they have an account. You can even modify the search results by location, school, and workplace. If nothing shows up, they may have made their profile private and unsearchable.
BUT, If that’s the case, you can do a site-specific Google search, and any public pages or groups they may have commented on will show up. For example, John Doe’s personal Facebook profile is private and will not show up in Facebook search results, but if you type the following…
site:Facebook.com “John Doe” into Google, you’ll see that he has commented on Jane Doe’s Facebook page. You can now see his profile picture, as Facebook doesn’t allow users to make this private, even if you still can’t search for them using Facebook’s search.
-LinkedIn usually reveals much less information about a user, because it’s primarily a work-oriented social network. However, it is an excellent place to verify a gentleman’s contact details, work history and affiliated websites.
-Twitter, although isn’t so useful for collecting personal data, can still give you a wealth of information, such as insight into their personality, interests, and style, rather than information you can use to find their address or phone number.
-Sometimes, if you search specific info via Google, such as a phone number or email, private results in certain paid databases will show up in the Google results, such as with National Blacklist and with BP Blacklist, as seen below:
http://backpageblack…cident-reports/
(2) Run his various contact info through the following background check databases, and blacklist & alert services.
BackPage Blacklist (You must have a BP account)
Provider Buzz (You must be logged in to P411 to see ProviderBuzz)
National Blacklist
Danger Zone 411
Criminal Check
Black Listed John
VerifyHIm
Provider2Provider SMS Alert System (This is invite-only. If you need an invitation, PM me)
SearchSystems
DirtSearch
Net Detective
Virtual Gumshoe
People Verified
Intelius
FORUMS:
Sexy Escort Ads Blacklist
Naughty Reviews
TER
BigDoggie
PinkBook
User Name Search:
pipl
is an aggregator that searches the “deep Web,” or parts of the Internet that are often missed by regular search engines such as Google. Pipl allows you to search by name, e-mail address, username, or phone number. Pipl then crawls the Web and aggregates all search results that contain your terms–so it’s more of a one-stop shop for results.
(3) Visit links provided (is it an ad / profile or dedicated website?) and are they “live”?
(a) Websites
(i) Is the site complete? Intro, Bio, Rates, Gallery, Contact – plus.
(ii) Note: is contact info different than provided?
(iii) Copy any additional / different contact info.
(iv) Google “:domain” type in
www.domain-to-search.com. How many links? Active providers should have 10+ links. Compare with Alexa and WhoLinks2me – some data will be consistent, stats about domain links may differ (that’s ok).
(B] Advertisements & Profiles
(i) Note the date ad was published and / or last visited.
(Should be more than a couple weeks)
(ii) Is the ad complete? (Photos & contact info).
(iii) Note: is contact info different than provided?
(iv) Copy any additional / different contact info.
(4) Verify references contact info - Google all reference contact info (provided / discovered) & analyze results.
(a) Are there other ads, profiles or websites with her info?
(B] Is other info (stage name, additional contact info) consistent?
© Are photos consistent across results?
(d) Does she have reviews? If yes: How many? How long? How recent?
(e) Are there any warnings about the provider?
(5) Contact reference using preferred method
(a) Provide the clients name or alias, contact info, memory jogger, photo or detailed physical description.
(B] Note: would the reference see the gent again, if not, why?
© Verification should also include if the gent arrived on time & with proper donation.
(d) Inquire about any anomalies discovered in steps 1 & 2 above.
(e) IF reference prefers email contact, then… ask for a quick phone call – is reference in control of her email account?
Personal / Employment Verification Method
This method can often be a little more difficult and challenging since many clients do not wish to provide all the information sought (or if they do, some of the details may be slightly fabricated).
Info to collect – Personal / Employment Verification:
- Employers name
- Employers phone # (main switchboard)
- Employers website
- Clients direct phone line and email with said employer
- Clients detailed physical description (or a photo)
Actions to take:
(1) Verify personal information just as you would in Step 1 Provider References Method at the Top of this manual
(2) Is the client employed or self-employed?
