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Originally Posted by RJinLR
I have changed my mind on this issue after a couple of years. I actually feel more comfortable and inconspicuous at hotels - at first I felt like everyone was watching me but now I realize it's not that way. If you walk in like you know exactly what you're doing, the most you'll get at the front desk is a smile or hello.
I'm much more concerned about nosy neighbors at a lady's residence. Everywhere I've lived you have that one old lady (or old couple) on the block who knows when everyone is coming and going. One of my neighbors now is a retired couple who are ALWAYS outside watching everybody come and go. So there's no chance I'd do OC to my place...can only assume providers have neighbors like this too.
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I could see how that might be an issue if a lady is running major traffic, short bng, 15 minute, 30 minute type of appointments, multiple dates a day, etc. That's definitely something that would draw unwanted attention.
Personally, I have a 2 hour incall minimum (which usually stretches into 3-ish + otc) and I see no more than one person a day at my home... it's also typically the same people visiting, regulars. A lot of days, I don't see anyone here. I do outcalls also, so it's not a huge deal. It's a balance.
Also, I'm a 44 year old single empty-nester. I think even the nosiest of neighbors would expect that I would have an occasional gentleman caller.
Having the ability to gauge a providers concern for her own situation, and her obvious exercise of appropriate caution, should be a factor to consider in residential incall situations.