(a) If client is EMPLOYED…
(i) Visit employer links (BE CAREFUL, AS LAW ENFORCEMENT CAN AND WILL HAVE TWO JOBS!!! VERIFY THAT THIS IS THEIR ONE AND ONLY JOB!!!):
1. Is the client’s name listed on the company directory?
2. Is the other contact info provided consistent?
3. Does the site appear to be complete & legit?
4. Search whois.net: Verify how long site has been established.
(ii) Contact employer via main switchboard:
1. Ask for Human Resources.
2. Ask if the client is still employed with them – Let them know you don’t need financial data or specifics, just to answer yes or no whether he’s STILL EMPLOYED with the company.
3. If they ask who is calling: Just rattle off a common acronym like UCLA, OSU, or CCCI.
(iii) Contact the client’s direct line (after business hours).
1. If the client answers: Most people usually announce themselves, if not, ask who you just called (make note of the name given). End the call by stating you had been given
the wrong phone number.
2. If the client does not answer: Note what his voice mail states (should be his name). Do not leave a message.
5. Search ZoomInfo, which aggregates job and company information.
(B] If a client is SELF-EMPLOYED…
(i) Verify the Company exists:
1. Search for Records of his business in Secretary of state directory
2. Google Company Name (with and without quotes)
3. Google company domain name using the following command: “:domain”
Type in
www.domain-to-search.com How many inbound links are there? Legit business sites should have 30+ links. Compare with Alexa and WhoLinks2me – some data will be consistent, stats about domain links may differ (that’s ok).
4. Search whois.net: Look up domain who-is data:
a) How long has the domain been active?
B] Is the domain registered to the client or at least registered near the location the client claims to be from?
(ii) Visit the business web site:
1. Is the client’s name listed on the website?
2. Is other contact info provided consistent?
3. Does the site appear to be complete & legit?
(iii) Contact the client’s direct line (after business hours).
1. If the client answers: Most people usually announce themselves, if not, ask who you just called (make note of the name given). End the call by stating you had been given the wrong number.
2. If the client does not answer: Note what his voice mail states (should be his name). Do not leave a message.
Special Consideration For Outcall:
(A) Going to a Hotel – Call the front desk, and ask to be connected to your client (by name). Then when you arrive, ask for him to show proof of his identity.
(B] Going to a Private Home – Lookup the address in Google, also BeenVerified.com – you’ll see property reports and can search by address and should confirm other identity info you’ve already been given. Lastly, ask to see the gents ID when you arrive.
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Other Screening Methods:
Third Party Reference Verification Services- This process is fairly self-explanatory, and steps may differ from service to service.
The top three services are:
Date-Check
Preferred411
RoomService2000 (for the Mid-West, mostly)
Amazon & Ebay- Some ladies have gone as far as to search Amazon and Ebay’s registered users / wish lists to learn more about their potential dates. These measures are long-shots and best reserved for drastic or difficult cases.
Board Membership & History- You may be tempted to reference a gentleman through his activity on a hobby related board. Boards have become targets for compromise, so you must be very careful, confirm all contact info through the board, and then through the other contact method. Anything but a very long history is too risky. Use of this method is best when used in ADDITION to others already mentioned herein.
Physical ID & Public Meeting- Checking ID’s is a technique best used to confirm that the person who was screened is actually the person who shows up, but not in place of screening. Further, public meetings are not an adequate screening method, even bad people know to behave in public.
REMEMBER, EVEN SCREENING ISN’T 100% EFFECTIVE; ALWAYS HAVE A SAFETY PLAN
1) Always start & end appointments by calling to “check-in” with a friend who knows your whereabouts and what to do in case of an emergency. Consider setting up a “safe-word” that when used, indicate you are NOT safe, with instructions on what to do next.
2) Learn some basic self-defense. Typically, you can get free classes at an abused woman’s shelter.
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***GYPSY’S SCREENING FORM TEMPLATE***
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Here is my screening form I created from scratch for newbies, and/or gents with no refs, which I use when e-mailing back and forth with these gentlemen…
Change it, tweak it, customize it, use it forever!
–Gypsy
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Dear Future Friend and Activity Partner,
Thank you for choosing *me* as your upscale concierge and companion during your stay in sunny South Florida .
Below is my screening form.
Please be sure to fill it out as thoroughly as possible, and send the documents as soon as possible (if any field does not apply to you, simply leave it blank), to make this a seamless and hopefully painless procedure, so we may focus on more pleasurable pursuits.
I hope to meet with you very soon!
xxoo,
(Your Name Here)
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FOR THE SAFETY AND DISCRETION OF BOTH YOU AND I, PLEASE SUBMIT THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION/DOCUMENTATION;
ALL INFO IS CONFIDENTIAL AND WILL NOT BE SHARED WITH ANYONE! THIS IS FOR SECURITY AND VERIFICATION PURPOSES ONLY!
IF YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH SUPPLYING SUCH INFORMATION, IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE, HOWEVER, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT I, AS A PROVIDER, AM UNCOMFORTABLE ACCEPTING ANY BOOKINGS FROM NEW CLIENTS WHO CANNOT BE PROPERLY SCREENED AND VERIFIED.
***IF YOU FAIL TO PROVIDE SUFFICIENT INFORMATION BELOW TO IDENTIFY YOU AS A LEGITIMATE & SAFE HOBBYIST, YOU WILL RELUCTANTLY BE DECLINED, UNFORTUNATELY.
PERSONAL DETAILS (This information will be kept confidential):
* Full Name (as printed on your Driver’s License)
* Home Address (must match address on your Driver’s License)
* Home Phone Number (your home phone will NEVER be contacted. This information is for verification purposes only):
* Work Address (To verify your place of employment is legitimate)
* Work Phone Number (& extension number, if applicable)
PLEASE SUBMIT THE FOLLOWING SCANNED DOCUMENTATION TO VERIFY YOUR LEGITIMATE IDENTITY:
* Recent Photo (jpg/png of head-shot is fine– this is to compare to the head shot on your Driver’s License)
* Scanned Copy of Driver License (Do NOT cross off or blur out your License Number!)
* Scanned Copy of your Passport OR Birth Certificate (or any other state or government issued documentation)
* Scanned Copy of RECENT Utility Bill (must have full name and address that match that on your Driver License- You may blur out or cross off any information not pertinent to identifying your full name, and residential address, i.e., any user names or passwords, Social Security number, etc. Do NOT cross off your bill’s account number– this will be used to verify you are the owner of this account! It MUST show the date, your full name and your home address! NO exceptions)
* Scanned Copy of RECENT Work PayStub or Voided Check [for Direct Deposits] from Employer (must have full name and address that match that on your Driver License- You may blur out or cross off any information not pertinent to identifying your name, address and employer. i.e., Bank information, Social Security number, etc.- It MUST show the date, your employer’s corporate location headquarters and/or address, your employer’s
phone number, your full name and your home address! NO exceptions).
HOBBYIST ONLINE PRESENCE DETAILS:
***PLEASE NOTE: PROVIDER REFERENCES MUST BE ESTABLISHED AND HAVE REVIEWS & CONTACT INFO ONLINE- NO EXCEPTIONS (LEAVE BLANK IF NO REFERENCES)***
* Provider Reference #1 if any: Name, Phone #, E-mail Address, Website Url:
* Provider Reference #2 if any: Name, Phone #, E-mail Address, Website Url:
* Member Review Board Url 1 if any (TER, Eccie, Redbook, Big Doggie, etc.):
- Member Screen Name 1:
* Member Review Board Url 2 if any (TER, Eccie, Redbook, Big Doggie, etc.):
- Member Screen Name 2:
* Member Review Board URL 3 if any (TER, Eccie, Redbook, Big Doggie, etc.):
-Member Screen Name 3:
* LINKS TO REVIEWS YOU HAVE WRITTEN if Any (TER, Redbook, Eccie, Big Doggie, etc.):
- Link 1:
- Link 2:
* Screening Site URL 1 (Date-Check, RS2K, P411, etc) if applicable:
- Screening Site Member ID# 1:
* Screening Site URL 2 (Date-Check, RS2K, P411, etc) if applicable:
- Screening Site Member ID# 2:
IF THIS IS AN OUTCALL TO A HOTEL, PLEASE SUBMIT THE FOLLOWING
INFORMATION TO VERIFY YOUR IDENTITY:
* Name of Hotel:
* Address of Hotel:
* Phone Number of Hotel:
* Hotel Room Number:
* Name YOU used to reserve or check in with (Must match name on your Driver License):
Thank you in advance for your cooperation and understanding.
You will be contacted within 24 hours after I’ve received sufficient information to verify you.
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SOME MORE HELPFUL INFO / RESOURCES:
http://ActionAngie.com/blog
https://www.escortingadvice.org/book...ent-screening/
http://www.theinternetescortshandboo...eening-issues/
http://swop-nola.org/screening-101/
http://www.uknationalescortsassociat...ssary_160.html
http://escortingsafety.tumblr.com/po...1137/screening
https://www.nationalblacklist.com/article2.aspx
https://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/tag/screening/
http://www.myhoneysuckle.com/escort-screening-tool/
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ng%20escorting
https://safeiq.com/work/
Posted in Escort Resources, Resources | Tagged client screening, escort resources, escort safety, escort screening, how to become an escort, how to screen clients, newbie escort | 12 Replies
FUCK WORDPRESS AND LIVEJOURNAL! ADULT FRIENDLY BLOGS LIST
Posted on January 27, 2011
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FUCK WORDPRESS & LIVEJOURNAL! ADULT FRIENDLY BLOGS LIST:
Check Out Ruby Good Night Writing for more Resources
Kinky-Blogging – AUP – A WordPress based blog, with the only part of their TOS that would cause (me) any worries is “Blogs with the primary purpose of driving traffic to affiliate programs” being on the not allowed list, but “people writing their own original book, movie or game reviews and linking them to Amazon, or people linking to their own products on Etsy do NOT fall into this category.“
Red Light Host– TOS – Their TOS is very open, making (me) believe that there is little to no restriction on content at all. Their only mention of what you cannot have on their site is “[s]ites that exploit images of children under 18 years of age.” This may be a site where taboo niches can survive.
Freeblog.xxx – TOS - Another site where the only content limitation seems to be child pornography. “Sites that exploit images of children under 18 years of age.”Maybe another taboo niche option?
Nibblebit – TOS – They allow adult content, but you need to label your blog as containing adult content. They have the standard restriction on CP, but also include beast. “We allow users to upload and post legal adult content. The blog MUST be rated as Adult.”
ALSO: GYPSY’S FRIENDLY LIST:
Xobler – TOS – “… GYPSY’S FAVORITE FOR ADULT AFFILIATE MARKETING!
no illegal content
no torrents, no filelockers, no bb forum related topics
adult content (no cp. no beastiality, no scat, no incest)
you may open as many blogs as you like (but keep it common sense, when you register 1000 blogs in 1 week we gonna delete them cause thats spamming)
update your blog at least once in a month (blogs not being updated will be automatically deleted after 2 months)”…
THE XOBLER SKINNY – “Xobler Free blog host is the only free blog hosting service which offers RSS post import option (perfect for autoblog creation and mass blog creation)
Xobler is tolerant and lets you promote everything legal you like (yes, adult content is allowed like on every other adult blog host)
Unlimited amount of free blogs are allowed; As many sub domains as you want.” Affiliate Marketing IS ALLOWED: “Display banners and links from cash programs or start with any affiliate program you can find Xobler lets you submit your sblog to the big TGPs like thehun.com (and yes the Hun does accept galleries or vid embeds blog posts).”
Tumblr – Adult Content – Tumblr allows adult content with some restrictions. Tumblr blogs that are flagged as “NSFW” are pretty much invisible to mainstream viewers, but the audience who is seeking NSFW will most likely find your blog if you have the right key words and enough followers. Tumblr’s TOS state: “If your blog contains nudity, mature or adult-oriented content, please respect the choices of the people in our community and flag your blog NSFW from your Settings page.” Their SPAM policy is pretty tough too, so be careful not to post too many affiliate links or banners.
UNFRIENDLY
WordPress.com – Mature Content TOS – While they say they do “do permit mature content on WordPress.com”, there are a whole slew of caveats, including no links to “adult-oriented affiliate networks“, no “explicit sexual materials that can be considered pornographic” and no links to sex worker sites.
Livejournal – TOS - Another no-naked zone. “LiveJournal reserves the right, at its sole discretion, to suspend any Account, remove any Content, and/or restrict access to any part of the Service that contains full nudity, violence, obscenity…”
Blogger / Blogspot- No Longer Unfriendly? Read the UPDATE below- Content Policy - Even though they “do allow adult content on Blogger“, it also says “Do not use Blogger as a way to make money on adult content.” Clear as mud, right?
GYPSY’S UPDATE ON BLOGGER! *** As quoted from Katie Notopoulos BuzzFeed News Reporter ‘Google Reverses Blogger’s Adult-Content Ban’
“Due to feedback, Google decided to stop a measure that would force blogs with adult content to be private. Rejoice, all ye who dare post boobs on a blog!” posted on Feb. 27, 2015, at 11:07 a.m.
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NEWBIE ESCORT START-UP KIT
Posted on January 26, 2010
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“Newbie Escort Start up Kit”…
What’s a good start up kit and some good advice for new and upcoming escorts who are just starting out due to $$$ issues?
For Starters…
a) Consider the necessary items to keep you healthy, clean and safe from harm. A good start-up kit is:
**CA$H– A minimum of $150, preferably around $250-$1000
**TIME– Enough time to do thorough research; at least a full day to yourself, preferably a weekend.
**Digital Quality Camera (around at least 8 megapixels), or a smartphone camera of at least 8 megapixels.
**One or two pieces of lingerie and a pair of sexy heels (Target, Dots and Walmart have colorful bra and panty sets for under $20; Also, Payless, Rainbow and most consignment shops have high heels for under $20, if you are strapped for cash)
**Toiletry Essentials: Mini Mouthwash, Mints/Gum, baby wipes, mild soaps and lotions (nothing too strong), etc.
**Latex Condoms (polyurethane is fine too, but latex is CDC-recommended) in every size; **Latex-Safe Lubricant (preferably water-based). If you don’t know how to use condoms or which lubes are the safest for you, read up:
http://www.dummies.c…s-possible.html
**The address of and Directions to the nearest emergency contraceptive carrier. Hopefully you’ll never have to utilize such a service, but better safe than sorry.
**Pepper Spray or taser gun, and a faux gun (to scare away predators); hopefully you’ll NEVER have to use this, but you never know if you’ll be in a dangerous situation where you’d be otherwise defenseless.
b) Buy a cheap pay-as-you-go phone so you don’t have to give your personal number out or be worried about answering work calls at inappropriate moments. You can also destroy the SIM card whenever you decide to stop the work. Another option is Google Voice, which allows you to have two lines on one phone, thus saving you $$$.
c) Have a computer or wi-fi/4-G capable smartphone handy to quickly and effectively place ads simultaneously in several places. Some may say it’s not imperative to have internet access, but I disagree. If you want to optimize your exposure to the right clients, you must have internet access in this day and age.
d) Learn the terms and acronyms used in the escort industry to avoid misunderstandings with potential clients:
http://dating.com/ar…t-abbreviations
e) Take some decent photos! Most cameras have a function that allows timed self portraits. Take advantage of that. Try to refrain from cell phone photos; they look cheap and low quality. Even webcam pics are better than cellphone pics.
f) Create A website! Grab a FREE website, blogsite or photo portfolio site at one of the following urls:
http://EscortDesign.com
http://EscortSite.com
http://EscortBook.com
http://webs.com
http://blogger.com
http://shutterfly.com
g) Advertise! Try starting out FREE and CHEAP first with:
FREE:
http://openadultdirectory.com
http://escortpost.com
http://localescortpages.com
http://NaughtyReviews.com
http://avenue-x.com
http://cityadx.com
http://miami.worldescortguide.com
http://www.miamiescorts.biz/
http://selectmiami.com
http://fantasyescortguide.com
http://cityoflove.com
http://myproviderguide.com
http://providerreport.com
http://lustlust.com
http://playpages.com
http://miami-dade.cl…female-escorts/
http://escortography.com
http://escortway.com
http://exotics.com
http://escortmeetings.com
http://southerngfe.com
http://sexyescortads.com
http://www.escortdir…orts-miami-323#
http://www.femalecompanions.com/
http://www.mynewback…escorts.php-420
CHEAP:
http://cityvibe.com (please be extra alert and screen vigorously here)
http://backpage.com (please be extra alert and screen vigorously here)
http://verifiedplaymates.com
http://supermodelescorts.com
http://miamisescorts…nt-escort-girls
LATER, as you gain more reviews and experience, you’ll want to gravitate toward P411, TER and Eros. The investment for Eros is a little high, but your first date will cover the cost and the rest of your dates will be pure profit, so if you really think about it, Eros is a good deal icon_wink.gifh) Rent an incall asap, whether a nice hotel via priceline.com discounts, or a private studio or apartment.
Try shacking up with another escort to reduce private incall co$ts. Keep your incall comfortable and clean. Add little romantic accents like candles, $1 red light bulbs, crisp cream-colored sheets, and . Go the extra mile and grab a few fresh flowers, incense, feather boas, Super Walmart $2.50 grapes/strawberries and $5 wine.
Find transportation, either a driver, your own car, or public transportation (not recommended), if you intend to do outcalls.
i) Take an effective Crash course in SEX EDUCATION to keep informed and educated on STD’s, Sexual Health, Rape and Violence against Women. HERE is a quick primer I wrote in this forum (you must be logged in as a provider to read):
http://independentgi…-safer-sex-101/
j) Become well acquainted with the following client screening AND blacklist sites and utilize them for every single potential customer:
http://Preferred411.com
http://VerifyHim.com
http://Date-Check.com
http://NationalBlacklist.com
http://Dangerzone411.com
DOWNLOAD THIS FREE SCREENING MANUAL FROM PILLOWTALKFORUM:
http://pillowtalkfor…ction=page;id=9
OR, DOWNLOAD AND USE THIS SCREENING FORM I COMPILED BELOW, WHENEVER YOU WANT:
http://www.fileswap…._form.docx.html
USE THIS FREE SCREENING TOOL:
http://www.myhoneysu…screening-tool/
AND TRY SAFE OFFICE TO SCREEN AND FOR TOURING:
http://www.safeoffice.com/
SOME OTHER QUICK START UP TIPS TO CONSIDER (read more at saafe.info):
1) Think about your privacy.
Decide on a working name for yourself – don’t use your real name unless you want everyone knowing your personal business. Decide if you are happy to use photos showing your face or other identifying info. If you aren’t, don’t give them to anyone – once they are out there, you lose all control over what happens to them.
If you decide on a website, do not register your own domain name without adding a privacy option or your name and address will be available to all via a simple “WHOIS” search. If someone else registers it for you, then make sure you have proof that it is actually yours.
2) Get the money first.
That includes getting the cash from clients before anything happens and, if you decide to use an agency, not giving them any money until you have cash in your hand from a client.
3) Think about your sexual health.
The vast majority of escort bookings involve being sexual with men. While using condoms each time you have intercourse with clients or anyone is highly recommended, will you use another form of contraception too? Purchase branded condoms and make sure you don’t run out – you don’t want to have to run out during a booking to get more or to hope that ones supplied by a client are okay. Different escorts have different preferences for condoms – try several kinds. Have a few small and extra large ones handy just in case you get a maggot scrotum or donkey dick, and don’t forget the condom-friendly lube!
4) Think again about your sexual health.
Book an appointment at a local sexual health clinic and ask for the Hepatitis B jab which is given to people in personal services jobs such as nurses etc. If you will be ‘rimming’ or otherwise potentially in contact with clients’ poo, tell them and they should also give you the Hepatitis A jab. The service should be confidential so do explain to them what you do for a living so they can advise you accordingly but don’t offer your real name if you don’t feel comfortable doing so – you will need to give correct contact details though in case of a problem. Just remember what name you use when you book your next appointment!
5) Think yet again about your sexual and emotional health.
Decide on your boundaries and stick to them. If you don’t want to perform oral without a condom or be on the receiving end of anal sex, for example, then don’t – no matter who tells you that ‘everyone does’.
Think about what you really want from escorting and plan to review your objectives so you don’t end up bitter and twisted by doing and hating such a personal job – think of life beyond escorting.
6) Network with other escorts where possible -
This forum is for ladies who want to connect, share info and buddy up… Also attend LADIES’ GTs and socials. Look at and talk to others about what they are doing and how they are doing it to help decide how and where you want to market yourself.
7) Be aware that not everyone is nice.
As a new escort, you are seen as fresh meat by a variety of predators.
8] If you are unsure about anything, ask. No matter how basic or silly the question may seem.
As they say, the only silly questions are those you don’t ask. Join a forum or two with a safe environment to ask all sorts of questions which will be answered by people who have been there and done it. Some great forums with really good info for beginners to advanced providers are the Ladies Forums of the following boards:
http://VerifyHim.com
http://PillowTalkForum.com
http://CertifiedtoProvide.com
http://NaughtyReviews.com
http://TheEroticReview.com
http://IndependentGirls.com
Some other great resources chock full of info are:
http://SAAFE.info
http://dating.com/ar…cort-resources/
http://StripperWeb.com
http://fairywhoremother.com
UPDATE: ANOTHER DECENT GUIDE:
https://www.reddit.com/r/SexWorkers/...e_read_before/
What else can we add to the NEWBIE ESCORT START UP KIT, Ladies?
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Escort and Sugar Baby Banking Considerations
Posted on May 25, 2009
Banking seems to be a common trouble spot for escorts, dommes and sugar babies. Here are some tips for making cash deposits and what types of accounts are most beneficial for sugar babies, dommes and escorts.
Info
-The bank is required to automatically flag any deposit over $10,000.
-If you deposit $2,000 five times in one day, you’ll still get flagged.
-Any deposit the bank deems to be suspicious will be flagged.
-You only report interest paid to the IRS if your account is interest bearing. This means, if you have a savings account or an interest bearing checking account, you will accrue interest and must report this on your taxes.
-Most accounts require the owner to have a certain amount of money in the account or a penalty must be paid. Some banks will let you set up alerts to guard against this.
-Any one person may give you a gift of $14,000 per year without having to pay a gift tax.
-The giver of the gift is responsible to pay the gift tax, not the receiver. However, arrangements can be made if necessary.
-If you have cash that you don’t want to deposit, get a safe. A really, really good safe. One that is fire proof, water proof, etc. You don’t want your hard earned money to go to waste.
Tips
-Set up accounts at multiple banks. Banks do not communicate with one another and this allows you to make smaller deposits more frequently.
-Do not deposit the same exact amount each time.
-Mix the deposits. In some cases, I will deposit cash and personal checks not related to SB/SD work.
-Look like you have money. Dress nicely, have your makeup done, wear some jewelry. If you are dressed in sweats and UGGs, it may seem a bit suspicious.
-Visit the same branch and make friends with the tellers. Always be polite, chatty, and smile. They will get to know you as a regular customer and trust you. If they know you regularly make larger deposits, they won’t be suspicious.
-Find banks that have ATMs that will immediately deposit your cash. Newer PNC banks have these ATMs. This allows you to make deposits after hours and no teller is present. These transactions are not flagged unless they exceed the $10,000 limit.
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